10 Ways to Ask a Guy Out…


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10 Ways to Ask a Guy Out...

Are you having one of those dances where the girls ask the guy out? Or do you just know a really great guy that you would like to go out with and are tired of waiting around for him to ask you out? Well, I have came up with 10 ways to ask a guy out. I am going to list some of the not so unique ideas, but I also want to get into unique ways to ask a guy out…

10. Scavenger Hunt

I have always liked the idea of a scavenger hunt. With this technique, you would leave the last clue in a note saying “I want you to go out with me” then tell him in the note where to find you. When he comes, hide behind something, then jump out behind him, cover his eyes and say “do you?”

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  1. August 11, 2011 at 2:35 am Permalink
    M says:
    Hi,
    Well, my situation is a little bit different then normal. I’ve known this guy for four years, except I only see him for a week in the summer each year, because of our job. ... See more The first year he gave all these clues of liking me; talking, trying to make me laugh, asking if I like him (jokingly), smiling, complimenting me and he even told my brother that some kid has asked him to ask my brother if I had a boyfriend (sorry, confusing!) and I think that it was actually him who wanted to know. On the last day he found out I was 12 years old (almost 13) while he was 14. Which was a big surprise for him. The next year I didn’t talk to him at all but it was because we were on different shifts. Then, last year we were back on the same shift (he had a slightly different job so I saw him a little less). He smiled at me and gave me head nods, but he had a girlfriend a few weeks after the job ended. Now, I’m working this job all this week. I didn’t see him at all yesterday, so I assumed he had a later shift. I adjusted to the idea that I probably wouldn’t be seeing him all week (even though that made me sad), I even started like his younger brother. But today my friend and I were walking, and I stopped to tie my shoe. My friend told me she saw him and he was working in the same area just a different job. I can see him whenever I want, because I have to walk by there all the time. I had just never noticed he was working there. I am now almost 16 years old (next month) and he is 17.
    Before I had made a fake Facebook account, added him and talked to him. I managed to bring my real self up and he thought I was pretty, but too young. Now our ages are more compatible. But I don’t have much of a chance to talk to him, only to see him. I talk to his brother ALL the time, who is very easy to talk with and we flirt a little bit. But I really want his brother, but how am I suppose to talk to him? I’m doing a sweeping job, while he works at a food stand. He broke up with his girlfriend last month. When we had orientation, he was sitting across the room from me and kept looking over at me and smiling. Then he went to go sit with his friends who were sitting in front of me so when he sat down he was sitting in front of me but a little distance away. I also was running late for work and he was in front of me when some man offered to give us a ride on his quad. So we sat on the front of it and passed then and he was all smiley when I looked at him. What should I do? Do you think he liked/likes me?
    -M
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  2. August 14, 2011 at 12:27 pm Permalink
    Cassie says:
    So I ask one guy out he said no the first time it has been about 8 months Should I ask him out again?
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    • April 15, 2012 at 8:24 am
      Aimee says:
      I had the same problem with a guy called Spencer but I think no because then they think that your desperate so don’t ask him out again
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    • August 14, 2011 at 4:14 pm
      Denise says:
      Hey Cassie. Welcome to All Women Stalk!

