So you’ve found a man you like, and you’ve arranged a date. That’s supposed to mean the hard part is over, right? But really, it’s just beginning. What do you wear to give the right impression? Sexy, but not easy? After all, first date impressions are very important… Here are my top twelve ways to make sure you look amazing!
1. New Underwear…
First things first, go buy some new underwear! Find something sexy, in your favourite colour, and make sure it looks amazing. Whether its balconette, cut out, push up, suspenders… whatever makes you feel sexy. Now your underwear is sorted! Having sexy underwear is the start of a confident, hot outfit, and will give you a much sexier persona, even if you are the only one who knows you are wearing them.
2. Dress for your shape…
You know what suits you best, so dig around in your wardrobe for your most flattering outfit. Then, go find an updated version of it. If you aren’t sure, go to a department store and ask them to help you dress for your shape. Try to avoid stereotypical outfits, such as little black dresses, unless you find one that actually makes you look amazing… what you wear is important, so take some time hunting it out.
3. Hair!
Book yourself into your favourite salon, even if it’s just for a blow dry. Ask the stylist for advice on how to do your hair, and pay attention to what they are doing. This will allow you to pick up some tips, and make you feel confident and sexy. Perfect!
#4 is very important!! You may look hot, but if you feel like an idiot, it can ruin your confidence!
#5 is also extremely important! Who wants bad breath? You want pearly whites that will drive him crazy!!
A nice quote i found:
“A man on a date wonders if he’ll get lucky. The woman already knows.”
(http://thinkexist.com/quotes/with/keyword/date/)
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All good pointers. I think when you look at the mirror and like what you see, you automatically feel better and walk better. The confidence sorta shines through!
Rose, thanks for the funny quote. It’s so true! :)
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The thing with the new underwear is always recommended but I don’t think the guy will get to see it on the first date. This is just for yourself :)
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Tavia,
Yep just to feel sexy on the inside :)
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Tavia…niece clarification about the underwear..lol…good job!
I would also add that you should be a very good listener and observer, to be able to get to know him better, and to maybe decide on date #2.
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Hey SG,
Yep definitely. But also don’t just let him go on and on, respond to what he says. It’s easy to let the other person talk especially if you’re shy but to make a good impression, I think it’s just as important to contribute to the conversation.
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I like advice #1. Wearing new underwear is all about how you feel.
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I think you just have to be yourself. I mean, if the guy likes you for your looks only, it’s not worth a try with him. I don’t think dating someone is all on the phyisical apperence, that’s kinda superficial.
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Hey Sabrina,
That’s true. But unfortunately first impressions are based a lot on physical appearances. So you have to make that extra effort atleast on the first couple of dates to look good. :)
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