Comments on: 7 Ideas on How to Dump a Guy Nicely http://allwomenstalk.com/7-ideas-on-how-to-dump-a-guy-nicely/ The Only Women Blog Wed, 25 Nov 2009 06:03:55 -1000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.5 hourly 1 By: Sheila http://allwomenstalk.com/7-ideas-on-how-to-dump-a-guy-nicely/comment-page-2/#comment-561871 Sheila Fri, 20 Nov 2009 00:34:53 +0000 http://allwomenstalk.com/7-ideas-on-how-to-dump-a-guy-nicely/#comment-561871 Hi Kiss&kill, If you are avoiding him then yes you are hurting him. Put him out of his misery and just tell him that it's not working out. Good luck! Hi Kiss&kill,
If you are avoiding him then yes you are hurting him. Put him out of his misery and just tell him that it’s not working out. Good luck!

]]> By: kiss&kill http://allwomenstalk.com/7-ideas-on-how-to-dump-a-guy-nicely/comment-page-2/#comment-561844 kiss&kill Thu, 19 Nov 2009 23:22:28 +0000 http://allwomenstalk.com/7-ideas-on-how-to-dump-a-guy-nicely/#comment-561844 i hav been goin out wit dis guy 4 lyk 7 months or sth n i ws crius 4 only d 1st 3 months...cz i hv no idea hw 2 dump him! On top of dat he ws d gy hu ws lyk my bro 4 arwnd 7 years or sth n nw i dunno how but we ended up d8in each oder. Dis is realy stresin cz i dnt wana hurt him but indirectly im by avoidin him ryt?? sooooo HELP PLZ!!! i hav been goin out wit dis guy 4 lyk 7 months or sth n i ws crius 4 only d 1st 3 months…cz i hv no idea hw 2 dump him! On top of dat he ws d gy hu ws lyk my bro 4 arwnd 7 years or sth n nw i dunno how but we ended up d8in each oder. Dis is realy stresin cz i dnt wana hurt him but indirectly im by avoidin him ryt?? sooooo HELP PLZ!!!

]]> By: Sheila http://allwomenstalk.com/7-ideas-on-how-to-dump-a-guy-nicely/comment-page-2/#comment-561683 Sheila Wed, 18 Nov 2009 19:53:19 +0000 http://allwomenstalk.com/7-ideas-on-how-to-dump-a-guy-nicely/#comment-561683 Hey Louuu, Give yourself more time to be sure. You're bound to miss him in two days. Only more time will tell you if you have made the right choice or no. So yeah, wait it out and see if you feel the same way in say 2 weeks. Hey Louuu,
Give yourself more time to be sure. You’re bound to miss him in two days. Only more time will tell you if you have made the right choice or no. So yeah, wait it out and see if you feel the same way in say 2 weeks.

]]> By: louuuu http://allwomenstalk.com/7-ideas-on-how-to-dump-a-guy-nicely/comment-page-2/#comment-561660 louuuu Wed, 18 Nov 2009 13:23:43 +0000 http://allwomenstalk.com/7-ideas-on-how-to-dump-a-guy-nicely/#comment-561660 i dumped my boyfriend of two months, thinking it was right as i wanted to go out and have fun. now i realise i am nothing without him after only 2 days, and want him back. dayum my stupd pride. i dumped my boyfriend of two months, thinking it was right as i wanted to go out and have fun. now i realise i am nothing without him after only 2 days, and want him back. dayum my stupd pride.

