Comments on: Do Women in Great Relationships Cheat?

By: thawootah

thawootah — Thu, 07 Aug 2008 08:49:06 +0000

All women cheat and think about doing another man!. I seen it one too many times. Not on me because i feel nothing for them so i dont get hurt. they can cheat all they want because i will never let that guard down. Smart men are like me they will lie and treat you like something special just to keep some pu tang around.

I usually keep one woman for monday, wed, fri and sun and another for tuesday thursday, Saturday.

You have to switch the days up once in awhile rotate shifts and keep two separate cellphones.Im not a player though i just keep it simple and entertaining. Two loose women are enough!

By: Puzzled

Puzzled — Fri, 11 Jul 2008 05:59:28 +0000

I notice one thing in cheaters overall. Through personal experience and close friends, and hell some of the posters. They never take full responsibility and if the blame is not deflected onto the man..its to the situation. Yet somehow no effort was made to work on it until after the cheating actually took place and they were caught or felt too guilty….
If people would stop and think..seriously think about what they are doing they would realize when choices like this are made for people without them knowing then they would understand this is someones life they are playing with. What if someone you loved made choices that directly affected your life without you knowing it and those choices could’nt lead to anywhere but a bad place? If someone lacks this ability or can not learn it they are a hazard to us all because I assure you if they can keep sacrificing their self respect and dignity and their lives..then I seriously doubt they will have qualms about taking others down with them. Good night and good luck folks.

By: Lady Adub

Lady Adub — Tue, 01 Jul 2008 20:18:06 +0000

I’ve been married for almost 10 years, but my husband and I have been together for 14. I have never cheated, but I see how it can happen. As things tend to get predictable in a relationship, it doesn’t always matter how good a man is to you. He has to give you what you need on more than one level. It’s beyond sex, beyond listening, and beyond being sweet. It’s all about him being in love with you enough to know what you need.

After the relationship has been established most men (and women) are going to do just enough to keep things comfortable. Unfortunately that’s not enough. As humans we are always wanting more; hell we are here to elevate ourselves. Yet we do so little when it comes to creating bliss with the person we love.

By: Lily

Lily — Sun, 29 Jun 2008 06:14:38 +0000

Most women say that they will never cheat and few do cheat - mostly the insecure ones who like to hang on to another branch before they let go of the first one.

In some cases, they will not even let go of the first one and might even go back to him or try to keep both. A lot of women today disgust me and I wonder how they have become like this.

But I do love how it is always something that these girls use as an excuse. This is what I would say to a cheating wife.

Blame your husband. Accuse him of emotional neglect and lack of communication. It must be his fault. Or point the finger at the neighbor. If this Lothario hadn’t pursued you, nothing would have happened. Then again, the culprit could be the neighbor’s wife. She wasn’t taking care of her man.

Perhaps society had a role in this. After all, everyone’s doing it. Or finally, you might deny everything. It wasn’t sex because you didn’t sleep together.

The problem with all these defenses is you knew you were married, you knew it was wrong, and you got caught red-handed. That is it. If you weren’t caught, you would have never told him.

There is something else we know is true. There is so little connection between you and your husband this occurred. The two of you need to sit down and honestly decide if staying together simply postpones the inevitable.

By: Ed

Ed — Sat, 28 Jun 2008 21:52:26 +0000

I think that people cheating in great relationships makes a lot of people scratch their heads because we are trying to see relationships through a model of what we would like to happen, instead of what is actually happening. There’s of a personal ways I’m sure you could apply that, but we all have this idea of everlasting love and a persons most natural and powerful biological urge shutting down once we fall in love wth them. Some people are just going to cheat no matter what, but I don’t think it makes them bad people. In fact, based on everything we’ve learned about psychology, physiology and evolutionary psychology, I would say that it makes them just regular people.

By: Vivian

Vivian — Tue, 24 Jun 2008 00:26:43 +0000

I just did - I cheat. And man, my husband was almost the perfect man on earth, he is caring, loving, sincere, holy and capable… and we’ve been together for almost 10 years and both love each other very much. But somehow I was just started to get bored and I gave in to another man whom I knew was just looking for a short-term affair, and we went to bed on our second meeting. I felt guilty, and I know I will never let my husband knows abt this.

By: Samuel

Samuel — Sat, 14 Jun 2008 14:06:34 +0000

What is it in our make up that would make us monogomous?
Our genetics?
Our culture?
Comparison with other animals?
Umm, I dont think its there.
And when you stack logic against hormones or testosterone, hey logic almost always loses.
So, the ony thing is the potential embarresment that may be occur if we are caught up with.
Not a very strong influence when you look at the number of cheating spouses out there.
Next question?
Try to make this one hard ok?

By: Glamourgirl

Glamourgirl — Tue, 10 Jun 2008 00:57:15 +0000

Yeah, a poll could help us come up with a very good conclusion.

By: ICe

ICe — Tue, 10 Jun 2008 00:56:35 +0000

Sandy’s suggestion would be great. A poll on this topics would be great.

By: Sandy

Sandy — Mon, 09 Jun 2008 18:11:44 +0000

Great article. I would love to see a poll about this. To see what the statistics of this really are.

By: ICe

ICe — Fri, 06 Jun 2008 08:10:02 +0000

I guess it wont be a great relationship then if a woman would cheat. People may just see it as great but it’s only the woman who could tell the real situation in a relationship.

By: seymone

seymone — Thu, 05 Jun 2008 20:07:49 +0000

the best of couples in relationship cheat, there are times in relationship when you are bombarded by your parthner of cheating because he heard from somebody, you become complacent and said what will be will be,but in most cases it is the accuse who is cheating and is afraid of you seeing them, so you must go on the road when they say or the may be afraid of you seeing them,but all in all men must know that women need as much social time as men, but get less because of commitment to her children, but yes women will always cheat because most men these day have low self esteem.

By: jose

jose — Thu, 05 Jun 2008 09:43:42 +0000

The most acceptable fact is a human social category of choice and acceptance.Noone forces one to cheat if done under free will. When relating to another and facing the stresses of life,ennui,chance.fears,hopes and more, many people just seek another comfort zone. Why are there so many addictions.Power,money,sex,and ect. Because mans justification to exist is based on his external satisfactions to massage his inner sensations and ego or super alter ego. ect…Without love and christ man is in satans playground.

By: Karina

Karina — Fri, 16 May 2008 17:31:52 +0000

oh my goodness….my dear friend,i really love him but i am not sure about him..even though i know one day he and i might just lose contact but i am willing to take the risk…life is to take risks and sometimes we might not gain anything but experience is always ther…maybe one day i might forget him..lol.. anyway,thanks to you guys…huggss

By: mabs

mabs — Fri, 09 May 2008 06:36:52 +0000

I guess.. One of the fators are because of their peers.. There’s no such kind of great relationship..