      If he’s not committed or taken, then I say go for it! There’s no harm in asking him out again. Besides, eight months is more than enough waiting time.
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    • April 15, 2012 at 12:05 pm
      Anonymous says:
      its probably a bad idea since he sed no the 1st time
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  3. March 20, 2012 at 11:07 pm Permalink
    confused says:
    ok well I like 2 guys one I have had a crush onnfor a year the other is an ex. Well I tried ur 1st one and they both don’t like me! But I found ... See more thing that says
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    2) what letter comes after t —-
    3) opposite of stop
    4 you turn me inside and——
    5) multiply lengthx—– to get area
    6) opposite of you—–
    I wanna try but I’m afraid they will say no then stop talking to me and I’ll be all embarrassed help me
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    • March 22, 2012 at 11:34 pm
      Anonymous says:
      I know exactly how you feel. Maybe u should leave him a note telling him to meet u somewhere and in the note say that its a private deal. Then meet him there ... See more and do some magic! Flirt, ask him what he thinks about a girl friend, then pop the question.
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  4. February 28, 2012 at 8:47 pm Permalink
    audrey says:
    ok so this one boy I like said he would ask me out if we talked more and got to know eachother more I talked to him about 4 times,he allways looks at me and ... See more blushes and smiles when people ask him if he likes me but he want tell any one that he does! Im cunfused help me??
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  5. March 21, 2012 at 6:01 am Permalink
    Anonymous says:
    Okay, well there is this guy in my 4th period and he always calls me sexy and cute and stuff like that today he kept on winking at me like in a flirting way. He ... See more asked me if i think he is cute and i told him the truth and said yes. I really like him but i dont know how to tell him. i was thinking of writing a note but i did that to my last crush and then he didnt tell me what he thought until a couple of days past and he just said it is akward and he doesnt know what to think, but i dont want it to be like that with this guy. So can someone please tell me what to do?? Helpp???
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    • March 31, 2012 at 9:45 am
      Daisy says:
      KINDA THE SAME FOR ME!
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    • March 22, 2012 at 11:37 pm
      Anonymous says:
      Ask him if he’s messing around or if he’s for real. If he says joking, well, to bad so sad. If he says for real, ask him if he wanted to hang out ... See more sometime. Then once u get to know each other better, ask him out.
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  6. March 20, 2012 at 5:13 am Permalink
    Anonymous says:
    i think i probably love my cat more than you love your boyfriend, but thats cuz im forever alone :3 HOpE YOU GUYS HAVE BABIES
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  7. March 4, 2012 at 7:02 pm Permalink
    Anonymous says:
    The guy I like loves to write in a little notebook, but it really is little and will probably run out of space soon, so I decided to get him a nicer one. Then ... See more I thought, hey, I could use this to ask him out (when I feel the time is right). My plan is to spray it with my perfume and write in the front page “Be mine?” or something of the sort. Just thought I’d share!
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  8. December 21, 2011 at 4:44 pm Permalink
    classified says:
    Hi

    I have a crush on this boy at my school i tried not to tell him but my friends told him i fancie him i want to ask him out but i’m ... See more scared he’ll say no what should i do?
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    • December 29, 2011 at 10:12 pm
      Anonymous says:
      I’m in the same situation just remember don’t be afarid I was afraid but all he can say is no just say ok hope we can still be friends and take things slower hope that helps
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  9. November 21, 2011 at 9:45 pm Permalink
    classified says:
    by the way if you wanna know want happened……..There is a school dance coming up and i wanted to go with my boyfriend so i asked him and he said sure and it kind of ... See more ticked me off cuz it took him like 2 days to answer. Now a week later my friend Gavin told me that he said he was going to tell me that he got hit by a car so he couldn’t take me to the dace and that it would be so hilarious if i saw him the next day at wal-mart him perfectly fine. So i got my stuff in my bookbag told my bff what Gavin told me so she asked me if i wanted to breakup with him i said hell yeah. Afterwords she told me th conversation between them and her words were “mikayla is breaking up with you” him “why” her”remember wat you told Gavin” him “who gives a fine fuck!” her “so your going to treat her that way?” him “i do NOT give a SHIT!” then she punched him, and thats my story. please if you have any advice?
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  10. October 21, 2011 at 3:12 pm Permalink
    Anonymous says:
    There’s this boy who I have known for seven years, and we’re really good friends (like, he’s one of my best friends), and recently we’ve just moved up to Year Seven. I REALLY like him, ... See more and whenever I’m around him I’m SO happy, I just love every moment, and I get butterfly’s when I even think about meeting up with him. We hang out lots, and go to the park after school often with friends, and today he invited me to a shopping centre with two other people, and we had SO MUCH FUN! :D I really wanna ask him out… But I guess it’s fear of rejection, or that he will avoid me if he says no. Also, last week, my friend decided that I needed a boyfriend and tried to hook me up with him behind my back! After talking to him, she told me that he liked me and might ask me out soon, but he’s not the kind of guy to ask someone, as he’s quite shy when it comes to that sort of thing, although it’s not like he’s been avoiding me since, which is good. Another thing my friend said was that he would say yes if I asked him out, but I’m a bit wary in case she made it up to make me happy, although she seemed quite serious. So I wanna ask him out, but where, and how? Also keep in mind that I’m not REALLY out going, so I might find some hard, due to the fact that I might feel shy. Also, we have loads in common, we always understand each other and never have a boring conversation. Oh! Forgot to mention, I know he’s single, so that’s always a good thing, right? :)
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    • October 22, 2011 at 9:12 am
      Sheila says:
      Hi there,
      Welcome to AWS! Well it sounds like he does like you and if your friend was serious about it (confirm with her once again) and you want to go out with and if ... See more the only way to do that is by you asking him out, do it! =D
      As for how and when, it might help to ask your friend for a couple of ideas. Also, you can try the ones in this post and here are two more posts online that might help:
      http://www.ehow.com/how_4892663_ask-guy-boyfriend.html
      http://ezinearticles.com/?How-To-Ask-A-Guy-To-Be-Your-Boyfriend—3-Steps-To-Do-it!&id=1168926