]]> By: Sheila http://allwomenstalk.com/7-ideas-on-how-to-dump-a-guy-nicely/comment-page-2/#comment-560937 Sheila Wed, 11 Nov 2009 05:04:32 +0000 http://allwomenstalk.com/7-ideas-on-how-to-dump-a-guy-nicely/#comment-560937 Hi Trichik, Well hun I really don't know what else to say except move on. He clearly has and yes it's a little mean that he discusses how he feels for this other girl with you but that should be reason enough. It's going to be hard, I wont lie but it will get better with time! And don't date other guys ifyou're not ready for it. You'll only end up comparing them to him and noone will be good enough. Give yourself time to heal which you will I promise! :) Hi Trichik,
Well hun I really don’t know what else to say except move on. He clearly has and yes it’s a little mean that he discusses how he feels for this other girl with you but that should be reason enough. It’s going to be hard, I wont lie but it will get better with time! And don’t date other guys ifyou’re not ready for it. You’ll only end up comparing them to him and noone will be good enough. Give yourself time to heal which you will I promise! :)

]]> By: trichick http://allwomenstalk.com/7-ideas-on-how-to-dump-a-guy-nicely/comment-page-2/#comment-560851 trichick Tue, 10 Nov 2009 02:57:01 +0000 http://allwomenstalk.com/7-ideas-on-how-to-dump-a-guy-nicely/#comment-560851 ok so im still in love with the guy who broke up with me. but he really likes this other girl, and she is a little bit more filled out then me. especially in the butt. plus they are best friends and she knows he likes her and she keeps breaking his heart by prentending to like him and then just using him to get to someone else. he is always telling me about how bad it hurts, its like i want to scream out, HOW DO YOU THINK I FEEL! he is driving me nuts! he is all i think about, and wwhen i try to get over him by going out with other people, but it only makes it worse.=( ok so im still in love with the guy who broke up with me. but he really likes this other girl, and she is a little bit more filled out then me. especially in the butt. plus they are best friends and she knows he likes her and she keeps breaking his heart by prentending to like him and then just using him to get to someone else. he is always telling me about how bad it hurts, its like i want to scream out, HOW DO YOU THINK I FEEL! he is driving me nuts! he is all i think about, and wwhen i try to get over him by going out with other people, but it only makes it worse.=(

]]> By: Sheila http://allwomenstalk.com/7-ideas-on-how-to-dump-a-guy-nicely/comment-page-2/#comment-560562 Sheila Fri, 06 Nov 2009 20:34:41 +0000 http://allwomenstalk.com/7-ideas-on-how-to-dump-a-guy-nicely/#comment-560562 Samuel, A text or mail is the worst possible way to dump someone, girl or boy! Samuel,
A text or mail is the worst possible way to dump someone, girl or boy!

]]> By: Samuel http://allwomenstalk.com/7-ideas-on-how-to-dump-a-guy-nicely/comment-page-2/#comment-560425 Samuel Thu, 05 Nov 2009 22:11:40 +0000 http://allwomenstalk.com/7-ideas-on-how-to-dump-a-guy-nicely/#comment-560425 I am a boy and i appreciate the ways you suggested to dump a guy. But, being here i think i should share one more kind of guys to get rid of whom you won't need this hustle. For them a text or mail stating " I AM OFF " works well. And they won't even ask you the reason or any kind of explanation. Have fun ladies. I am a boy and i appreciate the ways you suggested to dump a guy.
But, being here i think i should share one more kind of guys to get rid of whom you won’t need this hustle. For them a text or mail stating ” I AM OFF ” works well. And they won’t even ask you the reason or any kind of explanation.

Have fun ladies.

]]> By: Sheila http://allwomenstalk.com/7-ideas-on-how-to-dump-a-guy-nicely/comment-page-2/#comment-559701 Sheila Sat, 31 Oct 2009 09:04:13 +0000 http://allwomenstalk.com/7-ideas-on-how-to-dump-a-guy-nicely/#comment-559701 Kookie, I don't now why a lot of us fall for men who are mean to us. It's weird. You CAN do much much much better! Kookie,
I don’t now why a lot of us fall for men who are mean to us. It’s weird. You CAN do much much much better!

