7 Ways to Know a Guy Likes You …

By Fawn Wagner Some time ago

We’ve all heard that old saying men are from Mars and women are from Venus, we’ve seen the books and the magazine articles about how the different genders show their affection in different ways but in the middle of the battlefield we call dating it’s hard to remember the 90 different cues we’re supposed to get from body language. I say forget all of that, forget all the things you’ve read because these are the 7 ways to know that your guy likes you.

1. He makes contact at random times

He makes contact at random times
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Contact can be anything from a 3 minute phone call to see how your day was to a text message saying hey. If he’s contacting you without you having to make the first move that means you’re on his mind. It may seem like something small but even the smallest things make a world of difference.

2. He makes plans and sticks to them

He makes plans and sticks to them
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Now ladies, this does not mean that every guy that plans to meet you to drop off books or notes or a scarf you left somewhere likes you. It simply means that if a guy asks you on a date and sets a specific time and day, not just a vague idea, he wants to see you. If he does it more than twice that’s a pretty clear indication that he wants to spend time with you.

3. He introduces you to the important people in his life

He introduces you to the important people in his life
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If your guy is going out of his way to introduce you to his friends and family he thinks you’re important enough to get to know the people that are concrete facets in his life. A man that’s not interested won’t care enough to bring you around people that he has to see everyday.

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July 21, 2011 at 1:06 pm Permalink
Victoria says:

Well I Have This Guy Friend. That I met from this leadership program, I did Over The Summer, And When We First Met I Asked What Was His Name And Then He Asked Me Mine.And ... See more He’s Like Nice To Meet You.I’ve Only Known Him For 2 days Then.And He Is Kinda Shy ,But At Most Points He Looks At Me,Then Looks Away.And Then When We Were Playing A Card Game With Our Friends.He Was Always Laughing For Wat I Did And He Smiled Alot And Made Some Eye Contact Like He Was really Paying Attention To me.He Even Let Me Borrow His Jacket When I Was Cold.And A Napkin When We Were Eating Dinner Together And He Sat By Me.So On The Last Day I Wanted To Get All Of My Friends Numbers That I Met Especially His.And I Asked Him For His And He Didn’t Stubble At All And Gave Me it.And Then When I Came Up To His Table To Ask Other His other friends There Number He Seemed Kinda Sad Or Something. So Then I Texted Random People So They’ll Have My Number.And He Was The First One To Reply That Day.The Rest Of The Guys Replied The Next Day, Or Didn’t Reply At All.And He Really Seemed To Want To Talk To Me.And Excited.And We Texted For A Long Time. So I Really Like Him,And I Even Told Him I Liked Him,And I Asked Him If He Had Some Feelings For Me Because He Said He Wants To Have A Relaxed Summer And He Doesn’t Know If He Likes Anyone Cuz he thinks of His Ex Alot Which Was His Only Gf.So He Said He Does have Some Feelings For me.So I Told Him I Told Allen That He Should Throw A Party And Invite Everyone from The Program And He Thought It Would Be Cool,and I Asked If he Ever Liked To Hang Out Just Us Anmd hes lIke Ya Of Course! So We Kinda Planned To Hang Out Next Week But Idk When Or Where yet And it Might be With A Few Friends Too.So Hes Not really Making Alot Of Big Moves.But Ik He Might have Feelings for me. Which Im Hoping He Will.But I Still Have My Doubts On What If He Only Will Like Me As A Friend.And Not Want To Be My Bf Cuz We Live Far From Eachother.So idk How It Will Work.But I Really Like Him, Plz Help!

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January 30, 2011 at 12:49 am Permalink
Sydney says:

I really need help!

I like this guy at school, one of my guy friends to be exact. I’ve know him for a few months now and I talk to him a lot. It ... See more always makes me feel better, because he always makes me laugh and I just feel open around him. When we are walking to class he tries to catch up to me, and during the one class we have together, he tries to make me laugh. He teases me a lot, like when I don’t know he is there, he will tap my shoulder or snap in my ear, and once even through a ball at me during gym when the girl were leaving. Last Friday, I could see him out of the corner of my eye and when he caught my attention he would smile at me. I haven’t been introduced to most of his friends, through, and I don’t have his number so he can’t randomly talk to me. My friend says he likes me, or she thinks he does, but he has told her he didn’t, and admitted to my other friend some time back he knew I like him. My cousin said he probably didn’t tell my best friend I liked him because he knew it would get back to me. What do you think? Please help, I really like him!

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- January 31, 2011 at 8:54 pm
  Denise says:
  
  For a start, you should give him more opportunities and ways to talk and hang out with you. Make up an excuse and ask for his number or give him yours. Try to hang out ... See more with him while he’s with his friends so that you can be introduced to them. Just try to spend time with him more without seeming clingy or stalker-ish. Also, don’t forget to actually talk with him instead of just telling jokes and playing around. Get to know him better. You can then wait for him to feel something for you (and then tell you about it). You can also just make the first move and let him know that you like him. I always say you should give something you like a shot rather than regret not doing anything about it.
  
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July 26, 2010 at 11:36 pm Permalink
Arynn says:

These are awesome tips!
Okay, so i like this guy. He gives me mixed signs and I can’t decode his actions. (btw i’m 14, so i cant like seduce him. He’s also 14). Any advice?

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July 18, 2010 at 7:39 pm Permalink
Kayli says:

If a guy likes you, he will try to show off and impress you, even in the simplist of ways. It could be helping you carry something heavy to show his strength.
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He sould also tell jokes around you to make you laugh. If this happens, he might look at you to see if you’re laughing too and having a good time.

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July 18, 2010 at 2:54 am Permalink
Kayla says:

I think a guy who likes you will go out of his way to do things for you, sometimes without you even asking (or knowing!). A guy that I liked (and I felt like he ... See more liked me too) had made plans with me to go to the gym around 4 the next day. So 4 o’clock comes around and of course I was anticipating the call while on facebook to see if he was going to call or message me. A few minutes later I heard a knock on my door, my roommate answered it and when I saw it was him, the look on my face was just confused and a little shocked. He said his phone had died so he decided to go find me at my dorm instead. He had lived in the same dorm last year and I had told him sometime that I was in the hallway above the one he was in, so he tailgated into my residence hall, went upstairs, and checked all the nametags trying to find me. And yes, I thought it was creepy but still very sweet. He had left his bike on campus and walked to my dorm so we could walk to the gym together. That pretty much confirmed that he liked me (yay!).We dated for a short while but broke up and don’t talk anymore. I still miss that sweet side of him.

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July 13, 2010 at 10:21 pm Permalink
Karen says:

..thers this guy that used to like me..he told me so. But let him down..but for some reason I think I’m starting to like him..but when I asked him he was the one to reject..altho ... See more he shows those signs ..i don’t know wat to think:(

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July 11, 2010 at 1:05 am Permalink
Jaci Sappington says:

those are good tips i will surely watch out for signs keep writing!

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