Now that your engaged to the love of your life, how do you deal with his or her mother? From the moment you met her there was some tension in the air. She didn’t like the way you dressed, she didn’t like your hair, or she just didn’t think you were good enough for her son or daughter. So how do you fix these issues before you settle in with your soon-to-be spouse? Not to worry here are 5 tips that may help you have a relationship with her before you call off the wedding.

5. Don’t put your fiance in the middle…

Your fiance loves his mom and that love isn’t going any where. If you want to marry him and have a happy marriage, don’t put him in the middle of the battle you have with his mother. Or vice versa, men don’t put her in the middle of the battle you have with her mother. It’s between the two of you, not the three of you. Putting down their mother isn’t going to make anyone happy. No one likes to hear that their mother is annoying or a control freak. Learn how to deal with the future mother-in-law without making your fiance upset. However, you can ask your fiance for advice because they know their mother better than you do. Your fiance wants you two to get along, so do your best to put on a happy face.

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