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		<title>By: Sheila</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sheila</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Oct 2009 16:57:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey Millie,
Thanks for writing in! I know I don&#039;t need to say this but please think about your decisions a million times! You don&#039;t want to regret anything. Especially when a 13 year marriage is in question. Good luck sweetheart :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey Millie,<br />
Thanks for writing in! I know I don&#8217;t need to say this but please think about your decisions a million times! You don&#8217;t want to regret anything. Especially when a 13 year marriage is in question. Good luck sweetheart :)</p>
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		<title>By: Millie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Millie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Oct 2009 01:10:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>These tips sound great. Specially after 13 years of marriage. We just had a baby and my hormones are going wild. At the same time he is use that I am only the Mom of his kids ( we had 3 ages 9,8 and the newborn) Since I lossed some weight I am remember how to take care of my self and feeling good in my own skin! If he doesn&#039;t wake up next step is filing for it but let see what happend. Thanks for the tips.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>These tips sound great. Specially after 13 years of marriage. We just had a baby and my hormones are going wild. At the same time he is use that I am only the Mom of his kids ( we had 3 ages 9,8 and the newborn) Since I lossed some weight I am remember how to take care of my self and feeling good in my own skin! If he doesn&#8217;t wake up next step is filing for it but let see what happend. Thanks for the tips.</p>
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		<title>By: Dee</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dee</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Oct 2009 04:23:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Lily,

I understand why you may feel as though there&#039;s something wrong with your husband being friends with his exes...  I would too.  Yes, it does have to do with some jealousy... but we&#039;re supposed to be jealous if there&#039;s a teeny bit of distrust in your guy.  The thing is that we&#039;re all humans and we cannot be trusted to be Perfect.  Guys like sexy girls (wife or not), girls like attention from guys (husband or not).  I think it&#039;s wise to avoid anything that could lead to an affair and/or a heart-attachment.  I KNOW my husband would hate it if I was close friends with crushes I&#039;ve had in the past (can&#039;t say exes because he was my first boyfriend). Point is:  I agree with you, I wouldn&#039;t want him to even WANT to have those friendships, why not stay friends with guys... most girls will always want attention from guys (even if its a married man)... it&#039;s a thin line between just friends and what if... in a weak moment.  I also think that those who think a married person can have a perfectly close friendship with a person of the opposite sex and have a healthy marriage also... well, that person is either not married themselves, like a married person themselves,maybe has not being married for long, does not understand men, or is in denial.

Now... with this in mind, I still think that your husband is his own person and has the right to be who he wants to be, be friends with whom he wants to be, do what he want to do... just like you.  NO ONE WILL NECESSARILY CHANGE WHEN MADE TO... OR PRESSURED TO.  BUT EVERYONE WANTS TO BE ACCEPTED AS THEY ARE.  I&#039;m not in your situation... If it&#039;s a far away (facebook) kind of friendship, I think it&#039;s safe.  If they are hanging together a lot... hmm... i&#039;d think &#039;why not me&#039;?

I think a man likes to be accepted for who he is with no changes...  We ALL have something to work on... none of us are perfect.  I&#039;ve noticed that many women, including myself, tend to be very critical all the time... we can be experts at finding the faults in a man that we&#039;re married to.  We can compare with other men, etc... but if you were married to those other men, you&#039;d find their faults, which can be just as irritating. Men are men and will always be men... and there is GOOD to this.  So, I&#039;ve learned that the key for us women is to learn to look at the GOOD side of that man and praise this side, encourage his good, appreciate that good, admire his great qualities that make him the man you fell in love with.  I&#039;ve learned that if you treat him as you would like him to be, he may end up acting like so.  He&#039;s got his goods, focus on them... and PRAY about the stuff that irritates you.  Now, choose your battles (what is worth letting him know that bothers you)... you don&#039;t want to bombard him with ALL THIS stuff that bothers you... just pick the one thing you&#039;d really like him to KNOW bothers you and why.  And do it in a calm &quot;i love you&quot; way... and then make him laugh... do something fun so it doesn&#039;t feel so heavy afterwards.  I&#039;ve also learned that laughter (specially after a serious conversation) works wonders in a marriage (specially for the man) they tend not to always &#039;have something bad to talk about the relationship&quot;... it makes them feel like they&#039;re the ones at fault, they may not feel their best and feel bummed out.  So that&#039;s why we praise and encourage their good... to help them know we still respect them for those good things they do (they work and bring in money... that&#039;s enough to respect :))...