]]> By: Sheila http://allwomenstalk.com/7-ideas-on-how-to-dump-a-guy-nicely/comment-page-2/#comment-559697 Sheila Sat, 31 Oct 2009 08:48:29 +0000 http://allwomenstalk.com/7-ideas-on-how-to-dump-a-guy-nicely/#comment-559697 Bekkkkii, We do read what our readers have to say and try and respond to as many as we can :) Having said that, this guy that you're dating sounds really needy to me. Like he's just scared that he wont have another girlfriend and that's why will do anything to keep you in the picture. A year is too short a time (especially in a long distance relationship) for anyone to get attached to such an extent that they would "give up on love". Like I said needy and needlessly dramatic. And if you've broken up 7 times in this one year, something's definitely not right. So break up again and this time do it right. Make it clear to him that this is it. You can't do long distance. And the reason you keep going back to him is out of pity and not because you love him and that's not fair to either of you. Good luck sweetheart :) Bekkkkii,
We do read what our readers have to say and try and respond to as many as we can :)
Having said that, this guy that you’re dating sounds really needy to me. Like he’s just scared that he wont have another girlfriend and that’s why will do anything to keep you in the picture. A year is too short a time (especially in a long distance relationship) for anyone to get attached to such an extent that they would “give up on love”. Like I said needy and needlessly dramatic. And if you’ve broken up 7 times in this one year, something’s definitely not right. So break up again and this time do it right. Make it clear to him that this is it. You can’t do long distance. And the reason you keep going back to him is out of pity and not because you love him and that’s not fair to either of you. Good luck sweetheart :)

]]> By: Bekkkkkiiiii http://allwomenstalk.com/7-ideas-on-how-to-dump-a-guy-nicely/comment-page-2/#comment-559678 Bekkkkkiiiii Sat, 31 Oct 2009 03:55:13 +0000 http://allwomenstalk.com/7-ideas-on-how-to-dump-a-guy-nicely/#comment-559678 alright, i have this boyfriend. we've been dating in a long-distance relationship for almost a year. he spent $1,000 dollars to visit me once. he is in love with me, and he chokes me with his love. he constantly say's i love you. i know i used to feel love towards him mostly through the whole relationship, but long-distance is a very hard thing to deal with. i've broken up with him 7 times, but he is so pathetic and depressed when i do, i just run back to him with out even thinking. i just recently got back together with him, (the 7th time), and i don't feel as strong as feelings as i used to towards him anymore. i can't stay in this relationship. but, i can't stand to break his heart. i mean, i was once in complete love with him. i just can't handle the distance. he obviously is doing fine with it, and he just bought me a promice ring. he almost spent $2,000. he says he would give up on love if i gave up on him. he was my first kiss, and first real boyfriend. he's a bit nerdy with not many friends, and i just need to move on. but, i know he can't move on, and it kills me to know that i would put him through so much pain... what should i do? i doubt anyone even frekkin' read this.... alright, i have this boyfriend. we’ve been dating in a long-distance relationship for almost a year. he spent $1,000 dollars to visit me once. he is in love with me, and he chokes me with his love. he constantly say’s i love you. i know i used to feel love towards him mostly through the whole relationship, but long-distance is a very hard thing to deal with. i’ve broken up with him 7 times, but he is so pathetic and depressed when i do, i just run back to him with out even thinking. i just recently got back together with him, (the 7th time), and i don’t feel as strong as feelings as i used to towards him anymore. i can’t stay in this relationship. but, i can’t stand to break his heart. i mean, i was once in complete love with him. i just can’t handle the distance. he obviously is doing fine with it, and he just bought me a promice ring. he almost spent $2,000. he says he would give up on love if i gave up on him. he was my first kiss, and first real boyfriend. he’s a bit nerdy with not many friends, and i just need to move on. but, i know he can’t move on, and it kills me to know that i would put him through so much pain… what should i do? i doubt anyone even frekkin’ read this….

]]> By: kookie http://allwomenstalk.com/7-ideas-on-how-to-dump-a-guy-nicely/comment-page-2/#comment-559639 kookie Fri, 30 Oct 2009 18:30:12 +0000 http://allwomenstalk.com/7-ideas-on-how-to-dump-a-guy-nicely/#comment-559639 I dont no whether i love him or not. I think I do but I know that I can do much much much mcuh better. He treats me like shit. I dont no whether i love him or not. I think I do but I know that I can do much much much mcuh better. He treats me like shit.

