Comments on: Do Women in Great Relationships Cheat? http://allwomenstalk.com/do-women-in-great-relationships-cheat/ The Only Women Blog Sun, 22 Nov 2009 16:45:07 -1000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.5 hourly 1 By: Sheila http://allwomenstalk.com/do-women-in-great-relationships-cheat/comment-page-2/#comment-551954 Sheila Mon, 28 Sep 2009 22:27:41 +0000 http://allwomenstalk.com/do-women-in-great-relationships-cheat/#comment-551954 Dear Tammy, You make a lot of great points! Firstly the part about how we don't really think our actions through, about how a lot of times we are blind to the consequences of cheating . I've been there too. And the thing that I will remember the most is how shattered my boyfriend looked when he found out. But the ironic thing is I always knew that he was going to be devastated. And that should have been enough to stop me. So why did I do it. I was unhappy exactly like you said. I wanted to feel wanted. I wanted to feel loved. I wanted him to be there for me. But he wasn't. So yes you're right about the part where we need to sit our partners down and talk to them and make them listen if they don't! Dear Tammy,

You make a lot of great points! Firstly the part about how we don’t really think our actions through, about how a lot of times we are blind to the consequences of cheating . I’ve been there too. And the thing that I will remember the most is how shattered my boyfriend looked when he found out. But the ironic thing is I always knew that he was going to be devastated. And that should have been enough to stop me. So why did I do it. I was unhappy exactly like you said. I wanted to feel wanted. I wanted to feel loved. I wanted him to be there for me. But he wasn’t. So yes you’re right about the part where we need to sit our partners down and talk to them and make them listen if they don’t!

]]> By: TAMMY http://allwomenstalk.com/do-women-in-great-relationships-cheat/comment-page-2/#comment-551697 TAMMY Sun, 27 Sep 2009 16:24:27 +0000 http://allwomenstalk.com/do-women-in-great-relationships-cheat/#comment-551697 Puzzled, 07/10/08 at 10:59 pm I notice one thing in cheaters overall. Through personal experience and close friends, and hell some of the posters. They never take full responsibility and if the blame is not deflected onto the man..its to the situation. Yet somehow no effort was made to work on it until after the cheating actually took place and they were caught or felt too guilty…. If people would stop and think..seriously think about what they are doing they would realize when choices like this are made for people without them knowing then they would understand this is someones life they are playing with. What if someone you loved made choices that directly affected your life without you knowing it and those choices could’nt lead to anywhere but a bad place? If someone lacks this ability or can not learn it they are a hazard to us all because I assure you if they can keep sacrificing their self respect and dignity and their lives..then I seriously doubt they will have qualms about taking others down with them. Good night and good luck folks. IN RESPONSE TO YOUR COMMENT I WOULD JUST LIKE TO SAY THAT I DONT REALLY AGREE WITH U ON THE SUBJECT OF WOMEN DONT REALLY TRY THEY HAVE THE AFFAIR FIRST, BECAUSE I AM A GOOD PERSON AND I HAVE CHEAT A FEW TIME AND SUFFER FROM THE GUILT EVERYDAY!!!, I WOULD JUST LIKE TO SAY THAT I TOLD MY PARTNER THAT I WASNT HAPPY AND WANTED COUPLE COUNCILING BUT SOME MEN JUST DONT TAKE IT SERIOUS THEY THINK ALL US WOMEN ARE EMOTIONAL AND WE DONT REALLY MEAN IT WHEN WE SAY WE NEED HELP THEY STOP LISTENING TO US, AFTER I CRIED OUT FOR HELP TIME AND TIME AGAIN I STARED TO CHEAT BECAUSE I FELT TRAPPED AND ALONE , I DO AGREE WITH U ABOUT WOMEN ARE NO BETTER OFF FOR DOING IT AND THAT IS SO VERY TRUE BUT AT THE SAME TIME I GUESS WOMEN SEE IT AS AN ESCAPE AS WE GET OLDER AND LOSE WHO WE USE TO BE AND TRY GETTING THAT BACK BY FEELING ALIVE AGAIN, I TAKE FULL RESPONSIBILTY FOR MY ACTIONS AND AM NOT POINTING THE FINGER AT MY PARTNER BUT I THINK SOME TIMES IT JUST HAPPENEDS AND IT DOESNT MEAN THAT EITHER OF US ARE ASSHOLES IT JUST MEANS THERE IS AN ISSUE AND WE TRY A SHORT TERM FIX THAT CAN WORK FOR SOME WOMEN BUT IF UR LIKE ME IT COMES CREAPING BACK LATER ON AND THE GUILT AND PAIN KICKS IN OVERDRIVE. Puzzled, 07/10/08 at 10:59 pm
I notice one thing in cheaters overall. Through personal experience and close friends, and hell some of the posters. They never take full responsibility and if the blame is not deflected onto the man..its to the situation. Yet somehow no effort was made to work on it until after the cheating actually took place and they were caught or felt too guilty….
If people would stop and think..seriously think about what they are doing they would realize when choices like this are made for people without them knowing then they would understand this is someones life they are playing with. What if someone you loved made choices that directly affected your life without you knowing it and those choices could’nt lead to anywhere but a bad place? If someone lacks this ability or can not learn it they are a hazard to us all because I assure you if they can keep sacrificing their self respect and dignity and their lives..then I seriously doubt they will have qualms about taking others down with them. Good night and good luck folks.

