8 Topics To Avoid On A First Date …

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8 Topics To Avoid On A First Date ...

So, we all know the feeling, sweaty palms, butterflies in the tummy and shaky knees. It’s your first date with a great guy you just met and you want it to be perfect! In order to assure the evening goes smoothly, here are 8 topics you may want to steer clear of!


1. Your Ex

Your Ex
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No no no no no!!! Never bring up your ex, or how he treated on you, or why you broke up on the first date. There may be a reason that you need to mention him further into the relationship if you get serious with this guy, but on the first date bringing him up is just like bringing him along. Not a good idea, right?

2. The Future

The Future
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Want a surefire way to sound desperate? Ask about the future, how many kids he wants and when he plans to marry. Let me just say if you really must discuss the future you could ask him if he plans to go to college or mention that you might take up skiing classes.

3. Religion

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Religious views are one of the topics that people may feel very strongly about. Your faith will be a big part of your relationship if you become serious, but a first date isn’t the best time to bring it up. Let me just say that the best way to avoid any disagreements or broken hearts in this area is to date someone of like faith.

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  1. November 17, 2010 at 5:17 pm Permalink
    stephanie says:
    i completely agree with sex after marriage and if you disagree with that its obvious you have self esteem issues and thats your only way to keep a guy…dont be a slut he’ll know you ... See more have no respect for yourself so dont bother in the future wanting respect from a guy if you dont respect yourself.
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    • November 17, 2010 at 5:19 pm
      Sheila says:
      Hey Stephanie,
      Just because you have sex with a guy before marriage doesn’t make you a “slut”. Let’s not unnecessarily call people names.
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    • November 17, 2010 at 6:09 pm
      Stacy says:
      Let’s refrain from the name calling…having premarital sex may not be something that everyone agrees with but by insulting someone by saying they have “no respect” for themselves and calling them a “slut” is beyond ... See more judgemental. Stop passing judgement on others and concerning yourself with other people’s business, you’ll discover you can free up a LOT of time for yourself when you stop focusing all of that time and energy that you’ve wasted on everyone else’s business. Instead, you can put that time to good use and focus on bettering yourself.

      Just remember, when you’re pointing your finger at someone else, take a look at your hand, you’ll see that your other finger’s are pointing back at you. Don’t be so quick to judge others.
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  2. November 16, 2010 at 9:11 pm Permalink
    Janine says:
    hah, we broke most of these on my first date. but it was the guy that mentioned them, not me!
    he asked about the past, ex’s, he found out about scars, after some poking ... See more and prodding, he told me about money, about what he wants for his future (3 kids!), sex…
    in fact, the only thing we avoided was religion, but thats because we already knew!
    and you know what?
    it was a PERFECT first date. we had such a good time, we didnt even need to talk all that much.
    im still with him now, and so far so good!
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  3. November 15, 2010 at 10:26 am Permalink
    Josee says:
    Is this a Roman Catholic-subidized website?? Sex belongs after marriage?! omg. Most of the advice here isn’t bad, but when I read that, I worried about the goal of these messages – girls under 20 ... See more shouldn’t be having sex, granted, but waiting until marriage is like saying we should wait until after we buy shoes to try them and see if we even like them. C’mon people. Sexual chemistry is important in a healthy relationship, so let’s avoid some divorces here!
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  4. November 10, 2010 at 10:09 pm Permalink
    Lisa says:
    Sex only after marriage, such a charmingly old-fashioned idea.
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  5. November 9, 2010 at 11:36 pm Permalink
    Meream says:
    Some people can’t help talking about the ex, though…Not saying I’ve made this mistake, of course. Haha
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  6. November 9, 2010 at 7:29 pm Permalink
    yukaiumi says:
    Yes, politics! Avooooid haha T_T
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