Comments on: 15 Ways to Start a Conversation with a Guy You Like … http://allwomenstalk.com/15-ways-to-start-a-conversation-with-a-guy-you-like/ The Only Women Blog Wed, 25 Nov 2009 23:24:51 -1000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.5 hourly 1 By: Sheila http://allwomenstalk.com/15-ways-to-start-a-conversation-with-a-guy-you-like/comment-page-2/#comment-562665 Sheila Wed, 25 Nov 2009 18:56:22 +0000 http://allwomenstalk.com/?p=62269#comment-562665 Hi Sarah, Well hun if you don't give him a chance, you won't really know. So stop backing off and talk to him. If he gets uncomfortably touchy, then yes back off. WIth more time and interaction, you'll know if he's just flirting or if he's genuinely interested. I know the popular ones are difficult but like I said give him a chance! Hi Sarah,
Well hun if you don’t give him a chance, you won’t really know. So stop backing off and talk to him. If he gets uncomfortably touchy, then yes back off. WIth more time and interaction, you’ll know if he’s just flirting or if he’s genuinely interested. I know the popular ones are difficult but like I said give him a chance!

]]> By: Sarah http://allwomenstalk.com/15-ways-to-start-a-conversation-with-a-guy-you-like/comment-page-2/#comment-562452 Sarah Tue, 24 Nov 2009 21:09:48 +0000 http://allwomenstalk.com/?p=62269#comment-562452 So...There's this guy: brilliant, cute, and absolutely amazing. Sometimes I think he likes me, and I have him wrapped around my finger. Other times though, when he has millions of other girls buzzing around him, I wonder how I could ever thought I had a chance. He knew me, before I'd even seen him before. He started saying hi to me in the halls, but then gradually stopped, because I was too shy to say hi back. Now, we always at least smile at each other, and say hi about half the time. One time when we were alone (he knew I would be the only person his age there), he wore cologne, and kept shifting toward me the whole night, but then cooled down when I kept backing away. He brushes past me sometimes, even when there's plenty of room, and touches my hands, shoulder or back when we talk or when he walks by me. I thought he liked me, but all the girls love him, and most of his friends are girls. They're all over his facebook with fake jokes even like "marry me" and "i'm your juliet". Does he really like me, or his he just the perfect flirt???? So…There’s this guy: brilliant, cute, and absolutely amazing. Sometimes I think he likes me, and I have him wrapped around my finger. Other times though, when he has millions of other girls buzzing around him, I wonder how I could ever thought I had a chance. He knew me, before I’d even seen him before. He started saying hi to me in the halls, but then gradually stopped, because I was too shy to say hi back. Now, we always at least smile at each other, and say hi about half the time. One time when we were alone (he knew I would be the only person his age there), he wore cologne, and kept shifting toward me the whole night, but then cooled down when I kept backing away. He brushes past me sometimes, even when there’s plenty of room, and touches my hands, shoulder or back when we talk or when he walks by me. I thought he liked me, but all the girls love him, and most of his friends are girls. They’re all over his facebook with fake jokes even like “marry me” and “i’m your juliet”. Does he really like me, or his he just the perfect flirt????

]]> By: Sheila http://allwomenstalk.com/15-ways-to-start-a-conversation-with-a-guy-you-like/comment-page-2/#comment-560817 Sheila Mon, 09 Nov 2009 18:57:43 +0000 http://allwomenstalk.com/?p=62269#comment-560817 inneedofadvice, Before asking him to homecoming, why don't you try and be friends with him again. Talk to him. Say you're sorry. And try to fix stuff! I'm sure if he still likes you, he wouldn't hesitate to give you another shot! And this time not over text please! :) inneedofadvice,
Before asking him to homecoming, why don’t you try and be friends with him again. Talk to him. Say you’re sorry. And try to fix stuff! I’m sure if he still likes you, he wouldn’t hesitate to give you another shot! And this time not over text please! :)

