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Also, I just read a few comments going "my man says I'm not like other girls"... antagonizing women isn't something to be proud of.
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--real to themselves is something only they know, we don't decide it for them based on what society told us is fake.
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Kinda agree except the "real girl" part... a lot of the stuff you listed doesn't automatically a girl fake. A girl can care about her hair or don't give a damn about it, still deserves respect and love and to be called "real"; wether someone isn't being --
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@Cocoa22, No need to offend you, as you make a very good point, however, these are all things men scientifically want in a woman. Most of the times physical appearance is very important and so is how they act, this article doesn't dictate this is what you should do, it just says what people find attractive. Heck, I find these traits #attractive in everybody. Not everything is what #society thinks, although some of it is, but most of it is true blatant #science. And that is what is true and we can't do without.
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Sadly, good looks are very important for a man. It's all from our evolution, just how women put men in two different categories. The lover and the provider.
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Nice one!
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@Cocoa22, I agree that women should just be themselves and not follow what society dictates them to do.
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Being a good driver... who does not know how to drive these days? I think the main concern here is the confidence among women.
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I agree I need to listen more and not always hear my man whenever he speaks . I tend to just hear him and not reply back to majority of the conversations we have. But now I know so thanks for this post
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Yes being a women is so hard that I wish I could change sex
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The guy I love is the guy that finds other girls good looking and yet he never finds me the same does he like me then?
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Sorry tbh
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Is this even true for all races
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Sorry to say this.. but all these traits described in this post are very traditional social constructs of what society thinks 'modern femininity' should be. Just be yourself irrespective of what society thinks you should be ✌️
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I loved every single post, how profound and true
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@pikachu_lover20 thats it 👍🏻
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Sounds soooo freakimg simple ....but you have to work hard for it
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For some reason simple never worked for me ;(
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Very simple ;)
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What you see is what you get, take it or leave it. Don't like it? Leave me alone. Simple.
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Being a woman is hard.
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About being a strong woman... I think I'm messing up my relationship with my man... I'm always negative, pessimistic and I cry all the time. I have to show him that I'm strong. And I know it's not too late.
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While it is over simplistic to make these lists, it had been my experience that girly girls may attract some men in the beginning, it's women who aren't afraid of being strong, independent and capable that keep the interests of the type of guy I'd want to be with.
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@Moragn: I HAD THE SAME PROBLEM. WAIT TILL U GET 2 UNI: THERE WILL BE A BIGGER POOL OF GUYS 2 CHOSE FROM! AND DEF 1 WITH WAY BIGGER MUSCLES THAN U, WHO U WILL LIKE N LIKE U BACK! WHO KNOWS? HE MIGHT BECOME THE L❤️VE OF UR LIFE! 😍
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@Deborah: BREAK UP HIS ENGAGEMENT N MARRY HIM INSTEAD!!! HE's NOT MARRIED YET..... Don't LET HIM ESCAPE! #telenovela
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The cooking thing is very archaic and the makeup thing is very ignorant. Not all women wear makeup to impress men. If they feel more comfortable wearing makeup, then don't bitch about it. Women wear makeup for themselves.
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Great post! Your points hit the spot :)
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i like a guy who can talk for hours
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@Debra , Let me ask you Lady's Why do you hate what GOD made? You go for plastic surgery, WHY. GOD made us each unique. You can do better than GOD. SORRY your wrong. Fat lips, not. Big boobs, short term, Time will tell. I am 68, have choosin wrong for years, all cheated, or tried to kill me. If you can not accept what GOD made you, You will never accept a MAN. You girls love playing games, I thought men were bad at checking out women,Boy was I surprised when it is all about the thrird week with a lot of girls, you had your eyes in another mans paints more than in my eyes. I do not want to be waited on hand and foot, I want a COMPAION, With a Huge Heart, does not take offince if late to dinner, because someone is broke down or needs a hand, In stead of ILU, show it, walk up behind or beside , kiss my hand , an arm, or neck. If and I really mean if, he asks why, cause I felt you in me. Do I do it. DAMN RIGHT, and I do not care who is around. That is love, or only a little. If you turn down the little notice, you may not get the big ones at A L L.
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Being yourself and keep smile often make you are sexy.
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I think that being down to earth is number one. I always try to honest, even if it's brutal.
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@Koulinh, i support u hani, i too hate plastic surgery
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@Alex Evans, hi
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Number 7~~~ I hate plastic surgery....
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And still never enough .. Just be you never ever fake yourself just because the man your love.. It Takes two to tango
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great post
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I also agree with number 7. My man was attracted to me 1 for my personality, and 2 because he said I wasn't fake like a lot of women he knows. He loves that I am not afraid to be myself.
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I agree with number two. My man is spontaneous and would love me to be also. Also he loves to hear me sing, but he also sings to me but don't like to sing in front of others.
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💩to all the haters who commented this post
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Great post love it so helpful thanks
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Looks Like MEN want everything -_-
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Excellent article n very helpful !! Thanks for nice article :)
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i have all the qualities...............
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Hello
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The guy I'm talking to now told me that I was very outgoing and to him "THAT IS A BIG PLUS!"
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@Fatuma Mohamed, if you can make a great sandwich, most guys don't mind if you can't make all the other good stuff right away. Most men LOVE sandwiches.
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@Leestic, yeah. so true. What a waste of love. tsk.
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@Leestic, I agree! I was married for 6yrs. worked o/t like a mule, did ALL of the housework, cooking, bill-paying. My ex acted like a spoiled brat teen. Hmmm, maybe it's better to stay single after all!!