IN RESPONSE TO YOUR COMMENT I WOULD JUST LIKE TO SAY THAT I DONT REALLY AGREE WITH U ON THE SUBJECT OF WOMEN DONT REALLY TRY THEY HAVE THE AFFAIR FIRST, BECAUSE I AM A GOOD PERSON AND I HAVE CHEAT A FEW TIME AND SUFFER FROM THE GUILT EVERYDAY!!!, I WOULD JUST LIKE TO SAY THAT I TOLD MY PARTNER THAT I WASNT HAPPY AND WANTED COUPLE COUNCILING BUT SOME MEN JUST DONT TAKE IT SERIOUS THEY THINK ALL US WOMEN ARE EMOTIONAL AND WE DONT REALLY MEAN IT WHEN WE SAY WE NEED HELP THEY STOP LISTENING TO US, AFTER I CRIED OUT FOR HELP TIME AND TIME AGAIN I STARED TO CHEAT BECAUSE I FELT TRAPPED AND ALONE , I DO AGREE WITH U ABOUT WOMEN ARE NO BETTER OFF FOR DOING IT AND THAT IS SO VERY TRUE BUT AT THE SAME TIME I GUESS WOMEN SEE IT AS AN ESCAPE AS WE GET OLDER AND LOSE WHO WE USE TO BE AND TRY GETTING THAT BACK BY FEELING ALIVE AGAIN, I TAKE FULL RESPONSIBILTY FOR MY ACTIONS AND AM NOT POINTING THE FINGER AT MY PARTNER BUT I THINK SOME TIMES IT JUST HAPPENEDS AND IT DOESNT MEAN THAT EITHER OF US ARE ASSHOLES IT JUST MEANS THERE IS AN ISSUE AND WE TRY A SHORT TERM FIX THAT CAN WORK FOR SOME WOMEN BUT IF UR LIKE ME IT COMES CREAPING BACK LATER ON AND THE GUILT AND PAIN KICKS IN OVERDRIVE.

]]> By: Dr. Jelly Bean http://allwomenstalk.com/do-women-in-great-relationships-cheat/comment-page-2/#comment-529852 Dr. Jelly Bean Wed, 22 Jul 2009 01:05:31 +0000 http://allwomenstalk.com/do-women-in-great-relationships-cheat/#comment-529852 Interesting to see that over 60% of the women cheat on their husbands. The cure for that would be that a man should never get married. Good idea not to even get emotionally tied up with a woman. On the other hand these women are obviously cheating with other men. So what does that mean really? If a guy knownigly is sleep with another guys wife then what kind of person is he? And if a woman is falling in love with a man who sleeps with someone elses wife then what kind of person is she? Which really falsifies the notion that women have affairs for emotional reasons. Older married women have affairs with younger men because they want some emotional attachment? Dosen't even make any sense really. How can you have a emotional attachment to a guy who could careless if your marriage broke up. The fact is women like sex as much, if not more, then men do, no shame in that. Men and women should accept that having a relationship with is self defeating and a waste of time. Just have sex, then move on. Interesting to see that over 60% of the women cheat on their husbands.