Hope this helps a bit.  I&#039;m not perfect, but take what you think will help you guys.  

Dee</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Lily,</p>
<p>I understand why you may feel as though there&#8217;s something wrong with your husband being friends with his exes&#8230;  I would too.  Yes, it does have to do with some jealousy&#8230; but we&#8217;re supposed to be jealous if there&#8217;s a teeny bit of distrust in your guy.  The thing is that we&#8217;re all humans and we cannot be trusted to be Perfect.  Guys like sexy girls (wife or not), girls like attention from guys (husband or not).  I think it&#8217;s wise to avoid anything that could lead to an affair and/or a heart-attachment.  I KNOW my husband would hate it if I was close friends with crushes I&#8217;ve had in the past (can&#8217;t say exes because he was my first boyfriend). Point is:  I agree with you, I wouldn&#8217;t want him to even WANT to have those friendships, why not stay friends with guys&#8230; most girls will always want attention from guys (even if its a married man)&#8230; it&#8217;s a thin line between just friends and what if&#8230; in a weak moment.  I also think that those who think a married person can have a perfectly close friendship with a person of the opposite sex and have a healthy marriage also&#8230; well, that person is either not married themselves, like a married person themselves,maybe has not being married for long, does not understand men, or is in denial.</p>
<p>Now&#8230; with this in mind, I still think that your husband is his own person and has the right to be who he wants to be, be friends with whom he wants to be, do what he want to do&#8230; just like you.  NO ONE WILL NECESSARILY CHANGE WHEN MADE TO&#8230; OR PRESSURED TO.  BUT EVERYONE WANTS TO BE ACCEPTED AS THEY ARE.  I&#8217;m not in your situation&#8230; If it&#8217;s a far away (facebook) kind of friendship, I think it&#8217;s safe.  If they are hanging together a lot&#8230; hmm&#8230; i&#8217;d think &#8216;why not me&#8217;?</p>
<p>I think a man likes to be accepted for who he is with no changes&#8230;  We ALL have something to work on&#8230; none of us are perfect.  I&#8217;ve noticed that many women, including myself, tend to be very critical all the time&#8230; we can be experts at finding the faults in a man that we&#8217;re married to.  We can compare with other men, etc&#8230; but if you were married to those other men, you&#8217;d find their faults, which can be just as irritating. Men are men and will always be men&#8230; and there is GOOD to this.  So, I&#8217;ve learned that the key for us women is to learn to look at the GOOD side of that man and praise this side, encourage his good, appreciate that good, admire his great qualities that make him the man you fell in love with.  I&#8217;ve learned that if you treat him as you would like him to be, he may end up acting like so.  He&#8217;s got his goods, focus on them&#8230; and PRAY about the stuff that irritates you.  Now, choose your battles (what is worth letting him know that bothers you)&#8230; you don&#8217;t want to bombard him with ALL THIS stuff that bothers you&#8230; just pick the one thing you&#8217;d really like him to KNOW bothers you and why.  And do it in a calm &#8220;i love you&#8221; way&#8230; and then make him laugh&#8230; do something fun so it doesn&#8217;t feel so heavy afterwards.  I&#8217;ve also learned that laughter (specially after a serious conversation) works wonders in a marriage (specially for the man) they tend not to always &#8216;have something bad to talk about the relationship&#8221;&#8230; it makes them feel like they&#8217;re the ones at fault, they may not feel their best and feel bummed out.  So that&#8217;s why we praise and encourage their good&#8230; to help them know we still respect them for those good things they do (they work and bring in money&#8230; that&#8217;s enough to respect :))&#8230;</p>
<p>Hope this helps a bit.  I&#8217;m not perfect, but take what you think will help you guys.  </p>
<p>Dee</p>
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		<title>By: Sheila</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sheila</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 26 Sep 2009 22:12:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Mike, I agree. Some of these points are a little too extreme. And honestly I think your asking for trouble. I wouldn&#039;t want my perfectly trusting boyfriend/husband to suddenly have doubts in his head. That&#039;s hardly going to help. Now, joining the gym, taking care of myself, making myself look good. That I can do! And when you look good, you know other men are gonna turn to look at you. That&#039;s about all the jealousy he needs to hold on to you tight me thinks ;)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Mike, I agree. Some of these points are a little too extreme. And honestly I think your asking for trouble. I wouldn&#8217;t want my perfectly trusting boyfriend/husband to suddenly have doubts in his head. That&#8217;s hardly going to help. Now, joining the gym, taking care of myself, making myself look good. That I can do! And when you look good, you know other men are gonna turn to look at you. That&#8217;s about all the jealousy he needs to hold on to you tight me thinks ;)</p>
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		<title>By: mike</title>
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		<dc:creator>mike</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 26 Sep 2009 12:44:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I may say that some of the advises seem a little bit boorish and crude to me, but maybe you are after that kind of guys (also the picture kind of reminded me of such), then I would not be interested in that kind of a girl, so I cannot judge here. 

