How to Get a Guy to like You the Lowdown ...

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How to Get a Guy to like You the Lowdown ...

This is some inside information here ladies, so pay attention. If you really, and I mean really, want to get a guy to like you then take this advice to heart. Men, whether they be teenagers or older, are not nearly as complicated as you like to think; so read along with me and learn how to use this to your advantage!

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Keep Your Thoughts Zen ...

Don't, dramatic., GIFSec.com, Guys like girls that they can understand. I don't mean dumb yourself down, but rather un-complicate things when you can. Don't play head games and don't turn everything into an episode of Oprah. If a guy thinks you're too much trouble it will be very difficult to get them to like you.

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Be Yourself (the Real One) ...

MikeA, person, facial expression, emotion, profession, Everyone hands out this piece of advice; yet it is the one that you ladies seem to ignore the most. Don't be who you think the guy wants you to be, just be yourself. Guys can see right through the fake bit, and if you are attracted to the type of man who wants a phony then you might want to reevaluate your standards.

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Don’t Be Afraid of Letting Your Hair down ...

InIIIMIIIIIII, Now this one can be a little specific depending on the man, but in general (myself included) we like women who are not afraid to get a bit dirty. If it's summertime and you invite a guy to go hiking with you, for the love of god wear a T-shirt not a tube top. Repeat after me, lip gloss is okay for outdoor activities lipstick is not. Know the difference.

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You Have a Brain, Use It ...

You're, beautiful, and, smart, but, If I have to date one more woman whose depth of conversation only includes celebrity gossip I may need to reevaluate my gender preference. You don't need to be a rocket scientist to attract a man, but you do need to at least have something of value to say. If you're interested in sports, that's great; politics, even better. Just remember number two, say what you want to say not what you think he wants you to say.

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An Interesting Hobby ...

film, could, with, hobby., Everyone needs to have something interesting that they like to do. When you let a guy know that you are passionate about your hobby it lets him know that you are an interesting and dynamic person. This is also a great way to meet guys who have similar interests.

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Look Good when You Need to ...

person, blond, woman, mouth, profession, Thus far I’ve avoided the superficial route; but let's face it, if you want to get a guy to like you you're probably going to need to appeal to his visual instincts. Now before you get the torches, I'm not saying dress like a whore; rather just know how to make yourself look nice when you go out whether it's to the movies, a club or just when you go shopping.

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Be Aggressive, B-E Aggressive ...

person, singing, profession, know, what, Look, that shrinking violet thing you women like to do sometimes? It's not cute. The majority of men are not under the delusion that they are hunters of women. This is some inside information here, so pay attention. All that stuff you've seen in the movies or read in books about how men like to be the aggressors in a relationship and make the first move… it's all crap.

Most men are just as stressed out about getting you to like them as you are about getting them to like you. So if you like a guy, grow a pair and make the first move. An assertive female is a turn on for lots of men, and at the end of the day you'll be saving a ton of time that would have otherwise been spent trying to get him to notice you.

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Actually Listen to Him

album cover, I'M, LISTENING, Don't just nod along to what he's saying while you get lost in his dreamy eyes. If you want him to like you, you're going to have to have meaningful conversations with him. The only way to pull that off is by actually listening to what he has to say and responding accordingly.

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Make Your Feelings Obvious

person, speech, people, religion, profession, Most men aren't very perceptive. That means that, no matter how many signs you give him, he's not going to realize that you're interested in him. While you don't want to do something crazy to express your love, you shouldn't be too subtle or he'll never get the hint.

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Have Good Hygiene

Why, you, smell, good?, If you want a guy to like you, you need to look presentable. That means that you should always have your hair clean, your clothes clean, and your face clean. To really reel him in, wear a delicious perfume that he won't be able to resist.

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Show Him Your Talents

combat sport, got, skills., Are you an amazing writer? Let him proofread a story you've written. Are you a great singer? Ask him to watch you preform at a talent show. Instead of bragging about whatever you're good at, let him see you in action so he can figure out how awesome you are all by himself.

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Make Him a Meal

person, lingerie, supermodel, model, singer, Men love to eat. In fact, so do women. No matter who you're trying to impress, it never hurts to make them a meal. If you aren't close enough to him to invite him over for dinner, make brownies for the entire office or classroom and he'll end up eating one.

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Show Your Personality

person, facial expression, black hair, singing, emotion, Don't let him make all of the decisions. If you're always blindly agreeing to what he has to say, he'll get bored of you. He wants you to have a personality, after all. So don't be afraid to tell him your opinion, even if it's different than his.

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Be Fun

clothing, person, human action, ceremony, physical exercise, Try to stay positive and enjoy life. No one wants to date someone that reminds them of how awful the world is. In order to get a guy to like you, you need to be fun and playful. Keep things lighthearted.