]]> By: Sheila http://allwomenstalk.com/7-ideas-on-how-to-dump-a-guy-nicely/comment-page-2/#comment-558508 Sheila Fri, 23 Oct 2009 08:30:07 +0000 http://allwomenstalk.com/7-ideas-on-how-to-dump-a-guy-nicely/#comment-558508 Hayley, Wow! Only a week and it's already not working out AND you like his best pal??! Well as for breaking up, if you don't think it's working out, maybe he doesn't either. So just meet him and tell him whatever you think. Maybe you'll be lucky enough to skip the post breakup awkward phase and go back to being great friends considering it was only a week long relationship. But please don't do anything about this crush you have on his pal....not right away anyway. Hayley,
Wow! Only a week and it’s already not working out AND you like his best pal??! Well as for breaking up, if you don’t think it’s working out, maybe he doesn’t either. So just meet him and tell him whatever you think. Maybe you’ll be lucky enough to skip the post breakup awkward phase and go back to being great friends considering it was only a week long relationship. But please don’t do anything about this crush you have on his pal….not right away anyway.

]]> By: Hayleyy baabes ox' http://allwomenstalk.com/7-ideas-on-how-to-dump-a-guy-nicely/comment-page-2/#comment-558425 Hayleyy baabes ox' Thu, 22 Oct 2009 17:44:09 +0000 http://allwomenstalk.com/7-ideas-on-how-to-dump-a-guy-nicely/#comment-558425 Well ive been going out with my bf for about a week now But its just not working out We dont seem any different to when we were just friends but the thing is i loved our friendship, hes so funny. even his laugh maakes me lmao I waant to breaak up with him in the nicest waay possible!! and so thaat we will still haave our friendship. And the worst thing is, i like his bestmaate!! PLEASE HELP ME!!! Well ive been going out with my bf for about a week now
But its just not working out
We dont seem any different to when we were just friends
but the thing is i loved our friendship, hes so funny. even his laugh maakes me lmao
I waant to breaak up with him in the nicest waay possible!! and so thaat we will still haave our friendship.
And the worst thing is, i like his bestmaate!!
PLEASE HELP ME!!!

]]> By: Sheila http://allwomenstalk.com/7-ideas-on-how-to-dump-a-guy-nicely/comment-page-2/#comment-554522 Sheila Wed, 07 Oct 2009 14:01:33 +0000 http://allwomenstalk.com/7-ideas-on-how-to-dump-a-guy-nicely/#comment-554522 Trichik, You sound confused to me :) You should probably stay single for a bit and stop breaking all those hearts..... Trichik,
You sound confused to me :) You should probably stay single for a bit and stop breaking all those hearts…..

]]> By: Sheila http://allwomenstalk.com/7-ideas-on-how-to-dump-a-guy-nicely/comment-page-2/#comment-554510 Sheila Wed, 07 Oct 2009 13:41:01 +0000 http://allwomenstalk.com/7-ideas-on-how-to-dump-a-guy-nicely/#comment-554510 Thays, Commuication is key to making any relationship work. It is amazing how many issues can be sorted by simply talking your heart out :) Thays,
Commuication is key to making any relationship work. It is amazing how many issues can be sorted by simply talking your heart out :)

]]> By: thays http://allwomenstalk.com/7-ideas-on-how-to-dump-a-guy-nicely/comment-page-2/#comment-554186 thays Tue, 06 Oct 2009 19:21:49 +0000 http://allwomenstalk.com/7-ideas-on-how-to-dump-a-guy-nicely/#comment-554186 Hello girls, or gay guys! well its true that sometimes a guy can get really attached and stuff like that, and maybe u dont want that or ur not ready! or maybe its just the way he is or the way things are going around... well i've been thru that, and broke up with him, we was friends and then i asked my self wat the effing did i do? because i just looked at the bad side of all this instead of first talking it out and letting him know.... after a couple weeks as friends we talked it out, and he was just being like that cuz he thought i didnt like the real him and that i deserved a better guy! well today we're dating once again and on oct.21st will be 5 months of happiness that we've been leaving... so my point is dont let one thing be stuck in your mind talk it out, maybe something is bugging him?! so that would help rather then breaking up with him... :D thankxx for taking sometime to listen to my comment! with loves thays Hello girls, or gay guys!

