It is a known fact that couples like talking dirty, and esepcially that men like to hear it! Are you lacking that dirty talk in your relationship and you would like to have it? Do you need to first know how to talk dirty without sounding out of place? If so, then you are going to enjoy these 13 tips on talking dirty the right way. These are 13 tips that I have personally put together just for those of you who are starting out…
13. Start Slow.
If you are shy, then you can start out slowly. If you blush and giggle, then it is fine. You are the only two people in the room and it does not matter what anyone else thinks.
12. Whisper.
Sit next to your partner and whisper in his or her ear. Tell them what you would like. Once you are comfortable with it, talk out loud and tell them what you want. If you need, take their hand and show them where you would like to be touched.
11. Learn the Tricks.
When you are making love, request three or four things be done to you, but speak them louder. Be bossy if you need to!
whoa! lol nice topic. Aah I am so bad at dirty talking.
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Talking dirty is sexy ;)
I find it kind of natural, it just kinda fits with the mood, if you know what i mean ;)
And my boyfriend loves it…
hahahahhaha :p
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Hi Melanie! Very good article :)…..The whispering thing is working …but you are right with the dirty talk tone. You must practice that before… :)
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grrrr gotta love that lol
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You ladies just saved me a LOT of time. Olrite! Olrite! A LOT and LOT of time. Thank you. :)
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Noone can be as bad at dirty talking as I am. It is impossible to beat me. Really. Here’s a typical scenario:
Guy to me: “Do you like that”
Me: *long pause* Yes.
Guy: “Tell me what you want”
Me: *longer pause*
Ugh! I just can’t think of answers. It’s too much pressure. *screams*
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I get what Sheila is saying and I think that some of us are more submissive and when the dirty talk is expected of the submissive one it really ruins the mood. I still keep trying but it really doesn’t work for me. I like my man to take charge when it comes to sex, that turns me on! I am certainly not afraid to make noises that show my pleasure but hearing myself talk about it is such a turn off. It also takes me away from focusing on the moment.
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I love those games.
Partners would really appreciate them!
> Sheila anything that comes in mind when you have a passionate moment can be said. You’ll be sadisfied once your partner replies back to you, allowing the talk to expand variously!
Try it, it’s fun!
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I guess I’ve got to give that a try Xannyyy. But maybe its just that i’m too conscious about talking … !
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Great post! Such a well written informative article.
The way to a man’s heart is not only through his stomach, not even that place a little further south. If you really want to keep the lover you have, it’s in how you talk to him.
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Hey HTTD,
In that case I don’t think I’m ever going to reach any man’s heart :P
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Hallelujah Hannah!
I couldnt have said it better myself! :)
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im with hannah and sheila, one hundred and fifty percent.
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