The cure for that would be that a man should never get married. Good idea not to even get emotionally tied up with a woman.

On the other hand these women are obviously cheating with other men. So what does that mean really? If a guy knownigly is sleep with another guys wife then what kind of person is he? And if a woman is falling in love with a man who sleeps with someone elses wife then what kind of person is she?

Which really falsifies the notion that women have affairs for emotional reasons. Older married women have affairs with younger men because they want some emotional attachment? Dosen’t even make any sense really. How can you have a emotional attachment to a guy who could careless if your marriage broke up.

The fact is women like sex as much, if not more, then men do, no shame in that. Men and women should accept that having a relationship with is self defeating and a waste of time. Just have sex, then move on.

]]> By: barter http://allwomenstalk.com/do-women-in-great-relationships-cheat/comment-page-2/#comment-525900 barter Wed, 08 Jul 2009 21:44:50 +0000 http://allwomenstalk.com/do-women-in-great-relationships-cheat/#comment-525900 Cheating! But a word. Nothing like the smell, touch, and taste of a new woman; melting with hot passion that quenches all levels of thirst. Breathless..... Cheating! But a word. Nothing like the smell, touch, and taste of a new woman; melting with hot passion that quenches all levels of thirst. Breathless…..

]]> By: Skys http://allwomenstalk.com/do-women-in-great-relationships-cheat/comment-page-2/#comment-523162 Skys Wed, 01 Jul 2009 00:58:33 +0000 http://allwomenstalk.com/do-women-in-great-relationships-cheat/#comment-523162 To Lily, Take personal responsibility and leave your husband. You do not love him if this will not stop. Love is not a word or saying it is an action, your thoughts and actions have nothing to do with with love. The ugly truth is that you have been in this is situation before, and suffered for it but here you are back at it. You have not learned anything (think for a moment) if you learned from the negative situation you once created before would you really be here posting any of this? I encourage you to take a long hard look at yourself. I see someone who is selfish, and impulsive, and incredibly miserable. Do your husband a favor and let him go, in all time he was with you he could have done better. It is the ultimate mark of a selfish person to have others suffer with them and it speaks nothing of love. I say this not to hurt you or insult you but to save this man who ever he may be. To Lily,

Take personal responsibility and leave your husband. You do not love him if this will not stop. Love is not a word or saying it is an action, your thoughts and actions have nothing to do with with love. The ugly truth is that you have been in this is situation before, and suffered for it but here you are back at it. You have not learned anything (think for a moment) if you learned from the negative situation you once created before would you really be here posting any of this?
I encourage you to take a long hard look at yourself. I see someone who is selfish, and impulsive, and incredibly miserable. Do your husband a favor and let him go, in all time he was with you he could have done better. It is the ultimate mark of a selfish person to have others suffer with them and it speaks nothing of love.
I say this not to hurt you or insult you but to save this man who ever he may be.

]]> By: Lily http://allwomenstalk.com/do-women-in-great-relationships-cheat/comment-page-2/#comment-523095 Lily Tue, 30 Jun 2009 16:50:56 +0000 http://allwomenstalk.com/do-women-in-great-relationships-cheat/#comment-523095 I was happily married to my husband for 18 years before i every even considered cheating on him. Seriously, I would die if he did this to me. We had some rough times in the beginning of the marriage but at the time that i cheated we were very happy. I met a very handsome very young man that was attracted to me and vice versa. This man was an illegal immigrant that coulnd't speak any language in common with me,but i thought it was meant to be because i had never really been so attracted to someone in my life. I ended up cheating with him and it was a disasterous and humiliating experience. my husband knows that i cheated and has done everything except going to counceling with me to keep us together. i never at any moment thought about leaving my husband and i did feel guilty but not enough to stop it. i even went to a therapist before i was with him hoping that she could talk me out of it but to no avail. Since this time my relationship with my husband has been even better than ever. He takes me dancing all the time (something he never did in the first 18 years of our marriage). I regret what i did but somehow it brought me a much more exciting life. Here is the real problem now. I have met another man also illegal also speaks no english also absurdly young for me and i am very tempted again. i am a nice person that up until about a year ago was very good about following the rules and all. i know this time its not "meant to be" and that I have some sort of a fetish problem because this is the same very inappropriate man in a different body. I don't think therapy will help me because it hasn't in the past. Has anyone had and overcome a problem like this. I'm very confused by my urges because all my life i have been normal and now i am involving myself with a string of very young, impoverished men that i have no intention of leaving my husband for. I was happily married to my husband for 18 years before i every even considered cheating on him. Seriously, I would die if he did this to me. We had some rough times in the beginning of the marriage but at the time that i cheated we were very happy. I met a very handsome very young man that was attracted to me and vice versa. This man was an illegal immigrant that coulnd’t speak any language in common with me,but i thought it was meant to be because i had never really been so attracted to someone in my life. I ended up cheating with him and it was a disasterous and humiliating experience. my husband knows that i cheated and has done everything except going to counceling with me to keep us together. i never at any moment thought about leaving my husband and i did feel guilty but not enough to stop it. i even went to a therapist before i was with him hoping that she could talk me out of it but to no avail. Since this time my relationship with my husband has been even better than ever. He takes me dancing all the time (something he never did in the first 18 years of our marriage). I regret what i did but somehow it brought me a much more exciting life.