However learning to like yourself and caring about your look are universally accepted as attractive to other people, also briefly described in points 1 to 3; is a nice reminder, fair enough!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I may say that some of the advises seem a little bit boorish and crude to me, but maybe you are after that kind of guys (also the picture kind of reminded me of such), then I would not be interested in that kind of a girl, so I cannot judge here. </p>
<p>However learning to like yourself and caring about your look are universally accepted as attractive to other people, also briefly described in points 1 to 3; is a nice reminder, fair enough!</p>
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		<title>By: y</title>
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		<dc:creator>y</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Jul 2009 01:06:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>well, i did the mistake of cutting him aggressively of his ex, and now 17 years after its coming back big time, like emails containing i miss you and stuff like that. apparently i should have red this article many years ago i did all the mistakes, i neglected my looks, waited at home, dependent on him, became jealous and sour, obviously we are on the verge of splitting but we have kids together so we take our time to try to work this thing, and about the no 6 issue, i know its not very mature but it worked for me...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>well, i did the mistake of cutting him aggressively of his ex, and now 17 years after its coming back big time, like emails containing i miss you and stuff like that. apparently i should have red this article many years ago i did all the mistakes, i neglected my looks, waited at home, dependent on him, became jealous and sour, obviously we are on the verge of splitting but we have kids together so we take our time to try to work this thing, and about the no 6 issue, i know its not very mature but it worked for me&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: chizoba</title>
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		<dc:creator>chizoba</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 29 Jun 2009 14:57:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>dnt follow the trend,be yourself,love him the way u want,be free with him and don`t pretend.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>dnt follow the trend,be yourself,love him the way u want,be free with him and don`t pretend.</p>
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		<title>By: Meream</title>
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		<dc:creator>Meream</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 08 May 2009 16:45:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Well, you don&#039;t have to hang out with your husband&#039;s ex if it makes you uncomfortable. :) That&#039;s perfectly understandable. 

I&#039;m glad you like my ideas. I hope I am helping you in any way. :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well, you don&#8217;t have to hang out with your husband&#8217;s ex if it makes you uncomfortable. :) That&#8217;s perfectly understandable. </p>
<p>I&#8217;m glad you like my ideas. I hope I am helping you in any way. :)</p>
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		<title>By: Lily</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lily</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 07 May 2009 16:53:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I understand. and I agree with you about having friends out side the marriage which we already do. But my problem is that how can you sit on a table with someone you know that your partner had shared things with including bed?! I may be sensitive, and to me it just does not sound right.

Thank for your constant reply :) am really happy to talk to you!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I understand. and I agree with you about having friends out side the marriage which we already do. But my problem is that how can you sit on a table with someone you know that your partner had shared things with including bed?! I may be sensitive, and to me it just does not sound right.</p>
<p>Thank for your constant reply :) am really happy to talk to you!</p>
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		<title>By: Meream</title>
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		<dc:creator>Meream</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 07 May 2009 16:47:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Lily, I am friends with my exes. It is perfectly possible. I guess your question stems from your jealousy issues, too. You have to remember that while it may be ideal for you and your husband to be the ONLY friends you each know, it is healthy for to have friends outside the marriage. This friendship can be with exes or other girls.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Lily, I am friends with my exes. It is perfectly possible. I guess your question stems from your jealousy issues, too. You have to remember that while it may be ideal for you and your husband to be the ONLY friends you each know, it is healthy for to have friends outside the marriage. This friendship can be with exes or other girls.</p>
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		<title>By: Lily</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lily</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 07 May 2009 07:57:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks Meream, that was helpful 

