Have you ever asked yourself how you could get your friend fall in love with you? For many, it seems like a complicated situation and depending on the person, maybe it is. I never made my friend fall in love with me as I didn’t like any of my friends that way, so I got advice of one of my good friend who didn’t mind sharing some of her tips with me. While it’s hard to get someone to fall in love with you when the chemistry just is not there, if the chemistry is there, then these 10 tips will help you make that friend fall head over heels for you!
10. Your Appearance
You should work on your appearance. Whether you admit this or not, men are generally interested in the way a woman looks. In fact, they almost always consider looks first when it comes to asking a woman out on a date. With this thought in mind, make sure your hair has been properly kept and your teeth, skin and nails are taken care of. Get your friend fall in love with you by first starting with your appearance.
9. Learn Interpersonal Skills.
If you have better interpersonal skills, people are going to naturally like you. You will need to know how to handle people in different situations. To give you an understanding, some of those skills include making others feel important, being friendly, avoiding conflicts when possible, never criticize, telling someone they are wrong without being blunt and thinking of the other person.
8. Be a Good Listener.
When the friend speaks with you, you should show them just how good of a listener you are. Give him or her your full attention as they are talking to you about something.
These are some great tips. I know that every girl or guy has had that “best friend” who they want to be more. These are great tips for everyone out there who is still stuck in the “friend” stage!
Thanks for the post (:
(This is just a cute quote i found)
I wonder, what I could do or say to make him like me. I wonder, what or who I need to be, to be his. I wonder, when just being me will be enough.
(http://www.members.tripod.com/mi_ruka0/id15.html)
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Lol Rose,
You are our official “quoter” :D :D
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Yippy :D I won’t dissapoint :p
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woow dat was a nice quote in deed..dos r actualy gud tips but u know smthng u gota play.show him dat u want him to hav a luv life.trust me dis works..kid up and say once r twice dat maybe u guys shud hook up coz u both make gud chemistry but dun forget to hav a light laugh after it..i bet he wil think bout it and mi8 evn think mayb u like him r smthng…nother thng i think we all know men like women huy dey think dey cant get.
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Hey Lwu,
The kidding thing definitely works. Sows the seed…if you know what I mean :)
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thanks. I really needed this. I have been trying to be a good listener these days. I get so irritated with myself i wonder how my friends feel. They keep reassuring me that I am ok. They probably just say it to make me feel better.
New years resolution:: be a better friend!!
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Hey Fatima,
That’s a super resolution. At the end of the day, I think your good friends (besides family) are the ones who will stand by you no matter what. So yeah, they deserve a good friend in return.
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hey fatima…once r twice dun listn to him..its like if he crakes a lame joke dun lugh at it rther say “stupid” in sweet way..he wil know dat u hav ur opinion too..btw never forget to break da “touch-barrier”.slap sweetly in his bak smtyms plus once r twice(never more den dat) rub his cheeks jus sayin smthng like ‘hey u got smthng out dr den in ur cheek, b4 he goes to rub it ,u do it…trust me gal dis one never fails..i know it sounds a bit weird but always works..
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great tips! I like reading most of your tip lists lol.
as Im trying to catch that ‘one friends’ attention and I believe its working :D took forever but its worth the wait!
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Hey Sunday Morning,
Awww that’s great news! Here’s wishing you and your “friend” tons of luck! Thanks for stopping by =)
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PLEASE HELP ME . i have a crush on a boy of my class. we’re good friends and he teases me a lot . and he gave me a nickname which he thinks is really funny ;) well we have a lot of fun together . but the problem is , he flirts with a girl of my class who has a boyfriend . and his friends think that he has a crush on that girl . thats so depressing :(
the situation is really confusing because one day he flirts a lot with that girl and the other we have a lots of fun and we talk a lot . and he wanted me to join the basketball training (he plays basketball a lot) altough he knows i hate playing basketball beacause i am not good at sports. well he is pretty confusing .
PLEASE PLEASE HELP ME . i am desperate and don’t know what to do ;( ;( ;( ;(
AND I FORGOT TO ADD THAT HE IS VERY VERY SHY!!!
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hey i need major help cuz i like this guy and we have been friends since last year and he has had 2 girl friend since i’ve known him and they have both told me that he wasn’t that nice to them but hes really nice to me so i don’t know? and i asked him out once but he said no cuz the week before when he was my bff i told him i was emo and depressed then he said i wasn’t normal and i should try to be normal but now hes saying screw normal i should just be myself. I soooo confused and need help! him and his girlfriend just broke up and i want to ask him out again but i don’t know if its to soon. Plz help soon!
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now the guy i like still thinks that we are friends and he tells me about ppl he likes. he tries to hook me up with random ppl and my best friend says that she still thinks that he likes me. Help!!!
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