Every girl wants to meet her Prince Charming, but who has the time to wait around these days? But if you are fed up with waiting, here’s my top ten tips on how to meet a man of your dreams!
1. Know what you want!
Think carefully about what is important to you, and what isn’t so important. Seperate your dream man from your mums, or your best friends, and see what you actually want. Because if you don’t know, how is he going too?!
2. Look ready.
Have your hair cut, wear make up, shave your legs. You don’t know when he’ll pop up, but you can bet that it’ll be when you couldn’t be bothered to cut your hair and have the hairiest legs ever. Set out to impress, every day.
3. Be ready!
If when he says Hi, you giggle like a school girl, go bright red and can’t speak, he isn’t going to be blown away by your confidence and sophistication. Read newspapers, watch the news, and remember funny jokes. Make sure you can talk, and he’ll be much more impressed!
4. Get to know people.
That cute guy in Spanish class, or the mysterious man at work…whoever it is, they could be Mr.Right in the wrong clothing. Take the time to talk to people you wouldn’t usually, and you might be surprised about where you find your prince!
5. Try Something New.
Ever wanted to bungee jump, learn to sail or paint? Give it a go. Take your new confidence with you, and talk to as many people as possible. Self improvement will give you a real buzz, and who knows who you might meet?
Hi Kati! Your advices are really appreciated, but for me…..was all about luck. He came when I least expected :)
Kati,
You are absolutely right on all counts. Particularly, stop looking which lots of women seem to think means giving up. And the bits about being ready, trying new things – yes. Very perspicacious post. You’ve stated what a lot of expert dating coaches have said.
Well done.
Truth is there are no rules to this. It comes when you least expect it.
I think that destiny has lots to do with it…..don’t you agree?
Everyone is looking for the “perfect” partner…..yet NOBODY is perfect!!!!
Kati,
This post is really good!
But I guess for me, I met the prefect man already :)
Destiny has to do alot with it suburbangrandma,I agree with you there. He came when he i really wasn’t looking and getting to know a person in a friendlier way is the best to start a relation ship as it’s built on one of the most important aspects, friendship. Then of course love found a way and he’s really the man of my dreams! :)
Suburbangrandma,
Totally totally true! I’m a big believer in fate and destiny. It’s all about finding the right partner for you! And it comes so unexpectedly sometimes that I’m amazed! I guess everything happens for a reason and when it’s time!
Sheila,
Aaa we woman are such dreamers and believers! :)