Well, let me say this…I have always found it interesting to hear what women think of men and how to deal with them like it’s some chore like taking out the garbage which pretty much is thought of as a mans job. That’s the really sad part about it. Responsibly, we should all take fine tuning our understandings to our significant other more seriously, open hearted and honestly.

Straight out, we men do not like to feel like we are being thrown a bone and just appeased in any situation and at times we just want to be left alone. Simple as that.
If you are just doing it to appease him, somewhere down the line there may possibly be a break up. Disasterous!!! is that what you want?

Now regarding sex, I find it really hard to stay interested if she is not capable of understanding me without words….and that doesn’t mean to just appease me meaning, orally, if you do not like to give it, simply don’t do it but remember, if we like it, it makes more sense to be with a woman who likes giving it instead of just doing it to please him. Trust me, it’s so much better :) At times we may fantasize about it being done therefore allowing our minds to wonder off into that land of possibilities….. hmm, secretary, hmmm girl at the laundromat…blah blah blah!

So straight shoot em, afterall, we do have brains. Don’t treat us like we do not.

And that’s the saddest part of what I find most interesting about the way women think about men.

Also, women, why would you rather hear a man say, “Oh honey, I love that dress on you” even if it does make you look fat and he doesn’t mean it? If you feel like you are fat, shouldn’t that be enough to feel like it should be your opinion and your choice? Don’t take this like I am bashing, but if a man is insecure about something as small, wouldn’t you just say get over it? Why? Because he is a man?

Getting his opinion is only affirming your idea that you are quite possibly trying to change him. If he doesn’t compliment you, you try and get him to say nice things which is a roundabout way of getting either into an arguement or subtle way of changing him. If you know you can’t change him, why try? Hmm, that makes me think you (as women) feel men are dumb, when in fact, the mere fact that we ignore this is our way of not conforming to your psycho analytical approach to changing the way we think though we may not understand your reasoning. Think about it.

Besides, women don’t dress for men anyhow. You can simply tell this by the way and how much women look at other women.

Fellas, Pay attention to the women!!!!