My friends accuse me of being a cougar because I’m in my late thirties, and I date men in their early twenties. But there is something to be said for dating a younger guy. They tend to be more active, more virile, more fun. If you’re an aspiring cougar, here are some tips for landing a younger guy.
1. Know where to look.
Younger guys aren’t hanging out at the same places as older guys, so know where to prowl!
2. Be realistic.
Don’t expect a younger man to act like an older man. They’re just too different.
3. Don’t mother him.
The last thing a younger guy wants is for you to act like his mother. Feel free to give him a little advice now and then, but let him take care of himself!
4. Keep it light.
Younger men date older women because we’re fun. So keep it light! Don’t bore him or scare him with details of your best friend’s husband’s prostate cancer or your sister’s depleted 401(k)!
5. Be yourself.
Don’t pretend to be something you’re not. And don’t EVER lie about your age!
6. Have fun!
Younger men can be fun, so live a little! Hit the dance floor, go rock-climbing, go to a concert, cheer on your favorite sports team with him.
lol yeah the kids will almost never like the situation, and his parents will hate it! I’m only 22, I dated a guy that was ONLY a year younger than me and noticed a HUGE difference that I didnt like. So i will stick with the ones that are older than me lol 4+ years please :]
I dated a guy with 6 years older than me….so I can say I have some XP…:)
Tavia,
6 years older or younger?
I’ve only dated a younger guy once and yes he was immature and pretty much fumbled around in bed, but he worshipped me! It was fun…even if only for a while :D
if you are going to date a younger guy make sure he is at least over 18
5. Be yourself.
Don’t pretend to be something you’re not. And don’t EVER lie about your age!
It’s what I suggest in every relation ship, younger or older!!
But surly they can be alot of fun. Some of them are a bit irresponsible so they look only for the day and not the future.
And surly regarding the family, that’s where some serious problems begin!!
Xannyyy,
So far I haven’t had to lie about my age. But as I get older, I’m afraid I’ll get tempted sooner or later :D
Sheila,
Hehe some of the young guys are pretty irresistable e?!!
:P
You’re 23 years e? In your picture I would have given you 20!!
You seem younger so don’t start that up now!! :)
Xannyyy,
Aww that’s the best thing you could have said to me! Especially considering that I’m soon going to be 24! Aaaa!
Sheila,
Come on! You’re still young and prettly like a doll :) We still have a long life ahead of us :)
When will your Birthday be??
Xannyyy,
My birthday is on the 29th of this month. What about you. How old are you btw?
Aaaaaaa soo soon going to age another year :P
And lucky you the Day is Sunday!! :)
Mine this year was Wednesday 26th August! And I had to work :(
I’m 20 years old love :)
Xannyyy,
Aww your young! Lucky lucky girl. What I wouldn’t give to be 21 again. Actually you’re only as old as you think you are right? :)
Sheila,
That’s true. Age is something we have to cope with cause we can’t stop time. But how you feel inside is what counts. We have to keep a young spirit inside and out even if we age to fast!
But you’re speaking like an old lady :P
You’re still terribly young love. And we have to enjoy those years till the count!
Xannyyy,
That’s so true. I just had a moment there. Lol! I’ve instructed all my friends to only wish me Happy 21st Birthday for all my upcoming birthdays. :D :D
Sheila,
Loooool at your comment!
That would be a good idea. When we’re 50 years it sounds so great loool :P
Aaaa boring age I hope it won’t come to quickly!! :S
Xannyyy,
Don’t worry hun! You have a long long way to go!
Sheila,
Yeah fortunatley.. Hope they pass slowly lool!
I so much enjoy this particular age!
Xannyyy,
Me too! :D