How do you know if a guy is interested in you? Just because he hasn’t said those three little words doesn’t mean he isn’t crazy about you, but how can you tell without risking embarrassment of asking? Here are my telltale signs he likes you...
Snapshot Survey
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Glances
You catch him looking at you, whatever you are doing.
He always seems to be around when you're in the same room. He looks at you with a certain intensity in his eyes, like he's trying to figure out what you're thinking. He often smiles when you make eye contact, and he always seems to be interested in what you have to say. He may even blush when you talk to him. He may try to make physical contact with you, like brushing past you or touching your arm when he's talking to you.
He may also try to find ways to be around you, like asking to hang out with you or joining the same activities you do. He may even try to get your attention by doing things like complimenting you or making small jokes. He may also try to find out more about you by asking questions or talking about your interests.
When you're not around, he may ask your friends or family about you, or he may bring up topics that you've discussed in the past. He may also try to keep up with you on social media. He may even try to find out more about you by doing things like searching for your name online or looking you up on social media.
Jealousy?
You catch a glimpse of hurt when you talk to him about a hot man you met last night, or Brad Pitt. Double score if he then talks about a hot woman.
Just Saying Hi
He calls and texts you even when he is out with his friends. You know he’ll be getting grief for this, so it’s a sure sign that he likes you.
You're Invited
He talks about festivals or gigs he wants to go too, and waits for you to say you’ll go with him. Double points if he actually invites you, especially if they are later on in the year. Making plans with you is a big hint.
Getting Personal
He knows your birthday, and where you live, off the top of his head. Double points if he knows your dress size.
Thinking of You
He texts you randomly. Messages that have no purpose show that he is thinking about you, which is always a good sign.
Pays Attention
He listens to your compliments. Maybe he wears the shirt you like more, or he left his hair longer because you like it better like that?
All about You
He doesn’t notice when pretty girls walk past. While this doesn’t tend to last, it’s a good sign for now.
Details
When you go out, he pays an interest in where, whose going and what you’ll be wearing. He might try and make himself sound bored, but really he’s seeing if you’ll be dressing up for (hot) Tom from Marketing.
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Sweet and Understanding
He understands your mood swings, and doesn’t hold them against you. Double marks if he brings you a hot water bottle, or chocolate.
Memory Game
He remembers your friend’s names, and tries to remember all the gossip you share with him.
Just Because
He buys you flowers, or a coffee, or anything, just because.
Thoughtful Gifts
He buys you a birthday present that you actually like, not just the default maltesers.
Complimentary
He compliments you.
When a guy is into you, he'll often find ways to compliment you, whether it's about your appearance, your intelligence, or your sense of humor. It’s his subtle way of showing that he appreciates you and pays attention to the details that make you unique. Note the sincerity in his voice; genuine compliments come from someone who truly values your qualities. And if his words make you feel special and seen, it's a signal that he’s not just being polite—he's interested.
Touchy Touchy
He’s not afraid to touch you. Whether it’s a cuddle when you’re feeling down, or just touching your hand or arms while you’re talking, he’s showing you a big sign.
Right by Your Side
He cancels his plans for you. Arranging after work drinks? Suddenly his meetings been rescheduled, and he’s there by your side.
Up for Anything
He is willing to do girly things with you. Double points if you can make him sit through Sex in the City.
Exposes Himself
He talks about his family. Men are fierce protectors, and he’s exposing himself to you.
Flying Solo
He stays single, despite Gemma from Admins advances...
What's His is Yours
He lets you borrow his stuff, like a stapler, or his meeting room, or his spare toothbrush...
So give him a mark out of 20, and see how high he scores. If it’s over 15, try some mild flirting to test the water. If it’s fewer than 10, try to include him in your life more, from talking at work to going to the pub. Spending time together will increase his chances to impress you!
Have you got a sure-fire way to tell if he’s into you? Please tell me!
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