]]> By: inneedofadvice http://allwomenstalk.com/15-ways-to-start-a-conversation-with-a-guy-you-like/comment-page-2/#comment-560734 inneedofadvice Mon, 09 Nov 2009 03:32:47 +0000 http://allwomenstalk.com/?p=62269#comment-560734 Ok, so ive ''known'' this guy lightly for two years and over text he has told me i'm his best friend ever. we finally went out but everything was over text, so when i broke up with him i did it over text cuz that was the only way. i really like him and ive ruined everything. he started going to my school this year and i'm actually the only person in the grade he hasn't talked to yet. for some reason he sat next to me the other day in class. i want him to ask me to homecoming. what now? Ok, so ive ”known” this guy lightly for two years and over text he has told me i’m his best friend ever. we finally went out but everything was over text, so when i broke up with him i did it over text cuz that was the only way. i really like him and ive ruined everything. he started going to my school this year and i’m actually the only person in the grade he hasn’t talked to yet. for some reason he sat next to me the other day in class. i want him to ask me to homecoming. what now?

]]> By: pinklemonade http://allwomenstalk.com/15-ways-to-start-a-conversation-with-a-guy-you-like/comment-page-2/#comment-560669 pinklemonade Sun, 08 Nov 2009 02:28:53 +0000 http://allwomenstalk.com/?p=62269#comment-560669 so I shook his hand at church!! and I think I may have a good convo starter... tell me what you think: One of my friends asked to be his friend on facebook and I was thinking I could ask him how he knows her? so I shook his hand at church!! and I think I may have a good convo starter… tell me what you think: One of my friends asked to be his friend on facebook and I was thinking I could ask him how he knows her?

]]> By: Sheila http://allwomenstalk.com/15-ways-to-start-a-conversation-with-a-guy-you-like/comment-page-2/#comment-560636 Sheila Sat, 07 Nov 2009 12:59:58 +0000 http://allwomenstalk.com/?p=62269#comment-560636 Tori, Your friend seems to have super social skills and since you're shy yourself, use that friend to get to him. I'm sure the more you talk to him, the easier it will get to keep talking to him and soon you'll be able to do it all by yourself. Just make sure he does't fall for your friend in the meanwhile :D Tori,
Your friend seems to have super social skills and since you’re shy yourself, use that friend to get to him. I’m sure the more you talk to him, the easier it will get to keep talking to him and soon you’ll be able to do it all by yourself. Just make sure he does’t fall for your friend in the meanwhile :D

]]> By: Tori http://allwomenstalk.com/15-ways-to-start-a-conversation-with-a-guy-you-like/comment-page-2/#comment-560588 Tori Sat, 07 Nov 2009 00:04:30 +0000 http://allwomenstalk.com/?p=62269#comment-560588 There is this guy at my school he is in yr9 and im in yr7 but i should be in yr8 i know it sound weird but i like him even though i dont know any think about him and i dont know what to say to him when i see him and yesterday my friend went and started talking to him and she called me over so i went over and all we said to each other was hai i would love to talk to him and get to know him but i dont know what to say to him and i get nevers when i see him at school all the time but i really want to know what to say to him so could yu help me tori xoxo There is this guy at my school he is in yr9 and im in yr7 but i should be in yr8 i know it sound weird but i like him even though i dont know any think about him and i dont know what to say to him when i see him and yesterday my friend went and started talking to him and she called me over so i went over and all we said to each other was hai i would love to talk to him and get to know him but i dont know what to say to him and i get nevers when i see him at school all the time but i really want to know what to say to him so could yu help me tori xoxo

]]> By: Sheila http://allwomenstalk.com/15-ways-to-start-a-conversation-with-a-guy-you-like/comment-page-2/#comment-560244 Sheila Wed, 04 Nov 2009 21:44:19 +0000 http://allwomenstalk.com/?p=62269#comment-560244 Kate, Don't you hate it when guys don't get the point! Well you're just going to have to try harder. Why don't you ask him out to a movie or something. Or atleast go out for ice-cream. And if it's too weird to go alone, take a friend. Invite his friends. You've obviously gotta get closer before he can get the point. Good luck sweetheart! Kate,
Don’t you hate it when guys don’t get the point! Well you’re just going to have to try harder. Why don’t you ask him out to a movie or something. Or atleast go out for ice-cream. And if it’s too weird to go alone, take a friend. Invite his friends. You’ve obviously gotta get closer before he can get the point. Good luck sweetheart!

