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hi. i'm in my early 30s but we women always need some good relationship advice. last october, for the first time in my life, i started to work with a personal trainer to lose weight. he was a nice guy and we started to get along quite well. at the beginning we were working out for 3 days a week, but in time it increased and now we workout 6 days a week. in mid november, i had applied for a job and got turned down. when i told him what happened, he immediately told me not to worry because he had found me a job. he said he wanted to start a personal training/fitness business and wanted me to be his partner. having spend my entire life overweight, i had no idea about fitness before i met him and i was (and still am) sure that he has a thousand friends in the business who would be of more use to him than me. but i accepted and we started our online business in december. we kept on working out together and started to have weekly meetings outside the gym about our business. but since the new year, it feels like something has changed. our weekly meeting became lunches that we go 3-4 times a week, and he takes me with him to most of his personal training sessions as his assistant. i started to spend an awful lot of time in the gym. when we go to have our "meetings" we end up chatting about other, more personal stuff more than the business. he became very protective and caring. we havent earned any money yet, so he hasnt payed me for e work i do, but he pays 80% of the time we go out. also, even though i had already paid the gym for my sessions with him, he only gets paid when i sign for the session afterwards and he doesnt let me sign half of the time. he looks after his parents and younger sibling, so he needs the money and right now, it feels like he spends more money on me than what he makes off me. he is very protective of his personal space and is not open to any kind of flirting with anyone else but he allows me to act flirtious, and even tell him off about going out with his friends in front of other people, and he reciprocates. people around us dont know about the business we do and probably think we're close friends, but i dont know if anyone can become close friends in 5 months, let alone do business together. we have a very strong connection i cannot deny, one look on his face tells me what he feels at that particular moment and vice versa. i need to ask what you guys think, did i just get myself an adult, opposite sex best friend or is there something going on here?
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Hey, so like I have this guy bestfriend an I've known him for like 6 years but lately we've been seeing each other daily. I find him like teasing me and messing around with me since we work at the same place. He has started started acting different around me, he tries to touch me all the time. He has said that I'm cute and stuff, and if I think he's attractive and what I see in guys that I'm interested in. But I don't know if he truly like me because he likes someone else and tells me how that person is so cute and he just confusing me, so I just don't know???
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Please help me! I really like this guy but I don't know if he likes me. He always brushes up against my side, and tries to make me laugh. The only thing is that he tries to make everybody laugh.
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i have all this signs, not just 8 signs, he's also a bitter when it comes to the other guy, but he denied when i ask him, why is it?
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yeah, he asks questions. alot! even about the bible
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So I've like this guy since last summer, we've hung out several times, and he's kissed me like twice, when we'd be around each other he'd always tease me and mess around, he's told me that's he's attracted to me, but a while back he mentioned that he doesn't want a relationship. We still hangout and he texts me all the time, especially drunk, always asking to hangout.. Idk if i should tell him and ruining my friendship, if he doesn't feel the same way. Help?!
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Okay so my guys friend and I have been friends for 3 years now.. And we were texting a couple of days ago.. And he told me you can tell me anything we can trust each other and no matter what I'll always be there for you. And everyday I go by his locker to go see my friend Alyssa he has to stop me and he usually hugs me or ask me to help him with something.. Then he would spray his cologne on while I'm just sitting there. Then when I would leave he grabs my hand pulls me close to him just to say thank you. And on our second year of friendship I was okay with the little friendly hug thing because I do that with all my friends we us to hug to the side u kno like the good ole hip to hip hug.. But now when I hug him he pulls me close to him and puts his head over my shoulder the hug usually last a while.. And I'm not going to deny it but when hugs me it's like a big teddy bear.. Another thing is he got me a rose and a little coke teddy bear for valentines day. But did I mention he's got a girlfriend!!! Something that makes that even worse his girlfriend is my best friend like ever... We have been friends for 8.5 years now. What does it mean? And what do I do?
