8 Things Men Notice about Women Instantly ...

As soon as he’s set eyes on you, a man is ticking off his mental checklist and working out if he should be asking you out. And most of the time, us ladies don’t even know this is going on! While different men’s checklists will be slightly different, there does seem to be a few points that all men use. Here are the eight things he notices immediately...

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Are You Smiling?

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One of the first things he’ll notice about you is if you are smiling, and if you are, whether it is a genuine smile. A relaxed, sexy smile is a real turn on, and most men will be able to tell the difference between this kind of laid back smile and a false, uptight smile. So, whatever is going on, smile. You never know who is watching!

How High is Your Voice?

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If you are talking, he’ll be listening to how your voice sounds. Deep and sexy could be a temporary turn on, but guys are wired to know that a high, feminine voice (think Kirsten Bell and similar) is a sign of health and fertility. And while he might not be after kids yet, he’s still a result of evolution, and he can’t help it!

Your Hair

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Men don’t notice our hair, right? Wrong. While he might not be great at noticing when you’ve had your hair cut, when he first saw you, he will have looked at it. Why? Biology is to blame..men notice how luscious and thick your hair is, and use this as an indicator as to how healthy you are. Interesting!

Your Hip-to-Waist Ratio

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Men will notice your hip to waist ratio...they can’t help it. They aren’t half as critical as you would think, though. He’s only looking to see if your hips are a little bigger than your waist, which gives that hourglass figure that indicates fertility. Help it along with a wide belt!

Who You Are with

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Don’t think he won’t notice who you are with...he’ll use it to decide if he can talk to you. If you are with a large group, it could be hard for him to get your attention, and intimidating to walk over. But if you are with just one other, you are unlikely to leave them to talk to him. Three is ideal...the other two can talk, while you slip away!

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Meaning is not what you start with but what you end up with.

Peter Elbow

How Fake Are You?

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He’ll also have a look at how fake you are. Do you have fake eyelashes, nails and hair extensions? To men, fake signifies high maintenance, and expense. And while it might draw his eye originally, he’s more than likely to walk away if he think you’ll be trouble...I might stick with my natural look!

Your Complexion

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Don’t think he won’t notice the efforts you put into your skin...he does pick up on your complexion. A radiant glow signifies good health, both physically and mentally. Stress and anxiety cause break outs and dull skin, and whether it’s natural or faked, a glow will definitely catch his eye.

Your Eyes

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The last thing he’ll notice? Your eyes. Eyes are mesmerising, and he’s sure to look at yours. Dress them up with sophisticated make up and a smile, and he’ll be getting lost in your eyes in no time...

So it would seem that just keeping yourself looking good is enough to keep him interested...and that men notice a lot more than I thought they would! It’s surprisingly easy, so there’s no excuses for getting it wrong! Have you noticed something else men check out? Please let me know!

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They notice your hands, nails, how healthy they are and if you chew your nails...

yes.........curves are their priority as evolution and biology suggest curvier have the distant clue to be better mother!

Ok i am a man and i know you covered smile a bit and i think that is the most attractive thing on a woman. As long as you also have a nice face and teeth to go with it. And i dont find women wearing skateboard shoes attractive at all.

Men are a fan of my hair and face. And the should to waist to hip ratio is very true.

Hi Smalex, Be natural and confident if he is for you he will be yours.

Okay so there's this really sweet guy that's in like half of my classes and one of my friends is like OBSESSED with him but he already told her that he doesn't like her back. Then we just started hanging out more and more and he walks me to practically every class and to lunch and stuff.We always end up running into eachother and it's almost weird. Then a whole bunch of people said that he liked me and i didnt want to hurt my friend so i tried to steer clear from him. And then of course...I started falling for him and we're almost constantly together.He has told people that he doesn't want to date now...but i don't know if he really likes me or not...I'm STUCK!

o i thought eyes were first

Hi! I just started high school on Monday, and the first guy i noticed is this super gorgeous guy. The thing is, he seems to be the guy with like, a billion friends! I mean he's really funny and smart, and he's in my classes, and i REALLY want to talk to him but...he's almost always with his guy friends. And when he's not with them he's with girl friends (not his girl friend, although im sure he has one) and they're these really pretty girls, which is really intimidating because im just average looking! So what do i do? I think i look up and he's looking at me, but i might just be imagining that since i look over like every 3 minutes (bad habit, ill need to stop...) and it's just i really want to know him! Im really shy and if i could just walk up and say hi i would! On the second day of school he was turning around a lot to talk to to his friend who sat in front of me then he noticed me and said "Ive seen you before..." and me, being stunned he actually spoke to me, just sat there looking at him. He asked, "were you in my drivers ed class?" i just shook my head no. He mummbled something i think and turned around, does that mean something? Im sorry this is so long! okay thanks if you can answer!!

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