Here is the real problem now. I have met another man also illegal also speaks no english also absurdly young for me and i am very tempted again. i am a nice person that up until about a year ago was very good about following the rules and all. i know this time its not “meant to be” and that I have some sort of a fetish problem because this is the same very inappropriate man in a different body. I don’t think therapy will help me because it hasn’t in the past. Has anyone had and overcome a problem like this. I’m very confused by my urges because all my life i have been normal and now i am involving myself with a string of very young, impoverished men that i have no intention of leaving my husband for.

]]> By: Mike http://allwomenstalk.com/do-women-in-great-relationships-cheat/comment-page-2/#comment-508287 Mike Tue, 19 May 2009 22:09:25 +0000 http://allwomenstalk.com/do-women-in-great-relationships-cheat/#comment-508287 you people who cheat and can't take blame for it are scumbags and deserve to end your pitiful lives. I've seen what cheating on both sides can do to people and veyr sad. I feel less hope for humanity than ever now but I know that not all women like the ones that post their personal tendencies on the internet like some of you guys are. You people give all women a bad name because I have actually met women who acrually remain with their relationship for years and not cheat. If you think this is a freakin game wake the hell up! Men too. you people who cheat and can’t take blame for it are scumbags and deserve to end your pitiful lives. I’ve seen what cheating on both sides can do to people and veyr sad. I feel less hope for humanity than ever now but I know that not all women like the ones that post their personal tendencies on the internet like some of you guys are. You people give all women a bad name because I have actually met women who acrually remain with their relationship for years and not cheat. If you think this is a freakin game wake the hell up! Men too.

]]> By: Meream http://allwomenstalk.com/do-women-in-great-relationships-cheat/comment-page-2/#comment-502802 Meream Mon, 04 May 2009 14:22:29 +0000 http://allwomenstalk.com/do-women-in-great-relationships-cheat/#comment-502802 Different strokes for different folks, Alex. Different strokes for different folks, Alex.

]]> By: Alex http://allwomenstalk.com/do-women-in-great-relationships-cheat/comment-page-2/#comment-502573 Alex Sun, 03 May 2009 18:56:45 +0000 http://allwomenstalk.com/do-women-in-great-relationships-cheat/#comment-502573 I encourage my girlfriend to have sex with other men once in a while, usually when we go on vacation like a cruise. I like to watch but sometimes she like to have sex without me there which is ok as well. The great thing is that she returns that favor, I have sex with some of her single friends when they stay over, we usually hot tub and then my wife tells them its ok to have sex with me. Don't know why so many of you our hung up on this "cheating" thing, and don't start telling me about HIV, Herpes, .... life is short and full of risks there is much more chance of getting killed in the car each day you drive to work then if have sex EVERY DAY WITH ANOTHER WOMEN, and if you used a condom the odds go WAY, WAY DOWN compare to such dangerous practices and eating meat and getting poisoned. Look it up. I encourage my girlfriend to have sex with other men once in a while, usually when we go on vacation like a cruise. I like to watch but sometimes she like to have sex without me there which is ok as well.