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so I have a guy friend and we have been friends for a few months He always asks how i'm doing or how my day at work was and he accidentally called me boo when we were talking on the phone once sometimes he teases me or asks me to help with something. is this a sign that he likes me
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All throughout high school I was with my ex. In 10th grade, which was my first year with my ex, I met my best friend who was a guy. We did everything together, we would talk forever and you could always catch him by my side. I started getting feelings for him but ignored them because of my boyfriend at the time. I didn't want to hurt anybody. Years passed and I was in my senior year of high school, I pushed away my best friend after there was drama between my ex and I, but I always felt close to my best friend even though I wasn't in contact with him all that much. I still loved my best friend so much, but it was too late. He got a girlfriend and he was happy. My ex and I didn't work out at all and I regret everything. I should've told my best friend how I felt, I always had a feeling he liked me too. We would've fit perfectly together.
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Ok, so I've known my best friend for four years and for at least 3 of those years he has given signs that he really likes me and I have deflected until recently when I found out that I may be having similar feelings for him. What do I do? How do I act? We both dance around the subject and he means so much to me that I don't wanna damage the relationship but it may be heading this way anyways.
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Ok, so I've liked this guy for a while now. he told me he liked me a tiny bit over text and so now at school it is kind awkward. on days he will tease me and flirt. but on some days we don't even speak. he's been giving me mixed messages. I don't know what I should do. Please help!!
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I have this guy friend and we\'re practically best friends and I love that. We text every single day and at school, he trusts me and I trust him and we\'re together for so much of the day and he makes me so ridiculously happy! I like him though but I don\'t know if he likes me back or he sees me as a friend only..
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This is so true.
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Have you tried to talk to him at all? That might be a good plan! :)
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i have this guyfriend and he used to fun flirt with me before.he treats me very casual now.n i like him alot,n he doesnt know :(
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Hi Kirstin! I think that the guy does like you, but he is just shy and scared to ruin the friendship! I'd flirt with him a bit more and see what happens, who knows, maybe he will mention something!
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Hi M! I think that, that is the hardest thing to handle, what happens if you break up? If you reassure each other that nothing is going to change if you break up, then go for it! :)
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Oh no! That's so horrible! I know it's hard to date your BFF, but it can be done -- if you are both committed to having a friendship if you do break up!
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Dated too many friends. My bestfriend and me went out, I fell in love, she dumped me. Now, we can't stand to be in the same room as eachother. You can't pull it off because you can't go back and forget something like that.
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Aww! It all depends on how he acts around you. Does he act different around you then his friends?
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Hi Suzi! I think that you may have waited a little too long. He may care for you, but it sounds like he really likes this girl and he wants to get your opinion on places to take her because you are his BFF. I'd say that you should move on. :)
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My BFF guy friend likes me know and I like him but I don't know if we should date because if we break up I don't want anything to change. And he haven't asked me out yet but we both know we like eachother
