You’ve seen a cute boy at school, but he doesn’t seem to know you exist. What can you do? Here are 10 trusted pointers to attract his attention…
1. Personal hygiene …
While it might seem silly, if you don’t have good personal hygiene, you’ll attract attention for all the wrong reasons. Check out how to ensure yours is up to scratch, and make sure that you regularly shower and wash your clothes. It can be easy to forget this at school! It’s also worth looking at the ranges of deodorant available, as some, such as Aquolina come in gorgeous bottles, perfect for school bags, and have a mesmerising smell!
2. Take advantage of your surroundings …
If you’re in the lunch line, ask him about his favourite food, or if you’re in the gym, talk sports. Keep the conversations light and on topic, and don’t drag them on. This will give you several chances to talk to him each day, and definitely put you on his radar. Click here for some tips on how to talk to anyone.
3. Guys like a chase …
While you may feel like shortening your skirt and chewing your pencil, guys much prefer having a chase. Be less obvious, and he’ll soon be wondering why.
4. Lend him things …
Make sure you have the equipment you need for each subject, and be around in case he needs things. For example, lend him a pencil or ruler in Geography, and he’ll have to bring it back to you. This’ll create another opportunity for conversation, and guys love organized girls.
5. Question, Comment, Compliment …
When I was at school, I was a hopeless flirt. My saving grace was my best friend, who came up with the QCC style of flirting. For example, if you’re waiting for lunch, ask him what he thinks of the chicken. Comment on how nice it looks, and then compliment him in some way as you walk away. Do this a few times, and he’ll be hooked.
Other Great Tips on Dating:
- 15 Ways to Start a Conversation with a Guy You Like …
- 10+ Ways to Get a Guy to Ask You Out …
- 20 Tips on How to Tell if a Guy Likes You without Asking …
6. Know when it’s okay to lie …
While it’s important to be honest about your feelings, when it comes down to finding his friend hot or hating his mum’s cooking, it’s better to tell a little white lie. He’ll appreciate you shielding his feelings.
aww these are cute.
can not ask my sister for help so help me
YOU ARE A GENIUS!!!
Hey Yasmine,
I am glad you liked the tips! Hope you get your crush ask you out very soon!
yeah well i am a terrible flirter. i like to tease guys and now they all think im mean! then i try to make up for it by flirting but then i chase them away! im moving now though, starting fresh. any tips for someone at a new school?
Awww i like these. well i kinda did need help cuz theres a guy who i KNOW likes me but he keeps denying it! ughh its annoying. hope these work! =)
to Cutie:
Sure they will! Stay confident and positive and he’ll notice you!
Well i really like this guy in my class and he knows i like him. he is always very sweet and kind to me … does this mean he likes me or is he just being friendly? we went on a school trip to an ice rink and he came over to me and my friend and said to me , lauren , do you want to skate round with me ? he is always very understanding and i feel i can be very open with him… the problem is im not sure if he feels the same way… another example of his kindness… in english he was sat on the other side of the room and he needed to borrow a pen so instead of asking the person he sits next to, he walked over to where i was sat and asked if he could borrow a pen… i really don’t no what to do because i dont want to scare him off by thinking he likes me to.
we’re really close and i don’t want to loose him. He means alot to me and i don’t no what i’d do without him … HELP!
Sounds like this guy really likes you, hon!
to : andy
thanks but what do i do ? i dont want to scare him off and he’s always been there for me and i really ike him
hey its me again…im gonna tell u guys my story cuz i really need help!!
okay so i know this guy likes me. he even told me. but his best friend is a girl and she is really jelous of me. she like duznt accept me and she always makes fun of me. and he would follow along and make fun of me with her. but then later he woud always say hes sorry…anyways…he asked me out (secretly without his best friend knowing)…i said no and i told him that its cuz i didnt want a bf but that i liked him. and at first he was like “its ok, i’ll wait for u” but then after a while it turned into “I HATE U! I NEVER LIKED U!” I just dont know wat to do. becuz i still like him but he keeps saying he duznt like me. what duz it mean?
to Cutie:
This guy definitely likes you, he probably feels hurt, he might have thought you’ll go out with him after all and now he just wants to get your attention with all the “hate you never liked you” kind of stuff :)
Hiya!!!!!!!!
Im gonna try this webby and write back wen i find out he’s changing
Thx guys!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Haha lol kay thanx so much!!! u give great advice. but the other day he called me just to tell me that he had a girlfriend and he’s like “shes so much cooler than u. i dont need u.” and now i feel bad :( and jelous. what shoud i do?
to Cutie:
I can’t believe he said that! Well, it’s truly his loss, not yours, so I’d get myself something pretty (a new T-shirt or some accessories), something sweet (jelly beans or Godiva chocolates) and will head to the movies with my best friends to celebrate the fact that I didn’t get stuck with some silly guy who can’t even see how fabulous I (well, you! ) am :)
He’s SO not worth it…
okay thanx thats great advice. guys are so stupid sometimes. i hope i find the right guy. thanx again for ur advice! <3
k well there is this quy k and me i reall y like him so i was hanging out with him and my bff and after he left she came up to me and said Har i really like him can i ask him out you could always have logan (this other kid i used to like ut dont anymore) and i said ut you know i really like cameron and you know i dont like logan anymore and you know iv een after him and shes like thats a no then and im like ya then the next day she goes over too his house and is ther for like two hours i really need halp to get this guy HELLLLLLLLLLLLLPPPPPPPPPP!!!!!!!!!!!!
Harlow,
If you really like this Cameron guy then I say ask him out…. before your bff does! That’s what I would do. But remember things will get weird with your bff after that. So you gotta choose. Wishing you luck :)
Hey Kati. I have a crush on my long-time guy friend’s(my neighbor) cousin. He’s my age (14) and I am MAD in like with him. He knows i like him because SOMEBODY said it in front of him on purpose. But he hasn’t said anything. After 9 months of not seeing him, rumors gotaround that he liked me back. EVERYBODY knew BUT me. So now i’m kinda confused. When i see him he talks about me in Spanish(he doesn’t realize i can understand him because i’m taking spanish) and says studff like ‘is she looking? don’t call her! i didn’t even say anything” etc.
How can i get his attention? We normally play soccer. Well now we kinda avoid each other.
I really like him HELP.
Lynny,
This stuff he says about you in Spanish… “Don’t call her”. Maybe he got freaked out when he found out you liked him? WHy don’t you try ignoring him for a bit and not giving him any attention? Maybe that way, he’ll get a little curious?