I have another question (for otehr women as well): is it normal that your husband still keeps in touch with ex-girlfriends from long time ago? (Say that trust is not the problem here as you trust him 100%- but it is just the principle of it)? Could you met his x-girlfriends and act like friends? if they were an item in the past, is it possible that they became friends after they knew that the relationship did not work out? could love turn into a friendship if the relationship did not work?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks Meream, that was helpful </p>
<p>I have another question (for otehr women as well): is it normal that your husband still keeps in touch with ex-girlfriends from long time ago? (Say that trust is not the problem here as you trust him 100%- but it is just the principle of it)? Could you met his x-girlfriends and act like friends? if they were an item in the past, is it possible that they became friends after they knew that the relationship did not work out? could love turn into a friendship if the relationship did not work?</p>
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		<title>By: Meream</title>
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		<dc:creator>Meream</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 06 May 2009 16:41:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I keep hearing from other women that you should not show your husband that you are weak!! ---&gt; This does not sound right. A relationship is not a battle. You and your husband are not opponents and taking advantage of the other&#039;s weakness is not right. 

There is a post here Allwomenstalk about love blogs. SOme of those might help you.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I keep hearing from other women that you should not show your husband that you are weak!! &#8212;> This does not sound right. A relationship is not a battle. You and your husband are not opponents and taking advantage of the other&#8217;s weakness is not right. </p>
<p>There is a post here Allwomenstalk about love blogs. SOme of those might help you.</p>
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		<title>By: Lily</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lily</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 05 May 2009 18:27:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Plz i need help:

I am married and I have been having problems with my husband bcoz I dont feel secure and I feel jealous from everything. Problems became bigger until I decided to tell him that &quot;yes I feel unsecure because of problems in my childhood) and I told him that I need his help to overcome this.

He understood, but now and then I regret telling him that because I keep hearing from other women that you should not show your husband that you are weak!!

What do you think?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Plz i need help:</p>
<p>I am married and I have been having problems with my husband bcoz I dont feel secure and I feel jealous from everything. Problems became bigger until I decided to tell him that &#8220;yes I feel unsecure because of problems in my childhood) and I told him that I need his help to overcome this.</p>
<p>He understood, but now and then I regret telling him that because I keep hearing from other women that you should not show your husband that you are weak!!</p>
<p>What do you think?</p>
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		<title>By: Why is He Never Jealous?</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 09 Nov 2008 05:40:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] from MsCyphrah Newsvine answers a question about the dilemma of a woman whose boyfriend never seems to get jealous. Even when she spends time with some of her male friends, her boyfriend does not seem to mind, [...]</description>
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		<title>By: SuzieQ-</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Nov 2008 16:53:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Maybe a 12 year old wrote it? I think going out of your way to make someone jealous is just wrong. I don&#039;t see anything wrong with taking care of yourself, but it seems the insecure one would be the girl that does damaging hurt to her man.  My advice?
Let your man know you think he&#039;s great and praise the little things he does for you. (He will then want to please you more). Yes, do the most with your looks, but don&#039;t become superficial and uppity. Nobody likes UPPITY, selfish, *itchy women. 
Looks or not, they don&#039;t score high. 
and most importantly...be a kind, loving, generous woman. A man will LOVE you for that.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Maybe a 12 year old wrote it? I think going out of your way to make someone jealous is just wrong. I don&#8217;t see anything wrong with taking care of yourself, but it seems the insecure one would be the girl that does damaging hurt to her man.  My advice?<br />
Let your man know you think he&#8217;s great and praise the little things he does for you. (He will then want to please you more). Yes, do the most with your looks, but don&#8217;t become superficial and uppity. Nobody likes UPPITY, selfish, *itchy women.<br />
Looks or not, they don&#8217;t score high.<br />
and most importantly&#8230;be a kind, loving, generous woman. A man will LOVE you for that.</p>
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		<title>By: Dragon</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dragon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 30 Oct 2008 00:45:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wow, this is terrible, awful advice.

Want to have a mature meaningful adult relationship? Then stop reading crap like this and try being a mature adult. It&#039;s really not that hard.

If you&#039;re dumb enough to actually try these ridiculous mind games you deserve to get left. Then you can go to the bar with all your other single girlfriends who also got left and whine about how there are no good men out there.