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@kirstin, Well for one I just want to tell you how I feel: first I know how you feel. Whenever I look at my guy I can't help but blush and smile, and whenever he takes my stuff I can't help but think it's cute because whatever he does it cute. And the way he is with kids makes me feel like if we did get together than thats how he would treat ours, the cute way he does it((: His big brown eyes can calm me down, and make me smile... and honeslty him and his looks and his personality got me out of depression not the Tuesdays and Thursdays and Wensdays and Sundays but the way that he became a good friend. The way that he cares for everyone even if he doesn't like them. His smile can make me smile till I see him again. I know that when two people from my _____family left he bumped into me and smiled becuase he knows everything I am telling you now and a little more. He know that when we hug its like in the movies and everything goes black and its just me and him hugging, and everything is okay. Everything is just the way God planned when I am with him. I feel like I am losing him everyday because he talks to other girls and is a complete package and any girl would be lucky to have him. But then I think to myself everyday, he's never going to like me because I'm just a ugly oridinary girl that has anger problems over the dumbest shit! And that every girl that he talks to is prettier than me... they have all this beauty and their great people and he should love one of those people because he shouldn't love a ugly, open-minded, random, and annoying person. He got me outta depression, and its all because seeing him gives me hope that everyone is strong in a way, some people just need a little more help sometimes to realize that and he was my little more help.. I just hope that he really does like you Calli. And that you understand that he said it was weird how me and him didn't talk face to face anymore so I try to make is less weireded as he would say. I hope you have fun with him this summer, because even before this I have been talking to YOUR tristan about leaving for about a month now because I need to work on school and I want to do cheerleading next year, and get a job. By the way this is Courtney...((: surprise you have been talking to the one that you dislike when it comes to Tristan... I hope that if he does like you that he'll get the guts to ask you out unlike what he did with me. And by the way he doesn't like girly-girls...I still remember when he liked Zoey and admited that he likes a girl that is a little girly, but yet a tom-boy. And doesn't care to burp infront of him, and loosen up and play maybe a little football or a intence game of something with him. Its just an FYI on your road to become Tristan's crush... and Calli... I love you as a friend but you know how I am with him, so please don't be affended when I don't really talk to you anymore... I don't really want a repeat...N I am hopefully going to be leave Raivu and Cedar Srings Church this week....trust its not anything you said it is something again that I have been talkin to Tristan about for about a month... Have fun((: Love you BUSH...
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@SWAGGER24000000000000, OK YA I DEFF AM AND YA I DO LOVE COURTNEY SHES MY FRIEND BUT I SAW TRISTAN FIRST AND IM SORRY BUT HE IS MINE AND THATS ALL I HAFT TO SAY.WE LOOK GOOD TOGETHER WE ARE REALLY CLOSS AND IM NOT LETTING ANY ONE RUINE THAT. HE IS JUST SO PERFECT AND GREAY WITH KIDS HIS SMILE BRITGHNES MY DAY AND HE IS JUST SOOOOO DREAMY!!!:) AND YA SHE IS RELLY OVER PROTECTIVE!!!!!! AND THATS WHY I WOULD NEVER TELL HER AND NOT CAUSE SHE LIKES HIM I WANA MARRY HIM AND SO DOSE SHE WE BOTH CANT HAVE HIM SO I WILL FIGHT BUT I DONT KNOW IF I WILL IN THAT WAY...... TO FIGHT VILONT IM NOT VILONT BUT IF IT COMES DOWN TO THAT I MIGHT.......
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@kirstin, Well, girly the way you are talking it seems like this Courtney girl might catch on to what you are doing. By the way that you are describing her she seems a little umm I don't know the word....Oh yeah over protective of him. And sometimes with guys being a little flashy can actually turn them away. If he is a good christian boy and is the pastor son (this is only from expirence) they want a good girl, but maybe a little more tom-boy style with it, and he might be a little perverted but only to other guys, and only to girls he doesn't really like like... Again thats only from expirence. And no offence...but you seem almost like you feel threatened by this Courntey girl..Are you?? And if you and Courtney are so close why don't you just tell her that you like him? If she is a good friend then hopefuly she might understand but like with most girls she may be differnet around you because of it. Its just a natural thing, and a lot of girls just don't realize they are doing it. If anything leads up to a physical fight, would you atcually do it? Or would you back down?