      Good luck! And yes, it’s a VERY good thing that he is single :)
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    • October 22, 2011 at 5:53 pm
      Anonymous says:
      Thank you! That was really quick! :D

      I’m gonna invite him to my house this week, then go out to this tiny cafe kind of thing with him, and just ask him. Do you ... See more think that’s a good plan? He asked me to town today with 4 others, but it was basically just me and him most of the time. :D We’re together alone a lot, but it’s not going out with each other. We text a lot, and today he said he I was one of his best friends when I was walking home with him.

      One of our friends has a pool, and we also went to that today, and we had to much fun! We basically just messed. XP

      Again, thanks! ;)
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  11. October 13, 2011 at 1:36 am Permalink
    Anomymously says:
    Hi! I really like this boy who lives close to me (we are pretty much neighbors… Not next door though) and we walk to and from the bustop everyday… We are like aquantainces and he’s ... See more really polite and nice. (btw, I’m 14, and he’s 16) he’s kind of shy and quiet and I can’t ever really tell if he has friends, but he looks lonely. I kinda want to ask him out to our homecoming dance as a friend, but also maybe as a date. Which should I do? Also, should me, being a girl, ask him out? I know everyone says “yeah go for it!” but I want to play hard to get… Thanks if I get suggestions!
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    • October 13, 2011 at 1:42 pm
      Denise says:
      Hello there. Welcome to All Women Stalk!

      You guessed what I was going to tell you. You should go for it if you want. But you did say that you want to play hard ... See more to get, so maybe you shouldn’t do it. But I don’t know. You might be missing out on something awesome if you don’t take this chance to get to know him and spend time with him.
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    • October 17, 2011 at 11:10 pm
      Anomymously says:
      Thanks !! I think you are right!! If I want to be friends with him I should make the first move!! After we get to know each other more it should work out:) but how ... See more do I get a conversation started??
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    • October 18, 2011 at 12:07 am
      Denise says:
      You’re welcome! Check out this post for tips on getting a conversation started: http://allwomenstalk.com/15-ways-to-start-a-conversation-with-a-guy-you-like/. I hope you find something you can use. Good luck!
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  12. October 7, 2011 at 8:20 pm Permalink
    Anonymous says:
    Heyy everybody! I want to ask a guy out and kind of nervous. I’ve known him for 2 years and now we’re in the same class everyday. We talk and we’re pretty good friends. My ... See more besties say he should make the first move but he’s a little shy around me… What should I do?
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    • May 15, 2012 at 11:22 pm
      Anonymous says:
      ask him be confident i have the same delema if you seceretly like him thts fine go for it
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    • October 7, 2011 at 11:47 pm
      Denise says:
      Hello. I honestly don’t see anything wrong if you ask him out first, especially if you feel like there is something between you and him. Go for it!

      Good luck. I hope you let us know what happens.
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  13. September 29, 2011 at 6:56 pm Permalink
    Anonymous says:
    Me and my crush went out for a week then he broke up with me cause he likes one of my friends what should i do?
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    • September 30, 2011 at 2:58 am
      Denise says:
      Hey there. Welcome to All Women Stalk!

      Wow. He must think he’s some kind of stud to be acting that way. Tell your friends about what he did. He’s really not worth your time, dear.
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  14. September 28, 2011 at 4:56 am Permalink
    Anonymous says:
    should i just give my crush a note saying will you go out with me?
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    • September 28, 2011 at 8:59 am
      Denise says:
      If you know each other, then sure, why not? If you’re not really acquainted, then it’s better that you get to know each other first.

