1. Are Men Hardwired to Cheat?
Two guys weigh in. Check this post if you agree.
2. What if Your Sister’s Fiance Says He Wants You?
What will you do? Will You Tell Your Sister?
3. Does Your Boyfriend’s (or Husband’s) Mom Like You?
My boyfriend’s mom does and I know that I am very lucky. How about you girls?
4. Do You Split Housework with Your Significant Other?
If you do, just like the Obamas, you might be in a pretty good relationship. Find out why.
5. Is it Okay to Call A Guy?
This post is veering towards yes and seems insightful. Do you agree?
Splitting housework?????…..of course!!!…..the problem is that most men never see anything wrong with the way things are in the house….if they are able to make it across the room without tripping over something…then all is just fine.
I think that men only pretend this to be fine, so they are not asked to do any of the work, and if they do it, most of the time it’s not up to the woman’s standards anyway. And God forbid you express your opinion about it, it only gives them the excuse to state “well, if you think my job is not good enough, then why don’t you just do it yourself”!!
Ladies, don’t buy this….it is an excuse to stop being asked to help….accept it as is, and just touch it up a bit, very discretely!!!
Suburbangrandma,
I’ve only lived with a boyfriend once and thank goodness he was the cleaner of us two! He’d clean the house spotless, cook for me all the time, do the dishes…sigh! I miss that one. :)
I’m reading this book, How to kill your husband (and other handy household hints) I’m not usually a fan of chic-lit but the reason I bought this book was partly because of the description at the back. It starts with this “It is scientifically proven that no woman has ever shot her husband whilst vacuuming. Husbands say they would like to help more around the house, only they can’t multi-task. But would they have trouble multi-tasking at, say, an orgy?”
Lol! Just thought I’d share that
Great list of links! :)
In terms of calling a boy, I think it depends on how long the two of you have been together. In the beginning, I want a boy to pursue me – I think he should call. If he doesn’t maybe he’s just not interested. I realize that boys are always saying that they’re scared of rejection, but so are we. They need to take some initiative. I’m old-fashioned that way, I suppose. :)
What if Your Sister’s Fiance Says He Wants You?
That’s a ghastly situation. Some guys really bring you in an ugly situation!!
I once happened to me with my bestriend’s boyfriend and the worse was telling her what he told me even if nothing happend between us!
Sheila,
You’ve really been lucky with that guy!! :P
At least you can say you’ve lived the princess part for some time! :P
Xannyyy,
I know right?! Sigh! :) :)
Does Your Boyfriend’s (or Husband’s) Mom Like You?
My mum totally adores my boyfriend, I guess all I have to say is the same as this post, I’m really lucky!! These two are my life!
Xannyyy,
I’ve always had so much trouble with getting the bf’s parents to like me. Ugh! The thing is I’m shy and tend to be quiet and that sometimes comes off as me being snooty. I really need help in that dept!!
Lucky you love :P
Well Sheila I think all you’ve got to do is be your self!
Even if your qiet and shy, that’s you!
Maybe it wasn’t meant to be! And they surely don’t appreciate you as you are!
Mostly it’s what your BF thinks about you what’s imp!
But don’t worry youlf find your perfect mate and mather, father in laws :)
I really think it’s difficult for someone not to like you!!
Such a shame! Some people really are not worth it!
Awww Xannyyy!
Thank you for those kind kind words :) You’re the sweetest!
They’re the truth love! :)