First of all, I am going to be very open with the readers of my blog. I am not against anal sex. If you do it with the one you love and do it right, it can be fun. However, I have recently read a blog on here that a guy posted called 5 Reasons Why Men Like Anal Sex … I have to give kudos to him, because he listed some great reasons in my book.
However, this is not the first time I have researched the subject. I have noticed a lot of girls out there that say “No” when it comes to anal sex. When I was reading the comments to the blog I previously told you about, I found many reasons as to why they say no to anal sex. Below, I am going to give you 13 reasons that I found in previous blog entries (real women who say “no) on anal sex…
13. It hurts
Do you know how many posts I have seen where women say it hurts? This seems to be the top reason as to why women are saying no to anal sex.
12. Anal sex is a good way to get AIDS
I actually saw that in a blog post. According to research I have done, you cannot get aids from anal sex, unless the person already has aids. However, again, I have found that this is a reason many women give. Maybe it is an excuse to get out of anal sex?
11. It is a homosexual desire
While I do not believe this, again, I have found many women out there that say that it is a homosexual desire.
10. Why there?
Why would any guy want to put his penis up there in that dirty place? Yes, I actually saw that posted on a blog and well, many girls do agree with this poster.
9. The eeky factor
That is just plain out disgusting for many women and there’s not much that can be done about that.
8. It’s pointless
From the anatomical point of view there simply can be no pleasure out of anal sex for women. Seriously. There’s nothing up there that can actually make it feel good.
7. Lack of trust
I do not trust my man enough to have anal sex with him.
6.I am saving anal sex for a very very very very special day.
Somehow, I think that very very very special day is never going to get there for that girl. However, it is a very good reason.
5. It’s too big
The guys penis is just waaaay too big to go up in that little bitty hole.
4. We might bleed
When some girls have anal sex, they bleed out of the area and many women do not want to go through this. Women who are dealing with hemorrhoids say no to anal sex.
3. Droplets? No thanks.
Droplets coming out of the derriere are far from being sexy. Yes, that was from a blog post I read. Some women feel that it is not sexy at all.
2. It might cause health problems
There was one girl in a post that said she had too much anal sex and it stretched out her butt and caused her to have some problems. One of those problems was the fact that she could not control it. Do you think this could actually happen?
1. It’s just not for me
Anal sex is just not something that is enjoyed by some women. Not wanting it and not enjoying it should be enough to say no. Don’t you think?
So girls, how many of you out there like anal sex? Is there a reason other than what is on my list that you do not like anal sex? If so, would you please post it for me as I am doing a bit of research…thank you in advance.
ok that AIDS comment is so freakin STUPID and ignorant lol. when will people understand that a man and a women having anal sex is WAY different than 2 gay men having anal sex! if you are a straight guy and you want to please your lady in everyway possible (including anal) it so doesnt make you gay in any way. A MAN AND A WOMEN’S BODY IS COMPLETELY DIFFERENT so it shouldnt even be compared to gay guy anal sex lol. some women bleed from vaginal sex, so bleeding is nothing new. my thing is, when you’re in a serious relationship you need to be OPEN MINDED, and im not just talking about the women, men need to be too. its the doorway to a wonderful sex life with your partner.. and a better relationship over all
Rightly said Vanisha!:)
Vanisha, personally I think a lot of those comments are strange, but I had to put them, because that is what I stalked on many blogs scattered through the Internet. Every time I read number 5, I just have to laugh, lol. Thanks for reading the post. Feel free to check out the other posts I have made…
~Melanie
It’s for married ladies, sometimes u get that attraction between u & ur partner but for some reasons (mostly religious) u stop urself from going through all of this.. It’s a good reason for me too as well !
sex in any form is a personal choice, whatever a woman’s excuse for not wanting to perform anal sex, no mater how seemingly idiotic, is her excuse, and it stands.
Dolly,
Are you trying to say that anal sex is only for married women? Or that you don’t go through it because you’re married. I’m confused.