The great thing is that she returns that favor, I have sex with some of her single friends when they stay over, we usually hot tub and then my wife tells them its ok to have sex with me.

Don’t know why so many of you our hung up on this “cheating” thing, and don’t start telling me about HIV, Herpes, …. life is short and full of risks there is much more chance of getting killed in the car each day you drive to work then if have sex EVERY DAY WITH ANOTHER WOMEN, and if you used a condom the odds go WAY, WAY DOWN compare to such dangerous practices and eating meat and getting poisoned. Look it up.

]]> By: Samuel Pappas http://allwomenstalk.com/do-women-in-great-relationships-cheat/comment-page-2/#comment-489303 Samuel Pappas Fri, 27 Mar 2009 02:37:56 +0000 http://allwomenstalk.com/do-women-in-great-relationships-cheat/#comment-489303 One type of woman who will surely betray you: She had a long term boyfriend all through college and then he broke up with her. He was her first love and first lover. And she was all set to get married. STAY the hell away form this lady. No matter what she says - it is highly unlikely she will ever get over it. Her brain is wired with an attachment to this lost love. It is unlikely she will ever get over it - even 25 years later. If you marry her, no matter how fine a person she is - kind to all - she will betray you and run this man like a moth to a flame. Read some of the matrimonials in the New York Times: they were college sweathearts but drifted. Both got married and 30 years later they were divorced/widowed and he found her on the internet. It was as if they were in college again. Pity the sucker that married her and lived with her for 30 years!! Don't be that sucker. Stay away from a woman who had a 4 year college boy friend! One type of woman who will surely betray you: She had a long term boyfriend all through college and then he broke up with her. He was her first love and first lover. And she was all set to get married.
STAY the hell away form this lady. No matter what she says – it is highly unlikely she will ever get over it. Her brain is wired with an attachment to this lost love. It is unlikely she will ever get over it – even 25 years later.
If you marry her, no matter how fine a person she is – kind to all – she will betray you and run this man like a moth to a flame.

Read some of the matrimonials in the New York Times: they were college sweathearts but drifted. Both got married and 30 years later they were divorced/widowed and he found her on the internet. It was as if they were in college again. Pity the sucker that married her and lived with her for 30 years!!

Don’t be that sucker. Stay away from a woman who had a 4 year college boy friend!

]]> By: booh ya http://allwomenstalk.com/do-women-in-great-relationships-cheat/comment-page-2/#comment-486108 booh ya Tue, 17 Mar 2009 18:41:25 +0000 http://allwomenstalk.com/do-women-in-great-relationships-cheat/#comment-486108 This is a 100% simple answer to a complicated question but here goes... Yes but because of some character flaw or incompatibility issue. The reason that its a violation is that two people enter in a partnership that is generally recognized to be monogamous. Once that rule is broken....thats usually gonna cause serious issues. The big overwhelming question is if cheaters had to date cheaters after one slip up would they choose to date at all? Lol I laugh because this question will expose whats going on in the mind of most people who cheat at anything esp relationships...they are selfish. I am not better than anyone but I do know selfishness when I read it. If it was not selfish, why would you hide it? If it was not a violation of a rule established somewhere at some time, why are you still hiding it? Denial is an ugly thing isnt it? This is a 100% simple answer to a complicated question but here goes… Yes but because of some character flaw or incompatibility issue. The reason that its a violation is that two people enter in a partnership that is generally recognized to be monogamous. Once that rule is broken….thats usually gonna cause serious issues. The big overwhelming question is if cheaters had to date cheaters after one slip up would they choose to date at all? Lol I laugh because this question will expose whats going on in the mind of most people who cheat at anything esp relationships…they are selfish. I am not better than anyone but I do know selfishness when I read it. If it was not selfish, why would you hide it? If it was not a violation of a rule established somewhere at some time, why are you still hiding it? Denial is an ugly thing isnt it?