      Thanks for stopping by AWS!
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    • May 9, 2012 at 4:58 pm
      Kira says:
      @Denise,help me plz! My name is kira im 10 and in yr 5 I’m the most popular girl in my school everybody knows me and they boys love me I like Tyler jack jake
      ... See more /> Nathan kerrol Dylan lol and they like me two but I really like George he’s going out with my friend bracey Lacey though he broke up with her ( I was so happy) lol I didn’t say anything but now I think there back together I no he likes me hes verry rude but cute hot and funny and he says to my freids I’m the hottest girl in the school should I ask him out by nite or face to face I am only 10 I’ve had loads of BFs but I really want him I no hell say yes but I don’t want him to brake up eth my BFF Lacey more I feel bad HELP !!
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    • May 14, 2012 at 4:05 am
      Sheila says:
      Hey Kira,
      Welcome to AWS! If he’s already dating your friend, why would you want to ask him out? I’m sure there are plenty of other guys in your school you can go after. Do ... See more you want him only because he’s dating your friend?
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    • May 15, 2012 at 11:24 pm
      Anonymous says:
      i would say it to his face
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  15. September 20, 2011 at 7:15 pm Permalink
    Paranoid123 says:
    I like this guy Jo and I have a hard time reading signals, and my friends say he’s definitetly likes me, because he looks at me often during class and smiles when I realize ... See more he’s looking at me and I blush like crazy! So I wanted to know your opinion, do you think there’s s chance between us?? I mean he knows who I am and I know who he is too..
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  16. September 19, 2011 at 7:56 am Permalink
    Anonymous says:
    I used number 3 to ask this guy out. It worked out perfectly he thought he was so cute and turns out he was interested in me just didn’t want to tell me because he ... See more wasn’t sure how I felt. Well anyway now we have been dating for about 13 months now and its going great. He still remembers the floss box so for girls out there looking for a way to get it stuck in the guys mind I would suggest the floss box :D
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    • September 19, 2011 at 3:46 pm
      Sheila says:
      Yay!
      Congratulations to both of you and thank you for taking the time to share your story! :)
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  17. September 15, 2011 at 4:39 pm Permalink
    Anonymous says:
    Hi :) I’m pretty sure the boy I like likes me back, one of his friends told me he liked me, but he hasn’t asked me out, I guess that it’s because he’s quite shy. ... See more I’ve befriended him over time though, so I know him pretty well. I’d like tell him I like him, but we only have one lesson together and I don’t really see him outside of that, so it’s been hard to find the right time. I’m not overly nervous about doing it face to face, but we’re always around friends. I was thinking of writing him a note? Something like, ‘I’d do this in person but I wanted it to be more private … I like you :)’ I know it seems pretty childish, which is why I need advice, lol :) by the way, I’m thirteen and he’s in the grade above me :) thanks!
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    • September 17, 2011 at 2:58 am
      Denise says:
      Hey there. Welcome to All Women Stalk!

      I really like the way you wrote your note. It’s not childish at all.
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  18. September 14, 2011 at 8:24 pm Permalink
    Purplespark says:
    I like this guy, we were best friends in elementary school, now we’re in eighth, and we have no classes together. The only time we talk is a “Hi” in the halls, texting, and at ... See more football games. I’ve liked him for a couple years now, and want to ask him to hang out, or (if i ever see him at one of the dances) to ask him to dance.
    But, i dont know what to say, i want him to think of it as us maybe being something, not just hanging out as friends. What should i do?
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  19. September 14, 2011 at 5:31 pm Permalink
    Anna says:
    There’s this guy in my neighborhood. I haven’t even talked to him I just know where he lives (or maybe that’s his friend’s apartment?) I know nothing about him but I’m very attracted to him. ... See more He doesn’t even know I exist but I’m just tired of stalking him. What should I do? Please someone help!
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  20. September 13, 2011 at 8:53 pm Permalink
    CountryGirl says:
    Ok so, I see a new guy at my school this year and i point him out to my friend and she said hes in her first hour. So i was like do yu know ... See more his name? And she said no ill find out so, she tells me after class. But ever since the day i noticed him. I see him look at me in the hallways and when i look at him he loks away.. Would that be a good or bad sign? Im a shy person at first, And i wanna walk up to him and just say hi. But its kinda weird for me.. I dont know what to do..
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    • September 14, 2011 at 9:38 pm
      CountryGirl says:
      Thanks :) And idk thats what my friends say too! And i was wondering the same things. Tomorrow im gonna try the “hi” thing and hopefully it works out. But its been about 3 weeks. ... See more and every day we pass eachother he looks at me. And idk if he does that to everyone or just me..? And i’ve already had my stalker mood and tried to find him on facebook but i cant.
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    • September 16, 2011 at 4:12 pm
      CountryGirl says:
      Oh my gosh! Im sorry but i felt like i needed to say.. My friends walked up to him when i was at lunch. And i had NO idea. So when i walk out of ... See more the lunch room they run to me and say we talked him and said we want yu to meet our friend and he said okay. So monday they are making me go up to him and talk to him! But i have NO idea what to say..?
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    • September 17, 2011 at 2:11 am
      Denise says:
      Oh wow! I am so excited for you; I really am. Just stay calm and relaxed when you meet him. Introduce yourself and ask him what he enjoys doing during his free time. You can ... See more also ask him about school, if you want. Just try to listen, ask open-ended questions, and provide related details. Just focus on the fact that you are making a new friend.