well its true that sometimes a guy can get really attached and stuff like that, and maybe u dont want that or ur not ready! or maybe its just the way he is or the way things are going around…
well i’ve been thru that, and broke up with him, we was friends and then i asked my self wat the effing did i do? because i just looked at the bad side of all this instead of first talking it out and letting him know….

after a couple weeks as friends we talked it out, and he was just being like that cuz he thought i didnt like the real him and that i deserved a better guy! well today we’re dating once again and on oct.21st will be 5 months of happiness that we’ve been leaving…

so my point is dont let one thing be stuck in your mind talk it out, maybe something is bugging him?! so that would help rather then breaking up with him…

:D thankxx for taking sometime to listen to my comment!

with loves thays

]]> By: trichick http://allwomenstalk.com/7-ideas-on-how-to-dump-a-guy-nicely/comment-page-2/#comment-554045 trichick Tue, 06 Oct 2009 00:46:59 +0000 http://allwomenstalk.com/7-ideas-on-how-to-dump-a-guy-nicely/#comment-554045 omg. i have a rep for breaking up and going out with people alot. and im going out with this guy right now and hes nice and all, but i cnt tell my mom about him cause she wouldnt approve of him, therefore i cnt do anything with him. plus hes not even cute. buti feel really bad cause like i went out with this dude and he broke up wit me and stuff. and i still like hm and we still flirt txt and i also flirt txt with this guy the is sooo fine! idk wat to do. i mean im trying to change my rep so i think im gonna b single for a while.............. if ypu have anymore advice, please tell me. thanks! omg. i have a rep for breaking up and going out with people alot. and im going out with this guy right now and hes nice and all, but i cnt tell my mom about him cause she wouldnt approve of him, therefore i cnt do anything with him. plus hes not even cute. buti feel really bad cause like i went out with this dude and he broke up wit me and stuff. and i still like hm and we still flirt txt and i also flirt txt with this guy the is sooo fine! idk wat to do. i mean im trying to change my rep so i think im gonna b single for a while………….. if ypu have anymore advice, please tell me. thanks!

]]> By: Olga Moore http://allwomenstalk.com/7-ideas-on-how-to-dump-a-guy-nicely/comment-page-2/#comment-536107 Olga Moore Thu, 13 Aug 2009 02:22:04 +0000 http://allwomenstalk.com/7-ideas-on-how-to-dump-a-guy-nicely/#comment-536107 to Hart Brkn: Hmm... It depends on how much you like the guy who asked you out... If he's a nice guy, I'd go out with him and see how it goes, talk, you, know, you might find out something about your crush too. But I wouldn't kiss this guy, as this might make things complicated for the whole love triangle when you and your crush get together. But date sounds pretty innocent. to Hart Brkn:

Hmm… It depends on how much you like the guy who asked you out… If he’s a nice guy, I’d go out with him and see how it goes, talk, you, know, you might find out something about your crush too. But I wouldn’t kiss this guy, as this might make things complicated for the whole love triangle when you and your crush get together. But date sounds pretty innocent.

]]> By: hart brken http://allwomenstalk.com/7-ideas-on-how-to-dump-a-guy-nicely/comment-page-2/#comment-536054 hart brken Wed, 12 Aug 2009 23:24:36 +0000 http://allwomenstalk.com/7-ideas-on-how-to-dump-a-guy-nicely/#comment-536054 one of my boy best friends wants to go out with me, but Im inlove with his mate! how do I handle this? one of my boy best friends wants to go out with me, but Im inlove with his mate! how do I handle this?

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