Are you having one of those dances where the girls ask the guy out? Or do you just know a really great guy that you would like to go out with and are tired of waiting around for him to ask you out? Well, I have came up with 10 ways to ask a guy out. I am going to list some of the not so unique ideas, but I also want to get into unique ways to ask a guy out…
10. Scavenger Hunt
I have always liked the idea of a scavenger hunt. With this technique, you would leave the last clue in a note saying “I want you to go out with me” then tell him in the note where to find you. When he comes, hide behind something, then jump out behind him, cover his eyes and say “do you?”
9. Kidnap his jacket
This one is very cute. Kidnap his jacket and leave a note in it’s place. Make the note something like this “If you ever want to see your jacket again and me, then meet me at this restaurant if you want to go on “a date with me.”
8. Business Card
On the business card, put “Will you go out with me? If interested, please contact me.” Include your e-mail address and phone number on it.
7. Which Color?
Send a big envelope filled with balloons. One red, one yellow, one green, one orange, one purple, one white and one black. Add a note saying “Will you go out with me? Send the blue balloon if the answer is no and send the red balloon if the answer is yes.” Yes, I know, there is no blue balloon.
6. Magazine Style
Find the guys favorite magazine or book that he is reading and put a piece of paper the size of the magazine or book. The paper in there should be slightly sprayed with perfume, then write a biography about you. On the bottom, in darker letters put: “I wonder if (insert his name) wants to go out with me.
These are such cute ways to ask a guy out!!!
I’m totally gonna tell my friends about it…becuase i’m taken (:
Hi Rose,
You’re such a good friend :) Thanks for stopping by! :)
Melanie, I love the top image. It’s gorgeous!
Such nice wayss to ask a guy out!
Very funny post :)
I’ll definitly advise my friends about this, as I’m already taken :)
I want to go out with my oldest friend, I’ve have had a crush on this boy for 8 years and i’m 12 and he’s 14. What should I do???
Eleanor x
These are cute! These are the kinds of stories you tell your grandkids :)
Aww adorable list! I can just imagine all of them while reading it! Would make a great story when ppl ask you how you met (:
Amy & Meream,
I agree with both of you.. Children wuld be fascinated :)
Well I’ve never been in this situation but thanks for the tips Melanie. Who knows when I will need them :)
I love your suggestions but what if the girl doesn’t see the guy on a regular basis, what does she do then??
Jason,
I would try at least to get his email adress and do all my work online :)
i lov this its so nice
they’re all so cute – but i just don’t have the guts to put them in action :(
Hey Kirsten,
Awww! But you should! I can’t imagine any boy who wouldn’t be floored by thse acts…
i mean, i’m really just too too shy :(
he’s shy, too, and he tries to keep it light and once he whispered “i love you” in the middle of a study session, and i couldn’t even respond.
it just ended up being super awkward.
so… i just can’t see myself asking him out :(
This so cute! I would so try these lol
Hey Lauren,
Aww! You so totally should. Keep us posted on how they worked out ;)
Kisten,
Make some courage, and boost your self esteem love.By being shy you’ll end up loosing every opportunity and never gaining.
Try to make the courage and talk to him or ask him out.
It would make you feel really better afterwards! :)
i guess self-esteem’s what i gotta work on for the most part – not only for love, but in general, too. got any tips for this? :P
Regarding self esteem the first thing to do is to believe in your self and who you are. Yoe need to feel confident of your self, the way to look and your charachter. Once worked on that you need to work on your speeching problem. Some people have this problem that leaves them behind in all the conversations. You need to say what you think. That way people will notice you!
You gain friendships and maybe something ellsee.. ;)
I hope you take up some courage and work on your self.
Finding a way to feel confy in your own self is the best thing you can do for your self. Than work harder to get this boy on your side :)
i was looking at these even though im taken, and i think that they r so cute! anyway i am so tellin my friend!!
Hey Soccergirl,
I hope your girlfriends find these tips useful :)
Soccer girl,
It’s what I did and they loved it :D
How old do you think you should be before you date???? I am 12. Do you think I am old enough?
Hey Saraaa
I think it is up to you to decide how old is old enough honey. Don’t just date because you think that is the socially right thing to do. Just because ‘everyone’s doing it’ doesn’t mean you have to date too. However, if you were to ask my personal opinion, I’d say 12 is a tad bit on the younger side to be in a relationship.
Hey Sheila,
I’m new to this site and had a couple of questions…
First, who writes the articles? I love them cuz they’re freaking amazing, but is it several authors?
Second, I like this guy. A lot. He’s sooo sweet and shy but he asked one of my friends to homecoming and she told me that she liked him…anyway we met through mutual friends and I hang out with them more than I would if there was no chance that he would come join our “group” but I haven’t talked to him in like a week because he is in none of my classes…how can I talk with him and become better friends and flirt with him more??
Finally how can I lose weight? I’m 5′9 so I’m pretty tall and have a small build. I’d like to be a model but I am 120 pounds! Trust me I might be a size 0 and have a 24 inch waist but I look fat…what is a good diet? Hope I don’t sound too conceited but honestly I do look fat. I used to weigh 110 but I definitely put on weight so I’d like to go back to 110.
Thanks soooo much!
Love
Allyson
Hey Allyson,
thanks a lot sweetie for appreciating the website. And yes, there are several authors that write for the site. On the right hand side on every post, there is the author’s name ‘….stalked for you by ___’ and for most of them, even their snaps!
As for your guy troubles, honey are you sure you really want to pursue this guy? I mean if he likes your friend and she likes him too, don’t you think it would be a little bit wrong for you to try and go after the guy? (you should check out this post)
And honey as for your weight loss issues, yes I would definitely have to start by saying that you might not want to consider losing more weight – with a really good height-weight ratio and an amazing 24 inches at the waist… But if you are really set on losing some more weight, I’d suggest you go through a steady/stable weight loss that is not concentrating on losing weight in a matter of 2 weeks or something, but more on a healthy approach to losing weight (which in turn would mean it would be easier to keep the weight off!). You should really check out one of our latest posts by Jennifer here before checking out some more of our weight loss posts http://allwomenstalk.com/tag/weight-loss/.
I’m going to tell my friend this…
She always ask boys out wrong!
She has us run up to them and scare him, haha.
haha Zoey,
yeah scaring them or cornering them into liking you or going out with you is definitely not something that would have a high chance of success :D
Great advice Xannyyy. :)