You’ve been dating forever, and you’re so in love! You see engagements everywhere, and you find yourself planning your perfect wedding. Now all you need is for him to ask! But how do you get him to pop the question? Here are some great ideas!
1. Make sure you’re ready.
Are you really ready to be married, or are you rushing things because your sister or your friend has gotten married? Make sure you’re ready before you try and convince your guy.
2. Make sure he’s the one for you.
Again, before you start using your feminine charms to land your man, make sure he’s the one for you. It would be a shame to expend all of your time and effort for a man who’s all talk and no substance, or who you can’t see yourself growing old with, right?
3. Point out happily married couples.
Once you’re sure he’s the one for you, one good way to get the subject going is to comment on couples you both know that are happily married. Friends, relatives, even celebrity couples. Make comments on how good they are for each other, how loyal and devoted they seem.
4. Comment on rings.
When you walk by shop windows with engagement rings, stop and point out the ones you think are pretty, and the ones you think are gaudy. Comment on a friend’s ring, or his mother’s ring, Be specific, like, “What a gorgeous setting! Look how intricate it is!”
5. Have a friend drop a hint.
Ask one of your close friends to drop a hint to your guy. Have her ask what his intentions are, or ask her to tell him what a great couple you are, and how happy she would be to be a bridesmaid.
Jenni, dear … those ideas r gr8 every girl should try em :-D
Goldenangela,
Lol! Have you tried them out yet?? :D
Great ideas!
I’ll send these tips around to my friends..
For me it’s no good as I’m already asked and I replied with a big yesss!! :D
the day that i’d ask a guy to marry me… hell had probably frozen over lolol. i havent had sex yet, it would be nice to wait :]
Xannyyy, you are funny! :D
How did your fiance propose? If you don’t mind sharing. Hehe
Meream,
Well nothing special love.. We where always talking about how nice it would be if we got married and it never was quite of a question.. But them when we saw our house we were discussing it over dinner and the he proposed and I replied with a big Yes! And we bought the house and plans are being made :D He made me one of the happiest woman alive :D
Xannyyy, a house and a wedding! You are one lucky girl. But I’m sure your boyfriend is even luckier to have you. :)
I have done all this….When shall i get d answer???
:(…. i really cant wait more….is it d fault in me??was i too quick..its been 7 months
Hi MaJ,
7 months does sound a little too quick for me but every relationship is different. You need to back off a little and give him some space. Maybe he’s not ready yet. And by pushing him, you might risk losing him.
Meream,
Thanks alot love :)
We both count each other lucky :)
Are you single?
MaJ,
I would give it a little more time. 7 months are still few. Maybe he’s seeing it as too soon and he’s not ready yey. Give it some more time and don’t push too much. I’m sure he will come to his senses and in time he will ask you :)
Me and my boyfriend decided about marrige after two years.
You’ll see too that if you give it some time you’ll be more prepared!
Thanx for the advice :)
i think i shud back off a little
Your welcome MaJ! :)
Like Xannyyy said, if it’s in your destiny it’ll work out. Either way everything happens for a reason and at the end of it you will be happy :)
MaJ,
No problem love, any time you need it :)
You’ll see that if he’s your destiny, by time you’ll get your wish granted and all your dreams will come true! :)
:)