Comments on: 11 Things To Never Tell Your Man …

By: Sheila

Sheila — Sat, 14 Nov 2009 21:12:13 +0000

Anna,
Honestly I don’t see what he has to do with how many people you slept with in your past or have a “low opinion” about it. It’s not like you cheated on him. It’s part of your past! And if he keeps bringing it up now, he really needs some help!

By: anna

anna — Fri, 13 Nov 2009 13:55:19 +0000

* And many of you may think its wrong to not tell the truth and be straight up, but men are very judgemental & it is easy for them to call women “sluts” because they don’t understand anything emotional, like maybe you were going through a bad time, or were taken advantage of, nope, nope nope, its your fault, you are the slut & your parents raised you like an “animal”!

By: anna

anna — Fri, 13 Nov 2009 13:52:53 +0000

I told my boyfriend the worst one, how many people slept with! It totally ruined my relationship!
- no more trust in me
- low opinion of me
- & when getting in arguments, bring it up & uses it against me!! And treats me really bad & disrespects me!

NEVER TELL YOUR BOYFRIEND ANYTHING PERSONAL, HE WILL USE IT AGAINST YOU!

By: Sheila

Sheila — Fri, 16 Oct 2009 06:34:04 +0000

Roxie,
Space and freedom are absolutely important in a relationship and honesty is the only way to trust each other. So yeah I completely agree with you :)

By: roxie

roxie — Thu, 15 Oct 2009 19:09:38 +0000

I have to disagree with the hole don’t tell your man how many men you’ve slept with. I think they have a right to know! if they are the right one they won’t care how many people you’ve slept with because your with him and not those other people. I mean come on the right guy wouldn’t care what you’ve done because it’s water under the bridge! I also have to disagree about the don’t tell your man about your crush. Your aloud to have a crush as long as you don’t act on it! he can also have feelings as long as he doesn’t act on them. Let the other have freedom because the more their coupped up the more they’ll want to cheat on you. Freedom is important in a relationship!Let them look it won’t do any harm!

By: Sheila

Sheila — Sat, 03 Oct 2009 01:18:24 +0000

Ari,
Personally I don’t think the past really matters or should matter which is why I agree. You’re better off telling him the truth about your past relationships. Though at the same time, I think I would be better off keeping harmless ‘lil secrets like I hate his mother to myself. It’s probably better that way…

By: Ari

Ari — Fri, 02 Oct 2009 19:07:45 +0000

I personally think that you should be upfront and honest with your man. If you lie to him about how many people you have slept with, and keep telling him that then that is the first sign of an unhealthy relationship. If he asks you how many people you have slept with just be honest and he will be honest back. The more lies you weave into your web the bigger it gets, if you really want him to respect you then show him your respect. So just be honest because honesty is one way to show that you have a healthy and strong relationship.

By: Melissa

Melissa — Wed, 16 Sep 2009 13:40:49 +0000

I totally agree with THATGUY… Why would you want to start your relationship off as a lie? Obviously your guy has already taking a liking to you and if he was to ask you something and then you lied about it and later on down the road he finds out. He will start to wonder weather or not everything you have told him is a lie, even if its the smallest thing! I believe that a guy will have more respect for you if your honest with him right from the beginning.

Think about being in their shoes. If you were to ask him one of these questions and then find out he lied to you about it, You all know that you’d be upset about it. Common. Best thing to do is always tell the truth! :)

By: ThatGuy

ThatGuy — Tue, 15 Sep 2009 15:33:53 +0000

WoW…Females are so deceptive… why not just try telling the truth and see where it gets you. Acting like this post says is like getting a Huge Gift in a box, just to open it, and have a smaller box.and again and again.. Get iT.?…. Being truthful from the beginning might have dire results for some, but the majority of the time the respect we gain for you can out whey the negative .making the relationship 1000 times better..

Why would you want to start in a hole? ur trying to climb out, then we find out, and u slip right back down the ladder(most likely deeper). think 1st..

By: trs

trs — Tue, 21 Jul 2009 19:11:22 +0000

dont get back with him.
he can say how he really loves u but if he disrespects u, then he doesnt really love you. at the very least, you are not happy and the relationship isnt the one you want. be strong! <3

By: sxc

sxc — Mon, 06 Jul 2009 04:38:49 +0000

my ex keeps calling me even after i told him dat once its over its over between us. he wont give up and keeps calling me!! he didnt treat m good enogh and always hurt me for me to get back with him. wat shall i do?

By: glo

glo — Fri, 19 Jun 2009 09:30:08 +0000

jus lyk wat othr people have ben sayin relationships depends on how u love nd care 4 eachother,and most importantly who must no ur man

By: sxc

sxc — Wed, 17 Jun 2009 08:17:15 +0000

I have ended my 4 yrs relationship because my ex was a real jerk towards me adn always treating me bad most of da time. he called a few times after i end it and now he hasnt called at all. as much as i wanted things to end and i know for a fact im better of without him but at da same time i miss him and regret doing it. I want to remain strong bcoz i know if i get bak with him he knows for fact he can get away with treating me bad. i want to be strong. wat shall i do? plz help!!!

By: sxc

sxc — Sun, 24 May 2009 22:59:24 +0000

i mean wen i tell my man we r having problems he agrees wit me and tells me he wants to marry me even after all our problems. but wen he gets out of control and i tell him off and say its over he agrees but then still keeps calling me all da time.

By: sxc

sxc — Sun, 24 May 2009 22:56:56 +0000

wat do u do wen a 4 yr realtionship keeps getting worse and worse? wen the guy ur wit disrespects u and wen u tell him its over he keeps calling u?

By: HELP

HELP — Wed, 20 May 2009 21:25:52 +0000

DO NOT TELL HIM THAT YOU DO NOT LIKE WHEN HE IS AROUND OTHER GIRLS OR HE WILL THINK HE IS IN CONTROL OF YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!

By: Olga Moore

Olga Moore — Tue, 12 May 2009 01:25:31 +0000

That is so true, believing in your man and supporting him at what he wants to do is the best way to make your relationship flourish.

Thank you Rose!

By: Emma

Emma — Mon, 11 May 2009 22:58:13 +0000

I like what u said Rose, so wise

By: Meream

Meream — Mon, 11 May 2009 16:10:53 +0000

Love that Rose. Great advice.

By: Rose

Rose — Mon, 11 May 2009 07:00:52 +0000

When I was getting married, my male teacher advised me something. He said, “Rose don’t stop him from anything. Just make him show that you care, and he will care for you. Men are stubborn sometimes. but they will do what you want, only if you don’t get stubborn too. Love him and he will love you.” following this advice I am now the happiest wife ever. He loves me and takes care of me.