]]> By: kate http://allwomenstalk.com/15-ways-to-start-a-conversation-with-a-guy-you-like/comment-page-2/#comment-560169 kate Wed, 04 Nov 2009 05:27:30 +0000 http://allwomenstalk.com/?p=62269#comment-560169 hi. okay i need help. there is this guy i've known for 10 years but we haven't talked much recently. his mom and sister have told my mom that he really likes me. i like him too but he hasn't got the message obviously. i've tried to send subtle hints but he hasn't caught on. i am extremly shy to a fault. and i have like 0 experience with this kind of stuff. what do i do? hi. okay i need help. there is this guy i’ve known for 10 years but we haven’t talked much recently. his mom and sister have told my mom that he really likes me. i like him too but he hasn’t got the message obviously. i’ve tried to send subtle hints but he hasn’t caught on. i am extremly shy to a fault. and i have like 0 experience with this kind of stuff. what do i do?

]]> By: Samone http://allwomenstalk.com/15-ways-to-start-a-conversation-with-a-guy-you-like/comment-page-2/#comment-560150 Samone Wed, 04 Nov 2009 02:59:04 +0000 http://allwomenstalk.com/?p=62269#comment-560150 thanx for the ideas but another question...the guy that would more than likely have the information i need likes me..that would be kind of awkward and i dont want to hurt his feelings. i also dont want him to try to prevent anything from happening between me and the guy i like....what do i do now thanx for the ideas but another question…the guy that would more than likely have the information i need likes me..that would be kind of awkward and i dont want to hurt his feelings. i also dont want him to try to prevent anything from happening between me and the guy i like….what do i do now

]]> By: Sheila http://allwomenstalk.com/15-ways-to-start-a-conversation-with-a-guy-you-like/comment-page-1/#comment-560132 Sheila Tue, 03 Nov 2009 23:18:07 +0000 http://allwomenstalk.com/?p=62269#comment-560132 Hey Illiana, If both of them like each other, do you really wanna bother with him? I mean what can you do. I'd move on and find greener pastures :) Hey Illiana,
If both of them like each other, do you really wanna bother with him? I mean what can you do. I’d move on and find greener pastures :)

]]> By: Illiana http://allwomenstalk.com/15-ways-to-start-a-conversation-with-a-guy-you-like/comment-page-1/#comment-560126 Illiana Tue, 03 Nov 2009 22:10:15 +0000 http://allwomenstalk.com/?p=62269#comment-560126 hi i really like this guy he asked me 4 my number at a school dance. he texted me at night and said he likes me and my bff. the the next day he asked my bff to go out and she dosent no what 2 say, now she likes him and he likes me as a friend. how do i get him to like me more than a friend? how do i get him to go nuts about me, and ask me out not my bff! hi i really like this guy he asked me 4 my number at a school dance. he texted me at night and said he likes me and my bff. the the next day he asked my bff to go out and she dosent no what 2 say, now she likes him and he likes me as a friend. how do i get him to like me more than a friend? how do i get him to go nuts about me, and ask me out not my bff!

]]> By: Sheila http://allwomenstalk.com/15-ways-to-start-a-conversation-with-a-guy-you-like/comment-page-1/#comment-559449 Sheila Thu, 29 Oct 2009 08:56:31 +0000 http://allwomenstalk.com/?p=62269#comment-559449 Samone, Do you have any common friends? Maybe you could ask them to ask him? Or you could just hang out with him more or atleast talk to him on the phone. That should give you a better idea :) Samone,
Do you have any common friends? Maybe you could ask them to ask him? Or you could just hang out with him more or atleast talk to him on the phone. That should give you a better idea :)

]]> By: Samone http://allwomenstalk.com/15-ways-to-start-a-conversation-with-a-guy-you-like/comment-page-1/#comment-559367 Samone Wed, 28 Oct 2009 23:03:38 +0000 http://allwomenstalk.com/?p=62269#comment-559367 So I really like this guy @ school. I think about him all the time.I'm 15 I've never had a boyfriend..I get really shy around guys I like.we've talked a couple of times but not like a real conversation. I see him looking at me sometimes but he talks to all the girls at school. I can't tell if he likes me either. What do I do??? So I really like this guy @ school. I think about him all the time.I’m 15 I’ve never had a boyfriend..I get really shy around guys I like.we’ve talked a couple of times but not like a real conversation. I see him looking at me sometimes but he talks to all the girls at school. I can’t tell if he likes me either. What do I do???