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@SWAGGER24000000000000, WELL IM PLANNING TO FLIRT MORE WITH TRISTAN AND MESS WITH HIM MORE:))AND JUST KINDA GET COURTNEY AWAY FROM HIM ALSO TRY INVITNG HIM MORE PLACES.AND AT RAIVU AND CHURCH IM GONNA LAUGH OR SMILE AT WHAT HE SAYS EVEN IF ITS NOT FUNNY OR DRESS CUITER LIKE MORE FLASHY AND SUMMER WILL BE AMAZING SKIRTS SHORTS OH YA!!!!!:) BUT YA I WILL WIN HIM!!!!:)))) HE IS MINE SO COURTNEY WILL JUST HALF TO BACK THE FUCK OFF!!!":)
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@kirstin, Thats how I feel about this but most of my friends know that I fight for my guy, and I'm not saying it's bad to fight for a guy... Well girly if you feel like you need to fight for him...how do you even plan to do it?? Physical, or verbal?? I'm sorry, I am kind of nosy, and if you want to come up with a plan and tell me I would love to hear it. I don't know how I am going to fight for my guy because I am a little shy, but maybe you can help me, possibly((:
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@SWAGGER24000000000000, wow im sowwie about that.....:(((( i really am.and ya ik what you mean there is this one girl named courtney that is like tryna take him from me i mean i love her and she is my friend but i feel she is taking him from me and i knew him first and i can just tell he liked me trust me:))) and he is so cute he has the cutiest smile and the best eyes i just LOVE HIM WITH ALL MY HEART AND YES I WILL ALWAYS BE WILLING TO FIGHT FOR HIM. HE IS THE PERFECT PACAGE AND I LOVE HIM AND IF I HAFT TO FIGHT MY FRIEND TO GET HIM I WILL IM SOWWIE BUT HIS MINE AND THATS HOW I FEEL!!!:)))) TRISTAN IS MINE AND ALWAYS WILL BE:)))
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@kirstin, Well I understand where your coming from, but I've learned that when your fighting for a guy that may not like you...you just end up losing him all together. You have him as your everything and you try so hard to get his attention, and then the friendship that you have is ruined. I expirenced that not to long ago... He is still kind of my everything, and I don't want to let him go. Everyone tells me that I should give up because he will never like me. But he teases me with these flirtias actions, and he did like me before but I feel that my mind is making things up from a chemical released into my brain to make me think differently. I hope that one day he either chooses me or I learn that he's not worth my time. I spend almost all my time trying to text him 24/7 and I completely understand where you're coming from because your story is almost exactly like mine. Except I try to keep girls away from him because I am afraid of losing him. I feel as if I let him talk to other girls that giving him up will come sooner. So as I said before I don't want any other girls to get like me...they get their hopes up way to high and everyone encourages them and theres no one to tell them to not get their hopes high because we need that. We all need someone is going to openly tell you and honestly tell you that if he doesn't like you that he isn't going to...I'm sorry. The hard reality is that no matter what happens not everyone guy is going to like you. Not everyone is going to like who you date...I just want to mainly let you know that it is going to be hard to get over a boy that you really like, but you need a shoulder to cry on and an honest friend so you don't lose track on how beautiful you are and how strong you can be. I just hope that if you are willing to fight for him, you know what you are going to go up agianst because strenght can lie anywhere in someone. My strenght for example lies when I am anger or extremely sad. That's why I try to enclose myself so I won't hurt anybody... And just remember, no guy is worth your tears unless it is your father, brother, or best friend...I found out these things the hard way, so I might be your short-cut(:
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@SWAGGER24000000000000, i see what u mean but he is so cute and i cant move on his my world a evreything and im willing to fight for him!!:)
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@kirstin, Hey...don't get your hopes up to high. Guys are confusing, and if they don't like you they don't like you. I've dealt with this situation before, and my friend went through this a while ago...So I'm going to give you the same advice: Girly, you need to pray to God about how he feels about you, and don't try to hard to make your way to him, if he likes you then he'll come to you. And sorry beautiful, if he doesn't like you he doesn't like you and theres no way to change that. It just means that there is a better guy that God is saving for you because this one isn't right for you. She followed that advice and she ended up with a guy that loves her a lot, and treats her right. She and him are very serious and even though they are young they are talking about getting married after collage and moving in together maybe one day and having kids after their ready. I know it might seem harsh but sometimes that how you need to be told. I hope this helps in some way(:
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but ya i really think he likes me:)
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his name is tristan
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pleeez i really need some ones help i dont know what to think:(!
