Women tend to look for perfection in finding a mate but few realize that perfection is really hard to live up to because in reality there’s no perfection in anything. Women tried to look for someone who has potentials, compassionate and a responsible personality.But, when the man fails to comply for a while and shows his real personality and behavior patterns, the woman wonders what happened to her loved man.  Then she becomes disillusioned and thinks that he’s not as strong as she perceived him to be. These demeanors are perfectly normal and one should not limit herself to a certain type of partner instead try to find someone who is multi-dimensional. Realize that each person is unique and has a variety of emotions. Beyond love and attraction, there should always respect and friendship in order for the relationship to last.