]]> By: Sheila http://allwomenstalk.com/15-ways-to-start-a-conversation-with-a-guy-you-like/comment-page-1/#comment-559278 Sheila Wed, 28 Oct 2009 08:05:50 +0000 http://allwomenstalk.com/?p=62269#comment-559278 Confused, I'm with your bff on this. Give him some time and if he still doesn't get back to you, then freak out! He could have been busy or like your bff said not want to freak you out! :) Confused,
I’m with your bff on this. Give him some time and if he still doesn’t get back to you, then freak out! He could have been busy or like your bff said not want to freak you out! :)

]]> By: Confused http://allwomenstalk.com/15-ways-to-start-a-conversation-with-a-guy-you-like/comment-page-1/#comment-559261 Confused Wed, 28 Oct 2009 03:30:43 +0000 http://allwomenstalk.com/?p=62269#comment-559261 Ok I'm 16 and I just met this guy the other day and I think I might have a little crush on him so I took control and sent him a messge on facebook he seem interested to talk to me because he was actually talking not putting messages like cool or ya so today when I got on I started to chat with him he was really funny and we were talking about our day and the dance that just passed when my dad had to have his computer back so I told the guy to text me and he still hasn't tested me back and it's been like an hour and we were in the middle of a Convo I told my bff about and she said to not freak out he might not be texting you back b/c he doent want to seem weird by texting you back right away but I don't know what to do please help Ok I’m 16 and I just met this guy the other day and I think I might have a little crush on him so I took control and sent him a messge on facebook he seem interested to talk to me because he was actually talking not putting messages like cool or ya so today when I got on I started to chat with him he was really funny and we were talking about our day and the dance that just passed when my dad had to have his computer back so I told the guy to text me and he still hasn’t tested me back and it’s been like an hour and we were in the middle of a Convo I told my bff about and she said to not freak out he might not be texting you back b/c he doent want to seem weird by texting you back right away but I don’t know what to do please help

]]> By: Sheila http://allwomenstalk.com/15-ways-to-start-a-conversation-with-a-guy-you-like/comment-page-1/#comment-554716 Sheila Thu, 08 Oct 2009 07:05:01 +0000 http://allwomenstalk.com/?p=62269#comment-554716 Pinklemonade, Oh no that sucks! Well next week at church you have to talk to him.... Pinklemonade,

Oh no that sucks! Well next week at church you have to talk to him….

]]> By: pinklemonade http://allwomenstalk.com/15-ways-to-start-a-conversation-with-a-guy-you-like/comment-page-1/#comment-554618 pinklemonade Wed, 07 Oct 2009 23:16:51 +0000 http://allwomenstalk.com/?p=62269#comment-554618 well he didn't go so nothing really..... :( well he didn’t go so nothing really….. :(

]]> By: Sheila http://allwomenstalk.com/15-ways-to-start-a-conversation-with-a-guy-you-like/comment-page-1/#comment-553999 Sheila Mon, 05 Oct 2009 21:15:43 +0000 http://allwomenstalk.com/?p=62269#comment-553999 Pinklemonade, It's hard to tell if he was following you but maybe just maybe he is interested. How did it go at the youth group service?? Pinklemonade,
It’s hard to tell if he was following you but maybe just maybe he is interested. How did it go at the youth group service??

]]> By: pinklemonade http://allwomenstalk.com/15-ways-to-start-a-conversation-with-a-guy-you-like/comment-page-1/#comment-553733 pinklemonade Sun, 04 Oct 2009 20:37:33 +0000 http://allwomenstalk.com/?p=62269#comment-553733 thanks for the advice Sheila! Okay today at church he brought a friend and was waiting in the foyer when I got there with his friend. I was planning on possibly saying something to him but yeah. so anyway I went into the sanctuary and about a minute later he and his friend were in there basically it seemed like he was following me what do you think? We have a youth group service tonight and he may be there I don't know though... thanks for the advice Sheila! Okay today at church he brought a friend and was waiting in the foyer when I got there with his friend. I was planning on possibly saying something to him but yeah. so anyway I went into the sanctuary and about a minute later he and his friend were in there basically it seemed like he was following me what do you think? We have a youth group service tonight and he may be there I don’t know though…

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