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hey i am having an issue right now im 16 so i have a guy best friend i see him on like Tuesdays and Thursdays and at church but sometimes on weekends. but ya so he is always takes my stuff and runs with it weather its my jacket or my sweater so i can chase him he also pokes me and comes up behind me and scares me . im really closs to his parents there the pastors of my church and they think of me as a daughter.he also invites me alot to places like snowboarding and stuff. and when i have problems he is there for me and he always says that he is to. he always try his best to make me smile when im sad or make me laugh :)). and i really like him like when im having the most horrible day just texting him could make me feel better. and we text every day and night and morning. but my friend asked if he liked me and he said no.yet he keeps showing me these signs. and i don't know but i really like him what do you think i need your help!!:(
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@Macy, if he talks with u a lot or if u catch him staring at u hee probably likes u! U should tots ask him out!
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@Suzi, he probs has feelings for u but just doesn't want an over distance relationship.
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@Lyndsie Robinson, I see him as a friend. He's nice, but he's kind of… I can't really explain, but not many ppl my age are dating so watevs!
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I think one of guy friends likes me... I hope so because I like him and my friends say we would be great together....
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That's awesome! Are you into him too?
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After reading this... I think my guy friend may actually like me. I swear, he has gotten more touchy with me.
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This is some me and one of my guy friends, but it's so sometimesy with him. I used think he likes me but now I'm a little iffy on the situation. ❓❓
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Hi Anna! How does he act around you? Does he act like he is into you?
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@Heather, hey pls help me too..... am in love with a fb frnd bt i think he lik me as a frnd...how can i fall in love with him :(...pls help me...
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I have a guy friend and we have been friends for 5 years now. We are like best friends but he is currently living in different country now and we still talk to each other every day via skype or message. Few year back we both used to have feelings for each other but we never admitted to each other. but now he is with this girl and he ask for my suggestion all the time and he tells me what he did in his date with this girl . he basically tells me everything and asks for my suggestion all the time to ask that girl out. but at the same time he cares about me too. I still have some feelings for him. Do you think he has any feelings for me or does he only take me as his best friend ...HELP!!!
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I think he definitely likes you! That's actually all kinds of adorable! :D Do you like him as well, or do you just see him as a friend?
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oks! tnx Heather :")
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Hi Jelly! I would say that you should flirt with him a bit and see what happens. Honestly, if he flirts back, all the better!
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@Heather Jensen, He acts....normal? i dont really know, but i sometimes catch him looking at me and whenever i go to his house for studies he always comes near me like really close like there's no gap between us...i guess he does that because we're bestfriends?? im really confuse-.-
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That's awesome! :) I'm glad you liked the article. How does your crush act around you though?
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hey:)))) tnx!! it really helped me a lot!!:)) He does all 8 things but..... I'm still worried cuz we both are sooo a like, we're both goofy & weird-.-lol Anyways...what if I'm just "one of the guys"??aaawch!! pls help!!!!:((((
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I know this guy that I think might like me. In 4th grade he sat next to me in class and always asked to borrow my crayons when we were coloring and always complimented my drawings. And he always started talking to me about random dumb thing that I didn't care about. In 5th grade he never sat next to me but once dropped the leg of a chair on my hand and he felt really bad and was like trying to take me to the nurse but I went by myself. This year his locker is like right next to mine and he always try's to butt in on my conversations when I'm talking to my friends or other boys. Does anyone think he like me?
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Aww! That's so awesome! Thank you That Guy! :)
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This post is on the money i am a guy and i have taken a hard fall for my best friend....but its a very touchy situation. Anyways all this stuff is true.