      Good luck! Let me know how it goes.
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    • September 18, 2011 at 11:45 am
      CountryGirl says:
      Thanks alot. Yu really helped! And ill deffinitly let yu know how it goes! :D Im exicted but nervice!
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    • September 22, 2011 at 6:43 pm
      CountryGirl says:
      Found out he has a girlfriend but at a different school.. Im upset about it, But i still think i have a chance..?
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    • September 23, 2011 at 4:56 am
      Denise says:
      Hi Country Girl. I’m sorry about how things turned out. I guess now you have to wait until he’s single or you could also just try to move on….
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    • September 14, 2011 at 4:07 am
      Denise says:
      Hello Country Girl. Maybe he looks away because he’s embarrassed that you caught him looking at you. You should smile at him the next time you catch him looking. If you’re shy about talking to ... See more him first, you can ask help from your friend or one of her classmates in first hour. Or you can always try to be brave and approach him first. You can even try adding him on Facebook and chatting with him there.

      Good luck. Thank you for checking out the site.
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  21. September 11, 2011 at 2:24 pm Permalink
    Emmy says:
    So, the guy that I like, I’ve liked him for over 9 months. I talk to him a lot, usually everyday. Me and him have dated twice and we’ve gotten really close over time. We ... See more fight sometimes, but nothing really intense. I don’t see him that much but when we dated we hung out every weekend. He goes to a different school than me and about a year and a half older. He likes another girl and he said that he’s going to date her when she gets over her ex boyfriend. I don’t really know if he likes me as much as he did in January. I really would like to ask him out, but whenever I feel like I should, I get nervous and don’t say anything about it. I don’t know if or how I should ask him out. Please help. (:
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    • September 12, 2011 at 2:26 am
      Denise says:
      Hi Emmy. It’s great to see you here!

      Did you guys stop dating? And if you did, why? To be honest, it seems like he’s slowly moving on. Maybe he just sees you as ... See more a good friend now. But if you really want to ask him out, then you should. I don’t see why you’re still getting nervous about asking him out. After all, you’ve already dated him. And if he declines your invitation, then maybe that’s the confirmation you need that he’s really moving on. Just my two cents.
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    • September 15, 2011 at 7:55 pm
      Emmy says:
      He broke up with my because of distance. That’s just what he said though. And if I would ask him out how should I? Thanks for the reply (:
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    • September 17, 2011 at 1:37 am
      Denise says:
      Hey Emmy. Sorry for taking so long to respond to you.

      Just simply ask him if wants to hang out and catch up on each other’s lives. Oh, and you know, I understand why ... See more he broke up with you because of the distance. Some people just can’t handle it. You’re also in school. The travel time and the money you have to spend can take be an inconvenience to someone who’s not ready for a very serious commitment.
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    • September 17, 2011 at 5:21 pm
      Emmy says:
      Okay, that sounds good. should I invite a couple of our friends too?
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    • September 18, 2011 at 3:09 am
      Denise says:
      Hey again Emmy. It’s your call.