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Befriend His Friends

photobombing, Hanging, out, Men want their friends and family to approve of the girl that they decide to date. If you can become friends with his friends, then he's going to like you more than he already does. Impressing them will impress him. Just make sure that he realizes that you're interested in dating him, not his buddies.

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Be Open to His Interests

person, community, You shouldn't pretend to love whatever bands and sports he loves. However, if he asks you to watch baseball with him, don't decline. Tell him that you'll give it a shot, at least one time.

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Compliment Him

person, profession, like, the, parts, Men like to be liked. If you make it clear that you're crushing on him by giving him cute compliments, he'll consider dating you. Yes, it can actually be that easy.

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Get Competitive

art, theatre, Men like competition, so challenge him to a bowling match or a game of fooseball. It doesn't matter if you win or lose, as long as you have fun competing against each other. Just don't get too into it.

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Get Touchy

person, profession, tuxedo, formal wear, singer, When he says something funny, touch his shoulder. When you sit next to each other, allow your shoulders to brush. Take any chance you can to touch him. It'll get him thinking about you in a whole new way.

And there you have it, the definitive seven ways to get a guy like you. I say definitive, but I'm sure there's more tips out there. What are your secrets for getting a guy to like you?

This article was written in collaboration with editor Holly Riordan.

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Hey! So I'm Alex and I'm 15. The guy I like (let's just call him 'J') is in 3 of my classes...in a row. We've never officially met/officially had a decent conversation, unless you count, 'hey, can i borrow i pencil?'. J is in a slightly different crowd than mine, but not overly different. I'm utterly terrified of talking to him, and I wonder if he likes me. Example: in class #1, we sit opposite each other, and I catch him staring sometimes. Sometimes, if something funny happens in class, I see him looking at me! And when we get separated into groups, he looks at me then, too! Class #2 is gym, and he always ends up standing next to me! We were doing pushups in class, and he was next to me, and at one point, he looked over at me and smiled! Class #3: bio! He made his 'official' seat the spot on the counter right near my chair. I'm dying to talk to him! Advice??

hi well there is a guy i really like and ive like him for a few months now but he barely knows me and he isnt in any of my classes at school and he is only in my lunch. he used to make eye contact with me alot but now he stopped he only does like sometimes now and i get really confused like whats going on should i make a move or just move on

Soooo i like this guy and he's on my bus. his was in my history class last year andd we talked a little bit nut this year we dnt talk at all. we hav no classes together and im afraid to talk to him on the bus because im not popular and all his guy friends tht are around himm all the time are . what should i do?

I rlly like this guy ....but he knows i lile him and i doubt he feels the same he still talks to me sometimes and its impossable to be mad at him he also broke my trust once .... idk what to do he always flirting with my "friend" shes not even pretty tbh shes a total hoe ! And shes so mean with makes me feel worse that he rather flirt with her then me ......i feel used almost me and this guy had a good friendship we even slept on the same desk lmao i rlly with he would stop ignoreing me atm idk what to do !!plz help :(

Hey I've liked this guy for about two years now we were friends and I started liking him more and we used to talk a lot but now he has a gf and he hasn't talked to me in over two months!! He seems mad but I don't think I did anything and if I did he should at least talk to me about it!! I'm so confused!!!

i have liked this same guy from my swimming for about 3 months now. He is moving to America in February and I really want to spend his last few months with me. you know how people always say, "He likes you when he teases you" and he always does tease me and his friends and brother have been teasing me also. His brother and sister (who I also swim with) we all used to talk and be somewhat close, now that are all really quiet and don't talk to me. Do they know I like him?? How do I tell if he likes me? I don't have his phone number either but he has stopped coming to swimming. PLEASE HELP!!!!!

hey! so theres this guy ive known for 2 years, and now this year i finally have classes with him. One class is art and him and i talk a lot. He always says he likes my drawings and asks if i like his, he also asks for suggestions and asks questions like what color he should use. If he thinks of something random or something cool he'll say my name and tell me out of no where. Him and i usually never talked this much. When we can relax and listen to music in that class he talks to me a lot too. He always compliments me on my hair and tells me not to dye it again (because i wanted to). Today we found a case of soda which the teacher was suppose to be selling. He bought me one and said i didnt have to pay back, but when his other friends asked for him to buy one he said no. Also theres this comfy chair thats in the shape of a circle, and he was sitting there. i said something like aw i wanted that chair and he told me to sit with him. Because of the shape it pushes us really close together. He also talks to me in the hallway sometimes too. I can't tell if he likes me or is just trying to be friendly. I liked him before but we didnt do anything about it, and a lot of people said its because my friend liked him too.. So, what should i do? does it seem like he likes me or is he just being nice? thanks :)

this guy is in one of my classes and he always stairs at me and he always acts so nice around me but he hasnt asked me out or do anything what do i do? does he like me?he also makes me laugh but i am just not sure if he likes me at lunch he always stairs at me too.

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