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The girls can definitely make the first move, too! Sometimes it's best just to let a guy know your feelings, even if you're subtle about it. The worst he can say is no, and if he decides to tell everyone, just stand up for yourself and turn it around on him by saying something like, "And clearly I was wrong." If he does something like that or just stops talking to you because you're honest about your feelings, he's not someone you need in your life anyway.
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Hi Carmen! If your friend is exhibiting these signs, that's still a good sign! Do you know the girl he's talking about, is she a real girl? If you don't know her or haven't seen her, that might just be a ploy. Even if it's not, he definitely could just be trying to get under your skin. If he did meet a girl, it's still not necessarily a bad thing -- it doesn't mean he doesn't like you too!
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Hi Alice! Guys can be confusing, but have you tried to talk to him about it at all? That might be a good idea!
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There are some days when he shows all these signs and more, but there are days that he treats me like any other of his female friends - or even remotely worse. I'M SO CONFUSED.
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That's awesome! It definitely sounds like he might be into you -- I think that you should flirt a little, see if you can take it to the next level.
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There is this guy he is in my gym and English i like him and idk what to do bc I am rlly scared to tell him that I like him bc what if he says no then goses and tells everyone and makes fun of me or stop talking to me. He is rlly country and he dose riffle I think if a guy likes a girl or even if the girl likes a guy and the guy like he but no one but him knows about it. I think that the guy should make the first move right? Can anyone help me why should I do?
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Thank you so much! .....Um i started to like my guy bestfriend..and now i feel akward hanging out with him. Each of these things describe him..but a few days ago he said he met this cool girl at school and that he doesnt think she likes him..idk if he was just saying that to see what ill say or he was being serious...
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Be brave and ask him out
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So I have a guy friend an I'm sorta into him and when we sit together e has his leg really close to my and he rocks his leg and we never shut up when we r around each other we always get into trouble for that we understand each others problems and we can tell each other everything. Is there a chance he likes me. He always makes me laugh no matter what he's funny and he always wants me to pair up with him or sit by him.
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Hi! We do have something like that! Here you go: http://love.allwomenstalk.com/signs-your-guy-best-friend-is-into-you/
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Hi Ali! It sounds like he is into you, he is just a little shy to actually reveal it to you. I would say that even though your friend claims that she likes him, you should go for him first. Just try to hang out with him alone, casually.
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Hi Pinky! If he has a girlfriend, I think you definitely need to back off. You don't want to get with a guy that has a girlfriend or get with a guy that isn't committed to you completely. Find someone that is worth your time and that is worth your dedication!
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hey im really wanting some tips to tell if your in love with your guy friend!!!
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Just mentioned the post on Twitter
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Hi Mouse! I'd say if the guy really, really listens to you, takes note of everything that you like, don't like and that makes you crazy, he could be into you. That is more than just being a good friend.
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"If your guy friend really listens to you, he is into you, without a doubt!" I don't think the 'without a doubt' thing is totally true. I have a good friend who's a good listener, and really cares about what I have to say, and I feel comfortable telling him most anything, which is nice. But he's a little under 5 years older than me, and I'm pretty sure he has no interest in going out with me.