]]> By: derrrrrrrr http://allwomenstalk.com/do-women-in-great-relationships-cheat/comment-page-2/#comment-486093 derrrrrrrr Tue, 17 Mar 2009 18:23:53 +0000 http://allwomenstalk.com/do-women-in-great-relationships-cheat/#comment-486093 This is seriously turning into a confessional. Why would anyone want to know your dirty little secret go unload your ills on yourself in the privacy of your own home, you have only yourself to blame. The question is "Do women in great relationships cheat?" I choose to answer yes, but usually only women who have no empathy or women are incredibly stupid. A long time and good female friend (big sis) once told me most woman want the whole thing but many times especially when young give up the 8/10 for the 1/10 masquerading as the 10/10. In other words ladies who trade up usually do so for nothing. In case your not getting it. One pleasurable moment can not only cost you yourself respect, but your partner and possibly a lifetime of guilt. This is seriously turning into a confessional. Why would anyone want to know your dirty little secret go unload your ills on yourself in the privacy of your own home, you have only yourself to blame. The question is “Do women in great relationships cheat?” I choose to answer yes, but usually only women who have no empathy or women are incredibly stupid. A long time and good female friend (big sis) once told me most woman want the whole thing but many times especially when young give up the 8/10 for the 1/10 masquerading as the 10/10. In other words ladies who trade up usually do so for nothing. In case your not getting it. One pleasurable moment can not only cost you yourself respect, but your partner and possibly a lifetime of guilt.

]]> By: daemar http://allwomenstalk.com/do-women-in-great-relationships-cheat/comment-page-2/#comment-484695 daemar Thu, 12 Mar 2009 17:29:45 +0000 http://allwomenstalk.com/do-women-in-great-relationships-cheat/#comment-484695 Okey so here s a story about me and my girlfriend. We ve met, started our own relationship lived together and we ve been in a really good relation, no seecrets , we could discuss ewerything and so on. It was working really really good until one sad day. We are from 2 diffrend countryes and i ve to go back to my homeland because i had family probs there involving my own self as well and they were really really troublesome and had to take care asap. When i came ho me i realized i canot go back coz the problems were so big...ofc she was crying after me to go back and it was tearing me apart watching her in that state.. and all and i couldnt handle it anymore... so i said to her that i dont want to continue the relation with her anymore... I regreted that day into my bones because then i realized how much i loved her and needed her... i wanted to cut all the lines and contacts with her to forget her, because even a single word could cause the heart flaming again ... after 7 month she digged me up and said she wants to see me...i said ofc so she came here to my homeland, and we basicly fall into our hands starting kissing and yes..something more too all at the first day! i can say that it was one from my best days in my life. Now we are again together..i explained her why did i left her, coz it was not because of another woman...but really bad reasons... i still do regred that day and i want to build the same flame we had once again.. but somehow i feel im loosing her... she is visiting her friends a lot more often and hanging outside. yes i cant say she does not spending time chating with me or messageing me coz she is keeping the contact eweryday... I know i ve to work hard to rebuild it but i dont know how :((( i know i ve to proove her that yes i love only her and she is still the first person for me , i just dont know what to do ... i m also having questions of the likes ... Is it wort all the efforts once again? She really loves me the same as she did in the past?... and now this friend one of her she is keeping in touch with him really much so im really afraid they are doing some stuff together... im just helpless and would like to get back all what was once before i just dont know where to start or what to do....i need HELP! Okey so here s a story about me and my girlfriend.
We ve met, started our own relationship lived together and we ve been in a really good relation, no seecrets , we could discuss ewerything and so on. It was working really really good until one sad day. We are from 2 diffrend countryes and i ve to go back to my homeland because i had family probs there involving my own self as well and they were really really troublesome and had to take care asap. When i came ho me i realized i canot go back coz the problems were so big…ofc she was crying after me to go back and it was tearing me apart watching her in that state.. and all and i couldnt handle it anymore… so i said to her that i dont want to continue the relation with her anymore… I regreted that day into my bones because then i realized how much i loved her and needed her… i wanted to cut all the lines and contacts with her to forget her, because even a single word could cause the heart flaming again … after 7 month she digged me up and said she wants to see me…i said ofc so she came here to my homeland, and we basicly fall into our hands starting kissing and yes..something more too all at the first day! i can say that it was one from my best days in my life. Now we are again together..i explained her why did i left her, coz it was not because of another woman…but really bad reasons… i still do regred that day and i want to build the same flame we had once again.. but somehow i feel im loosing her… she is visiting her friends a lot more often and hanging outside. yes i cant say she does not spending time chating with me or messageing me coz she is keeping the contact eweryday… I know i ve to work hard to rebuild it but i dont know how :((( i know i ve to proove her that yes i love only her and she is still the first person for me , i just dont know what to do … i m also having questions of the likes … Is it wort all the efforts once again? She really loves me the same as she did in the past?… and now this friend one of her she is keeping in touch with him really much so im really afraid they are doing some stuff together… im just helpless and would like to get back all what was once before i just dont know where to start or what to do….i need HELP!