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Sounds like men want everything
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Take all of these with a grain of salt. There are many examples that prove this list to be faulty. Overall, don't kill yourself for the guy. BE yourself. Then you'll never have to remember if you're following any rules like theses.
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I'm not a good cook 😑😑
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@Cid, this may not be true since I've never really been in a relationship (:P), but I'd rather have someone be spontaneous and be themselves, than for them to hold themselves back or be too shy to do things they love.
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"Pretty is, as pretty does." Pick a man who values both.
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Making breakfast for him was great in the morning. His way of saying thank you it was delicious was the most amazing feeling!
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Its funny how a woman can have all these qualities but he still cheats on her. Very interesting
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@Michifer, I absolutely love your comment! I feel the same way lol
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I have all of these qualities and yet :'( just bcuz im a bit chubby it doesnt count
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So... not to put a fly in this very nice ointment... but do men really appreciate spontaneity, or do they just want you to do what they want, when they want, with little thought to you or inconvenience to themselves? Because I don't really see the authors elaboration on being spontaneous having anything to do with that, and more with just being comfortable in your own skin and being genuine... which should be everyones goal. Just IMHO.
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very true
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A man loves a woman who can cook but some men don't care. I can throw it down in the kitchen but my husband doesn't caw if I don't do it at all because he is a great cook himself.
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This is me ❤️ and also one thing you missed it that all guys watches porn and they are to shy to admit that and if you want to take him in trust the best way to tell him that shall we watch together in bed and I believe your man will never go to others plus sometimes taking care of him like giving him massage and when he is in bed ,men loves massage specially when they come late after all day working and long stress day,and when they home late mornings always give them bed coffee and do his stuff like wash his dishes,iron his clothes and washing and take care of him as he is your baby and I believe he will always love you and will never go to other women because he never wants to loose a women who care for him
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contradictory and insulting. I would love to see men and women sharing household duties such as cooking. I think you're sending a very old-fashioned message to women that domestic abilities determine our success in love. I would say if a man's 'brain turns on to note the woman...would be a good wife', we should probably question whether the relationship is genuine. Another clique boring article.
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First you say spend money for make-up so after you say don't wear it stay natural. WHAT?????
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His was helpful
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Very true I can connect
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The entries are just so realistic that I can really relate with. So when this blog talks about characteristics men want from men, here is another blog that talks about the point of view of women concerning their interest in man. Hope you have time to read it. http://theeasterneuropedating.blogspot.com/2015/03/a-woman-who-changed-by-love.html
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These R so helpful
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What do you do after saying nasty things and blowing off the rip how do I make it wright
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Interesting
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very interesting and useful.
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@Tori, He's probably afraid that he would be rejected. Try to compliment him, try to hint to him that he interests you.
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@Hannah Umphers, he sure does but have you seen him in real life
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Too bad I don't give a rat's ass about men and what they like. Mai nessun m'avro!
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Perfect tips , thanks dear
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These are good tips (y)
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very nice really
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ammm im a man and some of them i like maybe when i get older ill want some others but you want some advice we dont like controling women that try to convert us in their blue prince i hate that shit
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@Gracey, believing a lie!! straight up girl He loves you THE WAY YOU ARE. If there is something about your appearance you want to change then change it, but not for him alone but for you.
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Tell me that wasn't valid, Ms. Moderator: My point was, most of your readers are looking for ways to deal with "men", rather than looking at the man directly in front of them. Tell me that's not true.
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Why are women chasing after men, rather than getting to know a man?
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They really like their personal space.
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#16 is space.
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Motherly instinct is REALLY under rated and REALLY attractive. It also likely attracts the right guys. Guys, however, don't care if a girl eats dressingless salad or pizza. If they instruct you on your health, ditch em fast, cuz that is never gonna stop
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eeeeh it seems men like it all what about us women?
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funny
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#16 Her Voice #17 Your Touch
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Aren't these traits that WOMEN like in men?? A tad antiquated...if my man doesn't like the way I drive, deal breaker? NO...
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It's great if you are all these things, but seriously?? Why is always women should be like this women should be like that... It's ridiculous! How about just finding a man who loves you for you. You don't have to be all these things to keep your man happy!
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okay so theres this guy i really like and he CLAIMS he likes me and that he doesn't want to be with anyone else, yet theres this one girl that he cannot keep his eyes off of, even when he's around me...it gives me such an empty feeling inside every time i see that he's doing it :( i want to know if he actually wants me or is just using me
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I have never had a boyfriend. Perhaps this could help. Boost my confidence and be more out there and me :)
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Hey! I need some advice. So I lived in a small town for three years and my best friend live two doors down. The thing is her brother is my age and I sort of like him on and off for those three years. In the last few months (during summer) my friend was always very busy and I ended up hanging out with her brother. We became very flirty with each other and I'm positive he like me back. One day I stayed over at his house pretty late and we were on the couch and he had his arm around me. We didn't kiss but we were close. Then one day he just stopped talking to me on Facebook (which we didn't talked much on, maybe twice). When we were in person he seemed so happy to see me but when I messaged him he would see it and not reply. Now I moved 8h away but I'll see him pretty often since his sister is my best friend. I tried getting over him but I can't get him out of my head. What do you think happened? What should I do? Should I wait a and try to message him again? I don't want to have a long distance relationship but just can't move on for some reason
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"I hope you like it" a little too much a perfectionist.. xD but anyways
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there are still few things I need to change in myself.. but the spontaneous, being funny, and tomboyish part are too much XD.. I'm not so serious sometimes it seems like I am a teenager rather then 24 year old girl.. the driving license I do not have.. I am a good cook even if I say so.. and yet, I tell him all the time "I hope it's nice" "
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well... got a few things to work on. (good driver) but this list pretty much nails it.