Pathetic. Just pathetic.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow, this is terrible, awful advice.</p>
<p>Want to have a mature meaningful adult relationship? Then stop reading crap like this and try being a mature adult. It&#8217;s really not that hard.</p>
<p>If you&#8217;re dumb enough to actually try these ridiculous mind games you deserve to get left. Then you can go to the bar with all your other single girlfriends who also got left and whine about how there are no good men out there.</p>
<p>Pathetic. Just pathetic.</p>
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		<title>By: rhiannon</title>
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		<dc:creator>rhiannon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 18 Oct 2008 13:50:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Noone needs to put so much effort in a relationship that is working out. Ladies, be nice to your man. You&#039;d never want to dream of him doing all these things to you. I think this is a recipe for divorce, unless if he&#039;s that desperate.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Noone needs to put so much effort in a relationship that is working out. Ladies, be nice to your man. You&#8217;d never want to dream of him doing all these things to you. I think this is a recipe for divorce, unless if he&#8217;s that desperate.</p>
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		<title>By: nate</title>
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		<dc:creator>nate</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Sep 2008 01:03:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>These tips are a good way to piss off a guy and make him wish you would trust him, but I don&#039;t see them reviving your relationship unless the man is really timid and unsure of himself.

Manipulation is not the way to fix any relationship. Is it so hard to TALK to your husband / boyfriend? Be honest and kind, be reasonable and rational, let him have his space and don&#039;t be clingy. If you act like this article says, you&#039;ll be single even more quickly than you would have been before.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>These tips are a good way to piss off a guy and make him wish you would trust him, but I don&#8217;t see them reviving your relationship unless the man is really timid and unsure of himself.</p>
<p>Manipulation is not the way to fix any relationship. Is it so hard to TALK to your husband / boyfriend? Be honest and kind, be reasonable and rational, let him have his space and don&#8217;t be clingy. If you act like this article says, you&#8217;ll be single even more quickly than you would have been before.</p>
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		<title>By: Ai</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ai</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Jul 2008 23:06:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>this list isn&#039;t all that bad....taking care of yourself, making sure you look pretty for your guy, changing your hairstyle or updating your wardrobe, having your own hobbies and passion in life, not forgetting your friends and not making your man your entire reason for being but still making sure he knows he&#039;s loved and that you&#039;ll always make the effort to take care of him, these are all fun and healthy ways for a woman in a relationship to become a more balanced and well-rounded person and partner, but i really didn&#039;t like number 5 and 6 on the list.........those advice just sound manipulative and lame, i totally get what Brian was saying too! just be loving and take good care of yourself and your man and you wouldn&#039;t even be thinking up ways to make him jealous because you&#039;d be having so much fun with each other :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>this list isn&#8217;t all that bad&#8230;.taking care of yourself, making sure you look pretty for your guy, changing your hairstyle or updating your wardrobe, having your own hobbies and passion in life, not forgetting your friends and not making your man your entire reason for being but still making sure he knows he&#8217;s loved and that you&#8217;ll always make the effort to take care of him, these are all fun and healthy ways for a woman in a relationship to become a more balanced and well-rounded person and partner, but i really didn&#8217;t like number 5 and 6 on the list&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;those advice just sound manipulative and lame, i totally get what Brian was saying too! just be loving and take good care of yourself and your man and you wouldn&#8217;t even be thinking up ways to make him jealous because you&#8217;d be having so much fun with each other :)</p>
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		<title>By: Brian</title>
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		<dc:creator>Brian</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Jun 2008 17:44:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I don&#039;t know what desperate guys this plan is supposed to work on but this plan would get me seriously in the frame of mind for a divorce.

You ladies want a real simple plan to get your man to treat you how you deserve?

Take care of yourself. If you expect him to continue to be Prince Charming then you need to continue to be his Princess.

If something isn&#039;t working for you in the relationship, TELL HIM ABOUT IT! Is open and honest communication so difficult that people can&#039;t do it with the person you took a vow to spend the rest of your life with them? If you can&#039; openly and honestly communicate with someone don&#039;t waste your time and their&#039;s by marrying them.

No wonder why women have such a hard time in relationships, they read this crap.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I don&#8217;t know what desperate guys this plan is supposed to work on but this plan would get me seriously in the frame of mind for a divorce.</p>
<p>You ladies want a real simple plan to get your man to treat you how you deserve?</p>
<p>Take care of yourself. If you expect him to continue to be Prince Charming then you need to continue to be his Princess.</p>
<p>If something isn&#8217;t working for you in the relationship, TELL HIM ABOUT IT! Is open and honest communication so difficult that people can&#8217;t do it with the person you took a vow to spend the rest of your life with them? If you can&#8217; openly and honestly communicate with someone don&#8217;t waste your time and their&#8217;s by marrying them.</p>
<p>No wonder why women have such a hard time in relationships, they read this crap.</p>
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