Do you have one of those relationship dealbreaker lists?You know, the list that describes the qualities you have to have in a man,along with the qualities you simply won’t tolerate?

If you’ve taken the time to write such a list, I'm impressed!

Now put it away.

Then, being as honest as you can be with yourself, make twobrand new lists:

• The “Good Qualities I Bring to a Relationship” list

And...

• The “Not-So-Good Qualities I Bring to a Relationship” list

Why these two lists? Let ...

“I mean, I felt terrible. And in thebeginning, I mean, I was completely devastated. I mean, can you imagine thekind of guilt that you would feel, and the responsibility?” (Monica Lewinsky)

“Guilt is the pledge drive constantlyhammering in our heads that keeps us from fully enjoying the show.” (Dennis Miller)

“I don't believe in guilt. I believe inliving on impulse as long as you never intentionally hurt another person, anddon't judge people in your life. I think you should ...

Considering that I’m in the business of helping people find and keep love, you'd think that I'd be a fan of THE romantic holiday of the year, Valentine's Day.

Well...I'm not.

But if it's a big holiday for you, by all means, enjoy! And hope you don't mind my poking a bit of fun at it.   

It's just that every year, during the first two weeks of February leading to V-Day, I can't help but notice how some people ...