Anyway, for me, like I said before, I’m freaked out about the pain. And it seems unhygenic. No matter how much you’re going to clean and scrub, I don’t know. I don’t agree with the “no pleasure” point though. It is supposed to be very pleasurable once you get past all the pain and everything.
Are u girls trying 2 say one won’t get an infection when he dips in and out of ur ass and vagina at d same time, plus isn’t d smell horrible or is there a way to clean up prior 2 the act?
I can argue efffectively with a woman over 12 of those 13 reasons. You really can’t argue with #1; she she doesn’t want to, she doesn’t want to. I won’t deliberate all the other twelve, BUT I will debate #13 (and #5):
For women that have tried it once, Pain is probably the #1 reason most women say no to it. If it hurt, your partner is did it wrong! Inexperienced men wanting anal sex is the real reason women don’t want to try it. Every sexually active woman reading this blog can probably attest to at least one experience where a larger penis cause discomfort to her vagina (let alone her anus). The human body is a miraclious thing. If you partners take the time to stretch and prepare the location (anal or vaginal), the famale body can typically accept even the largest penis comfortably.
FupDuck,
I do remember seeing disturbing but fascinating pictures of how much the anus can stretch. Was it in a movie?? Thanks for sharing that :)
Inez,
You have to use the restroom before the act and also clean up really really well! That should ensure that there is no smell :)
Loved the post. Found it to be bloody true and hilarious, all at the same time…
Lol Zenmaster! Glad you liked it :) Keep visiting!
i like very much to do anal sex but my wife do not like it what i have to do?
Well Sonu,
You can’t force a woman to do what she doesn’t want to :)
In my opinion. Men who are driven to do anal are always most of the time inexperience. They watch it on porns and assume they know what its about. Anal sex is health hazard. Its not shaped like the vagina and the man has to know what he’s doing. Some men desire to try anal because they assume its a sexual desire but its not. Its a fact that because its done on porns they desire it also. Anal sex from the dawn of ages meant homosexuality. And men adjust anal sex with woman as being a typical reason why they should explore there sexual height. Yet the straight guys who hunger for anal sex refuse to accept that they have a slight bit of homosexuality driven within them. Hence women should have no problem with having sex with another women infront of them. Are they saying women have no shame of no dignity?
A woman wanting to try anal sex is rare. In society women just see it as very messy and the job of cleaning themself or that impudent thought of what will he feel is always crossing ones mind. A woman sticking her finger in the ass only feel faces so why would a man want to have sex alongside that. I personally have tried anal sex and those two experiences have been difficult. I do not believe that it gets easier. Its an experience that a woman goes “fucking never again” likewise the men enjoy the pleasure of it all. Yet most women just do anal no matter the cost for the requirement of pleasing a man. If he is concern about your true feelings he’ll understand that its health hazadous for a woman. Have men never heard of ANAL CANCER. A woman can die from it much faster than having a tumor or breast cancer. I love sex ladies and gentlemen. I’ve numerous friends ask if a man want anal sex all the time is that saying there pussy isn’t good enough. Its a funny topic but from my experience and my study of anal sex I say try it. But be very careful and such experience deserve only the person you are spending the rest of your life with. Not just anyone.
Wow Cindy,
Those are a lot of points most that I don’t agree with especially the homosexuality one. That’s just absurd. As for anal cancer, true that your putting yourself at risk but you can’t go through life unwilling to explore new things just because you fear something may go wrong. Thanks for sharing your thoughts though :)
@Cindy – I am guessing being Gay is wrong too. I mean you are entitled to your opinion but thrusting it onto others in a (how do I say this without sounding like a type A jerk) aggressive manner is not appreciated. I am sure your arguments have truth in them, but could you not find the funny in this post? I mean am just asking. Though, you are more than welcome to dismiss me as just another moronic imbecile with a 3rd leg.
:)