There is hardly any woman or girl out there who does not want to be in a relationship where the guy is crazy about them. Make a guy go crazy over you! Making a guy go crazy is not that hard at all, with a little time and patience, you will be able to. When I first met my husband, the things I did for him drove him crazy. Those things that I did just came natural. Below, I am going to give you some tips on how to make a guy go crazy over you.
10. Show Him Your Independence
First of all, you need to show him your independence. It is important that you show the guy just how strong you really are. Men have a tendency to be attracted to those women that are independent. If you think sticking with the man at all times and relying on him will work, then you may want to think again.
9. You Are Not a Parasite
Constantly sticking to a man and following him around is not going to make him want you more. You do not always have to be in front of him preparing yourself to do anything he wants. Therefore, it is important that you give him some space.
8. Do Not Take His Place
As much as I always talk about equality, there are some roles that you cannot do when you are in a strong relationship. When you allow a man to show his masculinity, he will take the lead. You should be thankful when he steps in and helps you in some way.
about 4 months ago I met this guy through friends, he showed lots of interest in me at the beginning, however when I did not give him much attention, he started to ignore me.
two weeks ago, we were suppose to go out with friends, however only me and him showed up at the place, we danced a lot and then started kissing, afterwards we went to his place and made out.
I refused to have sex or to stay over and went back home that night.
he called me afterwards to check if I’ve safely reached home and then didn’t call back till after 3 days. his call was so brief and formal.
We went out together again tonight, he didn’t show any interest like he was before and was treating me like a regular friend.
I’m so confused and don’t understand this guy at all. does he want me or not ?
I also wanna bring to your attention that he is 34 and never had a girl friend before. as he said he never found the right girl and he doesn’t like wasting time.
what should i do .. I really like him but don’t wanna look desperate.
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Nina….
That deosn’t mean he deosn’t like you. Remember its not only us gals who play games. He’s game is also very common. The three day waiting rule is well known. Not to late, not to early so he doesnt seem so desperate yet you begin to wonder. I actually thought girls know about this too!!
Then asking you out and being indifferent confueses you again, right? So in this way he is actually getting what he was going for. Your ego will be kinnda hurt and you will try to work your charms better to show him that you ARE incredible. This is what he’s going for…you will be easier…
If you want to be serious or see where its going, you have to play the same game, give a little, than take back a little.
Hope I made myself clear…..good luck with this player!!
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hey nina i hav sumwht the same problem i just feel u should get hard and act normally about the hwole thing try to look good and follow sum fashionbooks so tht maybe he gets crazy over u then he wont act in such a weird way and of having sex dont hav it before u get married such guys may get u into trouble !! aand dont stick aftr him make him cum aftr u !! and if he ignores u ignore ihm back and next tym he talks to u tell him i thought u were ignoring me weren’t u? and then walk away !! soon he will be sry for wht he did !! plz reply
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hey Melanie!
So I have been dating my boyfirend for 2 moths and all of a sudden it feels like he doesnt care about me , he doesnt call me or want to spend time with me and wheni try to talk about it he gets mad and doesnt say anything and we never fix things up ! what should i do to make make him understand that i need him to spend more time with me . When i ask him to do something he never wants to do it , but when he asks me to do so mething i have to do it or he gets mad at me !
Thanks
Grecia
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hey ive got just the solution for u !! u shuld follor sum fashion books look good dazzle get another guy aftr u !! and then make a relation wid him !! then next tym ur bf cumes hang out wid the new guy and try to make ur bf jealous and yh if he tries t oboss u by making u do his work tell him i jolly well wont a stinky old nerd !! tell him tht hav the spirit u r a female female wont be bossed by silly men !! get tht spirit in u ! best of luck !!
