Tips for being a better lover! Are you serious? Yes girl! Sure the sex was spicy in the beginning, but over time, the sexy clothes are hidden in the sock drawer. As for that massage oil, it is sitting somewhere next to the athlete’s foot powder gathering dust. Don't you think it's time to rewind? Time to get into your sexy lingerie and dust off that massage oil (or buy a new one)? Here are my top ten tips for being a better lover...
10. Make dates.

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Sure, you may not be in the dating stage anymore, in fact, you are well past the dating stage, but who said you cannot go out on romantic dates? Go out somewhere nice to eat. Perhaps have a dinner and a movie. Perhaps an amusement park date. A Broadway play? My point is have a little fun in your marriage.
9.Get out of your house.

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For a better love life, we recommend you and your partner taking regular nights away from home. When couples have been together for awhile, sex will become more of a routine. By the end of the day, you are worn out from your job, the kid’s baseball game, the errands and the laundry. Instead of sipping champagne and enjoying oysters on the half shell over great scenery, you are going home to a house full of peanut butter and jelly. It is not exactly an exciting life. So, make sure the two of you spend some nights out of your home and do something fun!
8.Redecorate the bedroom.

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Of course, having a sex life that is dependent on overnight babysitters and hotels could be a problem if you are not a wealthy family. In addition to taking some nights out from your home, maybe you should try to redecorate the bedroom. It does not have to be spectacular, but a little change will make a big difference in your sex life.