Here's a fact as old as time: Men love their blowjobs! Maybe even more than their beer and football. And if you love your man, you will have to learn to love blowjobs just as much. When I'm down there, the only thought in my head is "Am I doing this right?" and while you may think you are wonderful, there's always something you can do to get better at the...err...art of giving a blowjob. So here are ten tips on how to give a mind-blowing blowjob I've learnt from the author of a fabulous book Jack's Blow Job Lessons Jack Hudson himself! Read it up, girls!
10. Love "it"
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Think about this scenario. You're in bed with this amazing guy. Everything is going great until he goes down on you. And suddenly he has the most bored expression on his face. And just as suddenly, amazing guy turns into "I wish I could kick him out of bed" guy. Now imagine another scenario where the guy is going at you like there's no tomorrow. Wouldn't the fact that he seems so passionate about it turn you on more than anything else? Now apply the same logic to a man and his little friend. If you're going to go down there, with an attitude of "Oh no! Not again" he's going to catch on to it and not enjoy it. Instead, love "it" (or pretend to at least) like what you are doing down there. And don't be afraid to show it! Nothing will turn him on more than the sheer enthusiasm he sees on your face.
9. Foreplay
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If there's one thing I have learnt from my sexcapades, it is that it's not that hard to get a man hard. It all starts with how you look. Yes, that means sexy lingerie. Maybe some lace. Maybe a push up. Maybe a garter. Please make sure the top and bottom match or are the same color at the very least. Smell amazing. Do your hair. And that's about 50% of the work involved in getting him hard. But that's not the only thing you can do. Combine the sexy look with passionate kissing, massaging him through his pants or boxers, plenty of moaning and that "I can't wait to taste you look". Foreplay completed. The author of "Jack's Blow Job Lessons" warns us not to overdo it; making him anticipate the blow job is a great thing, but making him wait too long can do just the contrary. With practice, you'll find the golden middle and will know when to stop the foreplay and start the big game.
