Men's view of the issue.
The other day I watched once again the comedy "Hitch" (I think everybody saw the film at least once). And do you know what seemed to be funny about it? All the tips Hitch was giving men sounded like something anyone could tell you when asked for advice!
All he said did not seem to be a big secret: just a bit of curtesy, several complements (without dirty hints, of course), first breath-taking dates, after which he doesn't attack your mouth (although, you wouldn't probably mind), showing his respect for you as a personality.
All it takes to conquer a woman's heart is to be kind, listening, understanding and confident at the same time. And ...BANG! The girl is head over heals in love with the sweet guy!
The guy's part seems to be so easy, but what about the girl's lines in this play called "Relationships"? What if SHE was the first to get interested in a man and what magic words shall SHE utter to make the lovestory of her life begin?
So, I started to look for some sort of Mr. or Mrs. Hitch that would help WOMEN to win men of their dreams and the first worthy thing that I've found is an article written by a man, in which HE defines 10 major mistakes women make that can totally ruin the relationships.
Here is a passage from it:
Mistake #1) Betting Your Love-Life On His "Potential"
Do you know any women who want the man
they're dating to behave differently?
Of course you do.
And just like me, I'm sure you have friends
who date guys who don't have much going for them
or who don't treat them very well.
Somehow these women always have an excuse
for the guy's shortcomings.
What's going on here?
It's actually very simple.
Women (and men) don't base their choices of
men on how "nice" or "good" someone is to them
Women choose the men they do because they
feel a powerful GUT LEVEL ATTRACTION for them.
And guess what?
Some women will continue to put up with aguy that doesn't treat them very well.
Sometimes for months or years...
But why in the world would a woman do that!?