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]]> By: Bran http://allwomenstalk.com/do-women-in-great-relationships-cheat/comment-page-2/#comment-476046 Bran Sun, 08 Feb 2009 10:06:01 +0000 http://allwomenstalk.com/do-women-in-great-relationships-cheat/#comment-476046 I recently was given a beautiful daughter by my lovely ex. With a newborn to support, I had to pick up more shifts at work. Bad idea, doing so resulted in me being cheated on in my own home. I felt less than a man and even less like a good father. It was a low blow, because I was only trying to support my family. I don't cheat, so what gave her the right? We are not 2gether. But, I will never hurt again. She is a coward and I've been more focused on my child. She told me that I was never around. True now! I recently was given a beautiful daughter by my lovely ex. With a newborn to support, I had to pick up more shifts at work. Bad idea, doing so resulted in me being cheated on in my own home. I felt less than a man and even less like a good father. It was a low blow, because I was only trying to support my family. I don’t cheat, so what gave her the right? We are not 2gether. But, I will never hurt again. She is a coward and I’ve been more focused on my child. She told me that I was never around. True now!

]]> By: Clayton http://allwomenstalk.com/do-women-in-great-relationships-cheat/comment-page-2/#comment-473020 Clayton Thu, 29 Jan 2009 03:50:46 +0000 http://allwomenstalk.com/do-women-in-great-relationships-cheat/#comment-473020 You cheated on two guys at the same time? Jesus, you're a gigantic whore. I hope you enjoy your herpes. You cheated on two guys at the same time? Jesus, you’re a gigantic whore. I hope you enjoy your herpes.

]]> By: Giving up hope*~ http://allwomenstalk.com/do-women-in-great-relationships-cheat/comment-page-2/#comment-470190 Giving up hope*~ Sat, 17 Jan 2009 04:44:38 +0000 http://allwomenstalk.com/do-women-in-great-relationships-cheat/#comment-470190 I'm married & I can't say I haven't been tempted. I can truly say I'm in a great relationship, but...as most of the comments noted. I feel like I'm lacking some things from him. I had suffered from low self esteem, but now that I think I'm on the right track, he's the last person that makes me feels hot & sexy, or lusted after. I know I'm not a model, but he makes me feel as if I'm just "wifey" not his hot "mamasita". I am trying to take the "right approach" by trying to talk. Maybe then we could spice things up, without losing those things that really turn him on....BUT he doesn't want to talk...we start talking and it seems I have to do all the talking. I want to know his thoughts too! I don't want my man running to another woman because I couldn't please him!!! He fails to realize though that after 10 years I am also trying myself not to run to another for my needs. If he'd only listen and quit being afraid to talk about Sex we'd probably be alright, but I refuse to carry on a one way conversation. I asked him to think of something to spice things up & he did not answer, but proceeded to insist that I should answer first. I’m married & I can’t say I haven’t been tempted. I can truly say I’m in a great relationship, but…as most of the comments noted. I feel like I’m lacking some things from him. I had suffered from low self esteem, but now that I think I’m on the right track, he’s the last person that makes me feels hot & sexy, or lusted after. I know I’m not a model, but he makes me feel as if I’m just “wifey” not his hot “mamasita”. I am trying to take the “right approach” by trying to talk. Maybe then we could spice things up, without losing those things that really turn him on….BUT he doesn’t want to talk…we start talking and it seems I have to do all the talking. I want to know his thoughts too! I don’t want my man running to another woman because I couldn’t please him!!! He fails to realize though that after 10 years I am also trying myself not to run to another for my needs. If he’d only listen and quit being afraid to talk about Sex we’d probably be alright, but I refuse to carry on a one way conversation. I asked him to think of something to spice things up & he did not answer, but proceeded to insist that I should answer first.

