7 Best Ways to Get a Guy to Like You …

7 Best Ways to Get a Guy to Like You …

6. Look good when you need to …

Thus far I’ve avoided the superficial route; but let’s face it, if you want to get a guy to like you you’re probably going to need to appeal to his visual instincts. Now before you get the torches, I’m not saying dress like a whore; rather just know how to make yourself look nice when you go out whether it’s to the movies, a club or just when you go shopping.

7. Be aggressive, B-E aggressive …

Look, that shrinking violet thing you women like to do sometimes? It’s not cute. The majority of men are not under the delusion that they are hunters of women. This is some inside information here, so pay attention. All that stuff you’ve seen in the movies or read in books about how men like to be the aggressors in a relationship and make the first move… it’s all crap.

Most men are just as stressed out about getting you to like them as you are about getting them to like you. So if you like a guy, grow a pair and make the first move. An assertive female is a turn on for lots of men, and at the end of the day you’ll be saving a ton of time that would have otherwise been spent trying to get him to notice you.

And there you have it, the definitive seven ways to get a guy like you. I say definitive, but I’m sure there’s more tips out there. What are your secrets for getting a guy to like you?

 

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7 Comments


  1. Positively Present, 05/23/09 at 8:11 am

    #2 is so important. Why would you want someone to like you for someone you’re not? Be yourself – always!

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  2. Ting, 05/24/09 at 2:11 pm

    your blogposts arer my favorite for sure! ;) you always have these great tips and it’s very organized i like it!

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  3. luppie Bond, 05/25/09 at 10:42 pm

    If you have to get this guy to like you, then he’s not you guy, babe

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  4. Lakesha, 06/1/09 at 9:53 am

    waz up

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  5. Lakesha, 06/1/09 at 9:53 am

    that is hard

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  6. Bridget, 07/26/09 at 10:57 pm

    well theres this guy that i have liked for along time and its hard because sometimes he will flirt with me and everyone around notices and then another day he could just go on and hardly talk to me and I dont know if he likes me or not. Please help!!

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  7. Lulu, 11/2/09 at 1:59 pm

    Bridget: I have the smae problem, why do guys like you one minute and not the next? Then change back again? I think he might not be sure whether you like him back or not. So, try subtly flirting with him.

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