I hear a lot from my male friends that they don’t know how to show a girl they like her and how to make her feel the same way.
So, I thought it was time the guys heard from the women about what they truly want from men. And here are my top tips on capturing a girl’s heart, but I am sure you too have some ideas, Ladies, so, please, by all means, pitch in!
1. Listen to her …
Listen when she speaks, and engage in actual conversation. Women love to talk about things, so give her support, and ask her how she feels about things.
2. Actions speak louder than words …
Hold the door open for her, keep the lift, and help her carry heavy bags. Show her that you’re reliable and caring.
3. Remember important information …
Remember her birthday, her families’ names, her past…she’ll be impressed if you listen and reuse the knowledge.
4. Learn about her hobbies …
Make her feel important, and special. Remember her favorite bands, and ask her about new songs, or albums. She’ll feel close to you if she can discuss her opinions and likes with you.
5. Compliment her …
Don’t go overboard; just give her a small compliment once in a while. Tell her that her hair looks nice in the morning, and she’ll feel pretty all day. Check out how to give a good compliment to make sure you are doing it right!
6. Value her …
Tell her that you really love your lunchtime talks, or nights out. Make her feel a valued part of your day. Make her feel important, and she’s much more likely to open up to you.
7. Don’t overcrowd her …
Give her a little time to think about you, and miss you, if necessary. You can rest assured that if you’ve done all of the above, you’ll be on her mind.
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8. Get to know her friends …
Impress her friends, and you’re half way there! Seriously! You know how important PR is, soif you make her friends fall in love with you, they’ll for sure not rest until she falls in love with you!
I love this. It is so true and on the listening part….you actually have to listen don’t act like it because we can tell when you faking and actually not listening. Makes situation worse.
Hello Katie I wanted to thank you very much for the 16 ways you could get a girl to like you article.I’m a 25 yr old man and may not be a Hottie or anything like that but I look good and I usually do my best to follow those suggestions and they do work, but I was wondering if there was more I could do it just dosen’t seem to cut it anymore, are there new rules or something? All advice is greatly appreciated.
Wow.. I couldn’t have said it any better. This list is just perfect! :D
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I don’t think this advice really works guys .. They’d like puss moves .. I’m a girl and wat makes me like a guy is how passionate they are .. The bed is a good move .. Turn on a girl and ull have it in there=o in no time
I wish this was all that was needed but sadly it’s not true. This is a wonderful way to make female friends however. but not anything other than friends. To get a girl to ‘like’ you, and you all know what I mean, you need to create pure raw attraction. to do this, do things like make a few light hearted friendly jokes to her. A classic is when a girl is looking in the mirror fixing her hair, tell her to, “relax, your hair doesn’t look that bad.” In short, use this guide to make famale friends, use it to make very good female friends, but dont expect more than that.
Hey, Great article…But Just to add something extra…people , do not follow this article word for word, step for step. Customize these steps to fit your personality and who u areas a person. And, u can use these steps as they apply to the situation at hand. If you go step by step, you’ll most likely end up with a really good friend, or an “almost” love.
Great list.
Some girls like guys that are really out there. The kind that comes over and starts talking to the girl, making her laugh and having a good conversation.
If your REALLY outgoing, just going up to the girl and kissing her might give you some points, but for that, it really does depend on the girl.
Mainly, find out what she likes and get interested in it. Talk to her about it, if it’s an activity, go do it.
This is advice from a girl. Note that.