7 Disadvantages of Long Distance Relationships …


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7 Disadvantages of Long Distance Relationships ...

Every relationship has it’s ups and downs, but none of those problems could anyhow compare to the ones you’ll have to face if you, by any chance, decide to engage in a long distance relationship. I’m not saying long distance relationships suck, on no! I just have a firsthand experience on how it all works and, although you can expect a lot of wonderful, happy moments, you have to be prepared that it’s not all flowers and butterflies. So here’s the list of some problems I had to deal with and some practical tips and solutions I kind of figured out in the process of trying to keep my relationship healthy, strong and filled with love and passion.


1. You can’t see each other every day

Nothing beats live conversation, hugs, kisses and romantic moments spent together! Skype can make things a little bit easier because you don’t have to type – you can just turn your camera on, sit back, relax and chat. However, not even Skype can replace that wonderful feeling of knowing that your special somebody is just a phone call away. But, let’s look on the bright side – all this time you spend away from each other makes you appreciate those rare, special moments you actually get to share. So snap as many photos as you can and look at them whenever you feel sad or lonely.

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  1. March 8, 2012 at 11:07 am Permalink
    davies says:
    i thnk one shud b less selfish 2 deal with a long distance relationship
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  2. February 13, 2012 at 7:27 am Permalink
    essy says:
    my best friend and i have feelings for eachother but he is afraid of as moving to next side level because he is fron madagascar while i am in kenya we love eachother but we ... See more don’t know if we should follow our feeling cz they are growi ng so fast for use to control them he does not want to be separated from me
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    • February 14, 2012 at 4:47 pm
      Sheila says:
      Hi Essy,
      Well that’s a tough situation to be in and honestly, sweetie the two of you need to discuss it and figure out what you want to do. A long distance relationship is certainly ... See more hard but its not impossible. So if the two of you have real strong feelings for each other, I think its certainly worth a shot despite the distance. But like I said, it’s something the two of you have to decide. So, good luck and thank you for reading AWS!
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  3. April 14, 2011 at 3:54 pm Permalink
    Sara says:
    Thank you so much – my boyfriend is leaving next week and I’ve been worrying about it for weeks, this post is actually very inspirational :)!!
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  4. January 30, 2011 at 5:48 pm Permalink
    Morugann says:
    My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship for almost a year.

    He’s in India/Thailand (constant travelling between them) and I’m in Canada.

    We met in India while I was ... See more living there, but I moved back and we decided to stay in a long distance. This month it’s going to a year we’ve been together.

    Although these disadvantages are true, but i feel that we get closer even if your are literally far apart.

    But in another year my plan is to move to Thailand to do my Master’s degree. So I will get to see him much more often.

    :)
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    • January 31, 2011 at 5:19 pm
      Sheila says:
      Hey Morugann,
      It’s so nice to hear that the two of you are making it work so well inspite of the distance :)
      That’s exactly the kind of positive stories we need to hear!
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  5. January 29, 2011 at 12:25 pm Permalink
    akanksha says:
    yeah
    dey r true
    even i am facing these probs
    bt wenevr meet each other
    v hv dat diff intensity , diff shine in our eyes . . .

    n ... See more he cares fr me same as he used to do earlier
    so m fine vid it
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  6. January 26, 2011 at 4:01 am Permalink
    Panda says:
    Sometimes we don’t have a choice but to be in one…..

    my boyfriend(now husband)& i lived 4 hrs away from each other for the beginning of our relationship, he lived on ... See more a army post…& i couldn’t. We decided we didn’t want the long distance thing anymore, & we found a place by post, moved in,got married,
    …..and within that same month, the Army deployed him over seas for a year….no honeymooners here… hes still there, and i am still here, waiting and praying for him to come home safe.

    its hard, very hard, & just when you know you have hit rock bottom,… you drop again…but then you get one of those random late night phone calls from a funny looking number or an instant message “baby, you awake? out on missions for 2 days, ill try to call…i miss you sweetheart” are always there giving you a reason to get up again….

    this type of situation is not one for someone who still has “things to figure out” long distance relationship take so much more commitment then you could ever imagine. if your willing to work through it together,you can build an amazing and deep connection. it helps you learn quick what fights are worth it and which are not,thus teaching you self control, it helps you be able to read the other person emotional state completely just by the way they said hello,these little tricks make a world of difference. and because you cant physically be there to nurture the relationship, every little trick makes up the differnce… sorry i just realized i have rambled on! lol i will cut myself of now!Srry!
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    • January 26, 2011 at 5:27 pm
      Shakti says:
      @Panda…those are heart melting words.I am in the same situation as yours and I can truly feel what you mean.Hope you two be together soon.
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    • January 27, 2011 at 6:51 pm
      Sheila says:
      Hey Panda,
      Your story makes me sad but also warms my heart at the same time. I think it’s wonderful and so amazing that the two of you are making it work. I can’t imagine ... See more how difficult it must be! Here’s wishing you both tons of luck! Thanks for sharing :)
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  7. January 25, 2011 at 9:02 pm Permalink
    JMK says:
    I think this article is really well written and truly captures the disadvantages. Great job, Ms. Jovanovic!
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  8. January 25, 2011 at 2:00 pm Permalink
    peachy says:
    But then if you see your boyfriend everyday, you would wish he lives in another planet
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    • January 25, 2011 at 2:55 pm
      Shakti says:
      LOL….Peachy.
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    • January 25, 2011 at 3:18 pm
      Sheila says:
      Hahaha Peachy,
      I don’t want to see him everyday but I definitely want the option of being able to, if that makes sense.
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  9. January 25, 2011 at 1:10 pm Permalink
    Shakti says:
    So true…..you cant get the other to hug when you need or share totaly yourself after a long day or you may feel totaly alone even in crowd.
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    • January 25, 2011 at 2:24 pm
      Sheila says:
      Hey Shakti,
      I tried it once and I totally failed at it :( I have great respect for everyone who is in one!
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