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I have a friend that ive known for like 3 years but scince we have a lot of classes together we have been getting really close. He is a really big flirt and he talks to a lot of girls. I cant tell if he likes me (i have always been bad at signs) he talks to me a lot and when we are at lunch he will switch seats with someone so he is next to me. The first thing that made me think he like likes me is when we were at a christmas party and we started watching a movie and there were like 10 of us on one couch and i was next to him and i got tired to i put my head on his sholder and he put his head on top of mine and his arm over my sholder. Also, i have a few learning problems and he helps me in school a lot and stands up for me when people say mean things about me. He hugs me when he sees me and we have held hands once, I dont know if its a guy just being a flirt or if he realmy likes me. Another problem is one of my friends likes him too and she says he likes her too but they dont know eachother that well and she has lied a lot to me in the past. Im worried because me, the guy i like, and a few other friends are having a movie night and i feel like there will be drama. Does anyone know if he likes me? and what should i do if he does?? thanks!! xx - ali
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I hv a best guys fri we hv met for months in foreign city. He has a gf n they hv bn in a relationship for 5 yrs. Me n my guy fri hv alot in common tht evn whn we strt conversation we make the same ...... we hanged out a lot. First he hold my hand n later he kiss me on my foreheads. (I kiss him first.)Just one time. Then, he kiss my cheek..and kiss me whn he can. He show 7 of ur signs. But i m still confusing..he is still with his gf n now we are in different city. I feel like i cant stay without him since he left to his hometown. His gf also lives in his town. I dun kno wht to do.... i believe he is my soulmate n he beleive it too... We hv a lot in common not only means that we hv common likes we hv common guts of feeling...n seeing way to life..u know something so deep...but...now.. I feeel so blahh..since he left.. it's like an unsolved puzzle..help me!!!
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That's so awesome Crista! I'm so glad that you found yourself a BFF and a BF in one guy! :)
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All of these are completely true.My current boyfriend showed all these signs.It's so nice to have your best friend and boyfriend combined in one.<3
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That's great! Do you feel the same about him?
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oh dear god... HE DOES.
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Hi Anon! Firstly, if he is involved with anyone, I would back off a bit, you never want to break up a relationship, that just isn't good business. If he is single though, you've got to give him some time to figure out exactly what he wants. After all, you don't want to get with someone that isn't going to be 100% in with you and is still thinking about other people. :)
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@heatherjensen please help!
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oh and he always he mad or "jealous" when i talk about other guys or if i talk to other guys! but he has no place to right?
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hey, i have known my guy bestfriend for years and we would and will do anything for eachother. hes always had in interest in me and ive always known that but never acted upon it and never strung him along. hes super cute but i just never wanted to lose him and still never do. hes the only person i can fully trust. well, this year i started seeing him in a different light and cant believe how long its taken me to see it but right as i was going to let him know i wanted to be more, one of my best girlfriends (that knew that i wanted to be more and has already dated him once and cheated on him the first time) started "talking" to him and now they have been talking for a month or so and it is killing me. not only because i want him as more but because i told him that i wanted to be more and hes still "talking" to her. (and we have kissed plenty of times between me confessing my feelings to him and now.) plus i found out that she is "getting with" another guy behind his back. i kept it from him for a week or so because i didnt want to look like "that girl" and then i couldnt stand her making him look stupid anymore so i told him. HE'S STILL INVOLVED WITH HER! it makes me feel like im losing him and that he doesnt believe me but.... i dont think he knows what he want right now considering that he wants me half the time wants her half the time. I am always a guys "second choice" and i never thought id be his. i thought that when i told him how i felt everything would change in a good way but now all of this is happening and i cant take it anymore and i want to show him im the one he wants. PS. he also told me that hes trying to get over his recent breakup by being with the current girl hes with (my ex-friend) and th\at he doesnt want to be with me yet until hes "100% in" (whatever that means) because he said when we date he wants us to date for a long time but were in hgh school and theres not much time left and i want to be with him now and dont know what changed between the last 3 years and now? all we do now is scream and fight and argue about the situation and (my ex-friend that hes "talking" to) and now i feel like im losing my bestfriend in the world ! help?
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@Heather Jensen, oh okay thanks
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Oh! I'd tell him though. Honestly, you don't ever want to string anyone along.
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@Heather Jensen, i didn't really mean it that way i don't like him at all but he seems to think so.
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Hi! I think that he does like you, he's just shy. I think that you should totally talk to him! :)
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@shy, Grammar please. ;)
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sorry for my bad english...I have this guy childhood friend whom I just met again the past year then since that he always say that I'am cute.. he's somewhat childish always joking around and very mischievous but every time I need help he's always there for me and he always holds my hand and hug me he is gentleman sometimes. but he always teased me used to call me in a name like I am just his sister but now he call me by my name and there was a time when he talked to me and I didn't noticed that he is near and when I turn around we looked eye to eye and face to face then he back out immediately.. now I am confused those my friend like me?