]]> By: Lauren http://allwomenstalk.com/do-women-in-great-relationships-cheat/comment-page-2/#comment-435236 Lauren Fri, 31 Oct 2008 03:03:32 +0000 http://allwomenstalk.com/do-women-in-great-relationships-cheat/#comment-435236 I've been happily married for 10 years. Married life has exceeded all my expectations and I couldnt possibly envsion being happier than I am now. That being said, I have cheated 3 times during those 10 years. My indiscretions are something I am obviously not proud of and dont really have a good explanation for other than it just seems like once every few years I feel like I need to inject a little excitement into my routine...kinda like I need to 'recharge the battery' a little bit. I’ve been happily married for 10 years. Married life has exceeded all my expectations and I couldnt possibly envsion being happier than I am now. That being said, I have cheated 3 times during those 10 years. My indiscretions are something I am obviously not proud of and dont really have a good explanation for other than it just seems like once every few years I feel like I need to inject a little excitement into my routine…kinda like I need to ‘recharge the battery’ a little bit.

]]> By: what is wrong with me?? http://allwomenstalk.com/do-women-in-great-relationships-cheat/comment-page-2/#comment-425135 what is wrong with me?? Mon, 13 Oct 2008 22:27:30 +0000 http://allwomenstalk.com/do-women-in-great-relationships-cheat/#comment-425135 I have been in a loving, awesome relationship for the past 8 years. My boyfriend and I have lived together for the past 5 years and I love him very much. That being said I dont know why but I have had my slip ups when it comes to remaining faithful. I screwed up a couple of times when I was too drunk to be concious but that is no excuse. The guilt you feel after cheating is just not worth it. This past year my boyfriend and I have been working alot. We are still in a great relationship but im becoming really close to a coworker and am scared of developing feelings for him. I dont want to end what i have with my boyfriend but im starting to become attracted to my friend. I know I dont want to cheat and more than likely im not going to but still feel guilty for even thinking about it. The times I did cheat when I was drunk the guy ment nothing to me but this is worse because I think my friend likes me too. Altough, we have not acted on it the guilty feeling is once again killing me. I have been in a loving, awesome relationship for the past 8 years. My boyfriend and I have lived together for the past 5 years and I love him very much. That being said I dont know why but I have had my slip ups when it comes to remaining faithful. I screwed up a couple of times when I was too drunk to be concious but that is no excuse. The guilt you feel after cheating is just not worth it. This past year my boyfriend and I have been working alot. We are still in a great relationship but im becoming really close to a coworker and am scared of developing feelings for him. I dont want to end what i have with my boyfriend but im starting to become attracted to my friend. I know I dont want to cheat and more than likely im not going to but still feel guilty for even thinking about it. The times I did cheat when I was drunk the guy ment nothing to me but this is worse because I think my friend likes me too. Altough, we have not acted on it the guilty feeling is once again killing me.

]]> By: thawootah http://allwomenstalk.com/do-women-in-great-relationships-cheat/comment-page-2/#comment-380473 thawootah Thu, 07 Aug 2008 08:49:06 +0000 http://allwomenstalk.com/do-women-in-great-relationships-cheat/#comment-380473 All women cheat and think about doing another man!. I seen it one too many times. Not on me because i feel nothing for them so i dont get hurt. they can cheat all they want because i will never let that guard down. Smart men are like me they will lie and treat you like something special just to keep some pu tang around. I usually keep one woman for monday, wed, fri and sun and another for tuesday thursday, Saturday. You have to switch the days up once in awhile rotate shifts and keep two separate cellphones.Im not a player though i just keep it simple and entertaining. Two loose women are enough! All women cheat and think about doing another man!. I seen it one too many times. Not on me because i feel nothing for them so i dont get hurt. they can cheat all they want because i will never let that guard down. Smart men are like me they will lie and treat you like something special just to keep some pu tang around.

I usually keep one woman for monday, wed, fri and sun and another for tuesday thursday, Saturday.

You have to switch the days up once in awhile rotate shifts and keep two separate cellphones.Im not a player though i just keep it simple and entertaining. Two loose women are enough!

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