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if he doesn’t care about you then forget him forever and don’t even face him and always try to ignore him, never make him feel that you are alone without him and never ever care him. Then start your new life with a new person.BEST WISHES FOR YOU:-)
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Alright well here goes, I’m 17 and I’ve been avoiding being in a relationship for 3 years due to not being ‘ready’. Well now I’ve been looking at guys and I feel like I would really like to be a in relationship, one of those best friend guy-love you relationships. If that makes any sense haha. I’ve heard that when you don’t look for love, it falls in your lap and those are the relationships that last the longest, but I’m tired of waiting. I don’t want to let the ‘right’ guy pass by? How to I play the love game and catch myself a man? <3
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Hey Bree,
Love does usually fall into your lap unexpectedly but that does not mean that you shouldn’t keep a look out for it. Look at the guys around you. Is there anyone who triggers a little something when you look at him? If yes, what are you waiting for? Talk to him, get to know him, make a move. If there isn’t anyone you like, I guess you can’t do anything but wait. I’m sure the right guy will come along, don’t you worry :)
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I hv been crushing on this guy for almost six months now and i think he likes me too but too scared to talk to me,what should i do?besides approaching him
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Well..try to give him some sings you are interested. Smile at him a lot. It really helps. It will make him know you are interested in him, so he won’t be that scared anymore and finnaly gets couradge and approach you. :) If you have any friends in common, you can ask them to help you out. From time to time go to the places where you know you might see him, and smile to him, or just say “hi” it may break the ice. Give hime those little signs u’re interested..Good luck :)
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hey i recently moved to another country leaving my boyfriend over seas its been a year and we did not break up because of the distance i can not call him i only can chat with him ( he calls me some times tho) but sometimes i think that he is cheating on me but then i figure out that hes not . but even though i have these thoughts of him cheating on me .( i cant end our relationship because i really love him we have been together for almost 2 and half years ) and we have been friends for 7 years there is a chance that im not going to be able to see him for another year any advices ? i really need help ! thanks alot :)
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Hey Sarah,
I guess its normal for these thoughts to run through anyone’s head especially when it’s a long distance and especially when you don’t talk as often. The point is if you love him enough to know that you want to make an effort to make this work then that’s just that. If he hasn’t given you a reason to doubt him, don’t. Talk to him and tell him your insecurities but do not ever fight with him or argue with him. And yes, try and talk to him more often. I know long distance calling is expensive but Skype is free and you have the option of webcam!
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i am north american and i start some-what dating with this colombiano. He texted me saying he’s interested in me and we met up a couple times (with his friend). we kissed but didn’t have the night together. he started ignoring my texts and calls. i called him from my other phone and his friend picked it up and said, “bad connection.” but i seriuosly wonder why he is not calling nor texting me. I seriuosly wonder what he is up for. not only this, we were gonna meet up for the worldcup and he told his friends how he’s got a problem with his landlord whereas he mentioned, i will meet you in 40 mintues at this-this subway station. ofcourse, he didn’t show up and i called amd text him aboout a thoussand times. no reply. later i figured out he mentioned about his abssence to his friend but not me.
sincee then, we are not talking. its been three days. i called and asked if he wants to meet up. he canceled it again and said lets talk about this on weekends…
im so confuesd about all of his reactions.
does he even like me or what?
i don’t quite understand coloumbian customs
help me~~~~
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Hey Kelly,
I don’t think it’s so much about Colombian customs as general behavior when you’re not into someone. I don’t know how much clearer he could be. He’s obviously not interested and probably doesn’t have the guts to tell you so directly. My suggestion? Back off and let him go.
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Hi Kelly…I agree with Sheila. I can see you really like the guy, but you should probably let him go. You know what they say: “Don’t waste you’re time fighting for someone, who doesen’t fight for you the same way”. You’ll get over him with time. :)
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Okay I really want to make my boyfriend go crazy for me…He can get really jelous sometimes when I talk to other boys and he always ends up giving me a big make out session when we’re alone afterwards…The thing is I want tips on how to take it further without actually having sex….
Any help…!!!
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I had a boyfriend who I liked very much..we were together for about a month, and we had great times together..but then we broke up because of the distance(He lived in another city) And we couldn’t see each other often. So we both decided together that we should stay friends(We also have a lots of friends in common)But then a month later we were at the party, and he was always around me, giveing me compliment..eventualy we danced all night and kissed..but nothing came out of that.. But here’s the thing.. I’m going to school from september in that city he’s from..and that would pretty much solve our problem and we could be together! Only thing is that..I’m not sure he wants it..or if he still likes me..I thought the best thing is to talk to him in person and tell him that. I called him today and told him I’d like to speak with him in person..he said ok..But I’m not sure what should I say, and how should I act? I will be hurt if he denies me..I’m not 100% sure he still likes me..What do you think of this situation? Should I take the risk? (Also I can cancel that meeting with him, because I think I’m gonna see him on Saturday on a gig..and then I can try to find out if he likes me still or not, and then know what to do)…HELP!
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