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Hi Amber! If he has a girlfriend, I'd definitely say that you need to back off. You don't want to be the person that breaks anyone up!
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what if he has a girlfriend and still does all of these things?
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Hey Fella! I'd put it all out there -- truthfully, if he is your BFF, just assure him that you aren't going to break his heart and if he doesn't feel the same, nothing is going to change about your friendship. I'd talk to him about your feelings. :)
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Hey Heather , My best friend that I ve known since 7 years shows all of these signs,knowing that I have already asked him what he feels for me he sais that he admires me,I like him and I feel that he is in love with me but doesn't admit it.I am now in a totally ambiguous situation i am 23 single he is 29 single.what do you adice ?
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Hey Kathy! If he is holding hands with you, I think that it is more than just a friend thing. Have you tried to talk to him about your feelings? That might be the best option! ;)
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Hi, I ve known this guy forever and we are really good friends and I really like him. The problem is he lives half way around the world and i only see him once a year. When I saw him this summer we held hands(while he was in a relationship) he broke up with the girl 10 days later. when i asked him when they started fighting he said 9 days ago... He is incredibly cute and sweet. He hugged me a lot while we were out together too. He is really protective of me and I'm not sure if he thinks of me as his little sis or a girl he likes or maybe just a friend or a best friend.
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I'd take a chance! Just reassure your friend that your friendship won't be ruined, no matter what happens!
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Hmm. So he does have a crush on me. Should I take a chance with the friendship or just let it be?
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Okay... I've been trying to figure this out for a while and there are a lot of factors that weigh in on this. My friend and I are in our mid twenties and we have been friends for about a year. We met out one night while being designated drivers and bonded over that. We exchanged numbers and he had asked me out to dinner. Turns out instead of dinner we went to a sporting event. I'm a big sports fanatic as a girl and was thrilled. So time has gone by and we talk basically everyday through texting or on the phone and we've been out for drinks together, dinner, out to lunch, sporting events, watched games on TV at each other's places with and without a group of people. He almost always pays for me unless I insist on paying. I've stayed at his house a few times and he would offer his bed for me and he would sleep on the couch. He has told me that he is attracted to me but I kind of ignored that he said that. I definitely have my guard up though. But just a few weeks ago we were out for drinks together, just us two. We went back to stay at his place like usual and we were up talking and while we were talking he grabbed me and starting making out with me. We ended up hooking up and then the next morning things were perfectly normal. We never really talked about what happened and have gone on as normal. He then asked me to go on a business trip with him this past week and I ended up going. It was pretty normal and we both had a really great time together and we are continuing to hook up. I have liked him more than a friend for a while now, but I'm not sure how he feels. I don't want to scare him off if he isn't ready to commit to a relationship or if he even would want one with me. I also am unsure if I want to commit just yet because I'm going away for the summer. We have plans throughout the summer for concerts and he is planning on visiting me. I've been contemplating having a conversation with him about our situation before I move for the summer, but I don't know how to bring it up or what to say. Or should I not say anything and just let this summer play out? Suggestions anyone???
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thanks that will help!!!
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Hey Audrey! Thanks for commenting! I'd definitely say that you gotta talk to him a little bit more! I know it's hard to work through the butterflies, but maybe throw on an outfit that makes you feel hot and confident and see if you can get him alone to flirt him up. Eye contact, smiling, small touches, these are all great ways to get a guy to notice you!
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Hello Kaitlyn! Thanks for sharing your story! I'd definitely say that you need to talk to him about who he likes better. It seems like he might be playing both of you a little bit and I think that you both need to get on the same page. Just have a conversation, it couldn't hurt!