      Thanks for stopping by. Keep visiting All Women Stalk!
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  22. May 16, 2012 at 12:12 pm Permalink
    hye i need your help !
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    • May 16, 2012 at 12:21 pm
      There’s a guy whom interested on meeting me almost 6 months ! Its a very few number of times we talk via mobile. Even we are far away. He ask(force) me for outing !! So ... See more only once we meet each other. He is passion in meeting me ! After the meet he dump me to the max ! didn’t bother me at all. Although im not interested initially….after the date…i missed him alot ! But he shows out like not interested at all. I don’t knw…maybe im irritatigg him in any ways ?? Or anythg else ??
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  23. May 16, 2012 at 4:00 am Permalink
    Anonymous says:
    There is a boy in my class that im quite good friends with but he’s best friend keeps on saying that i like him just joking around, but i do like him. We talk often ... See more and sit in the same group, i want to ask him out but im afraid he’ll reject me because he’s best friend doesn’t like me very much. What do i do?
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  24. May 9, 2012 at 12:28 pm Permalink
    CJ says:
    I have had this crush on this guy for a year now but the thing is we’ve been friends for awhile like 15years…… The thing is I’m stuck in the friend zone. He likes another ... See more girl she has the same name as me she’s the same age and she looks like me…… what do I do? CJ
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  25. April 29, 2012 at 2:51 pm Permalink
    Anonymous says:
    So I’v been friends with this guy forever, since we were kids. And I really like him alot like more than friends but I also like him as a friend. I want him as a ... See more boyfriend but I’m scared if he says no it will be skewed. But im too afraid to ask him or anyone else because I afraid of being rejected :/ sorry I know that was a little wordy
    HELP!!!
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    • May 1, 2012 at 8:09 am
      Sheila says:
      Hello,
      The unfortunate part about “love” is there’s always the fear of rejection but sometimes it’s just worth a shot you know. You don’t have to outright tell him your feelings but you can flirt ... See more with him and see how he responds. If he has a little thing for you as well, you’ll know. Maybe he’s shy about making the first move.
      Good luck sweetie!
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  26. April 26, 2012 at 9:49 pm Permalink
    hailey says:
    OK I’m 12 and there is this boy I don’t really know but he seems nice and funny. We had a dance today and my friend told him to go over and we he did ... See more I panicked very badly. I am poking alittles in the stomach and I’m not the cutest girl over. I really wan to ask him and all my fronds are trying to help… but I don’t really know anymore… I’m crying on the inside everytime I see him and I wish it would stop. Plz help
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  27. April 15, 2012 at 6:57 am Permalink
    I like this guy and we are best mates. but my family take the mick out of him for being polish and i want to ask him out buti cn’t cause i don’t want it ... See more to ruin our friendship.he tried to kiss me oon the lips and turned around and sid i can’t and ran home crying. I love him loads i don’t know what to do any advice? ? </3
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    • April 25, 2012 at 6:13 am
      Denise says:
      Hi sweetie. It’s great to see you on All Women Stalk!

      He tried to kiss you, didn’t he? That tells me that there’s some level of attraction. At least enough for him to take ... See more a risk. If you are still friends after that kiss incident, then I think that you asking him out won’t ruin your friendship. I say give it a shot.
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  28. April 5, 2012 at 4:39 pm Permalink
    hollie says:
    denise i was wondering if you could help me i have been out with a guy twice now and i have loved him for 3 years we are getting really close now and i say ... See more i love you to him and he just replys u too and hes always saying that he wants to hang out with me and wants to see me so i asked him what he would say if i asked him out he sed dunno i like u alot so maybe i would say yes and i have waited ages for him to ask me out so should i ask him out and if so how do i do it in a sweet way ? xx yours sincerly hollie xx
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    • April 5, 2012 at 4:50 pm
      hollie says:
      plus he calls me sexy and fit and says he loves me
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    • April 6, 2012 at 5:50 am
      Denise says:
      Hi Hollie. It’s so nice to hear from you!

      Yes, why don’t you ask him out? I mean, you’ve already gone out twice. As for “how” to ask him out, have you checked the ... See more suggestions in the post above?
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  29. March 20, 2012 at 10:20 pm Permalink
    Anonymous says:
    Help!! This guy that I like had his friend ask me ot for him. But his other friend told me that he didn’t really like me. Idk what to do!! Should ... See more I ask him out or should I wait for him?! Advice please!
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    • March 20, 2012 at 10:30 pm
      Anonymous says:
      Btw I told the askout friend that I wanted ‘Jim’s ti ask me out himself. I think I made a huge mistake. I’m not sure if he’s interested anymore! Help!
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    • March 20, 2012 at 10:30 pm
      Anonymous says:
      Thats ‘him’
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    • March 22, 2012 at 11:43 pm
      Anonymous says:
      I left him a note telling him to meet me somewhere. I asked him if he really did send his friend. He said no. But I think he really didn’t but his ... See more friend was trying to help him out, cuz maybe he does like me. What if he does have feelings for me too? Btw I’m like in love with this boy, idol what about him it is but, when I’m around him, I feel giddy and nervous.

      Advice pleez and thank u
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  30. March 20, 2012 at 5:12 am Permalink
    Anonymous says:
    did you guys get married ??????????????? :D
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