You’re at the club, the bookstore, Art History class, or the coffee shop, and a particular girl catches your eye. You smile, she smiles back. Now what? You want to ask her out, but you don’t want to mess it up. How do you ask this girl out the right way?
1. Avoid a line.
“Are your legs tired? Because you’ve been running through my mind all day.” Why do some guys think it’s clever to use a cheesy pick-up line when they ask a girl out? It’s not, it’s ridiculous. Avoid using a pick-up line and just introduce yourself instead.
2. Do it yourself.
Don’t send someone else over, and don’t ask one of her friends to do it. That’s so junior high! Do it yourself.
3. Make eye contact.
While you’re talking to her, be sure to make eye contact. It’s okay to feel a little timid or shy, but eye contact shows you’re sincere.
4. Do it right away!
Don’t wait — ask her put as soon as you can. “Don’t wait” also means don’t wait until the last minute to ask her to a special event, like prom or a concert. The longer you wait, the more likely someone else will have asked her already!
5. Do it in person.
If you’re shy, you might be tempted to ask her out via text or instant messenger or even on Facebook. But ask her out in person — or at least over the phone.
6. Be sincere.
Don’t lavish her with compliments you don’t mean, or promise her the best night of her life. Just be honest, otherwise, she’ll think you’re insincere.
Zennmaster: You don’t, by any chance, go by the name Barney Stinson, do you?
:D
hahhahahahahaha… If you mean the suit toting, whisky guzzling, the man who puts the awe in awesome, the man who makes men coo with his coolness, Barney “The Barnacle” Stinson… No… :D
@ Zenmaster,
You’d have to be really really cute to get us women to do all the work :D
Stephen mosher,
I’m sorry none of the aove worked for you but maybe they weren’t meant to be. You’ll find your perfect some one, int he right time! Just continue to try! :)
Lol @ your comment Sheila.
Good one!!!!
Dammit! I knew there had to be a catch somewhere. :-/
“the man who makes men coo with his coolness” —> You see, only Barney can come up with a statement as awesome as that. :p
“Don’t send someone else over, and don’t ask one of her friends to do it. That’s so junior high! Do it yourself.”
SO true. I hate guys who have someone do it for them, it’s not very manly, it kind of shows you don’t care enough to do it yourself. if you’re shy i get it, but if you really want to go out, you can do it yourself (: