A relationship can get pretty confusing especially since men and women are so drastically different. Want to make your relationship work? Here are some facts about men that you should know!
1. Didn’t I say ‘I love you’ just yesterday?
While women insist on saying those three little words far too often, it somehow isn’t that important to most men. Accept it. It doesn’t mean he loves you any less! Watch his actions. That should communicate louder than his words.
2. You look great honey!
If you don’t want a standard response, don’t ask a standard question! It throws men off as there’s no right answer. You’re going to disbelieve him anyway. So save him the panic attack and ask your kids instead.
3. I wasn’t staring at her!
Boys will be boys. You can’t complain if your guy notices your pretty office receptionist. If she’s pretty, he will notice! That’s his primal tendency. You can’t change what comes naturally to him and there’s no need to be overly jealous about it.
4. You’re not ready? It’s late!
Well, he did say the party starts at 7. He doesn’t understand about being fashionably late. His idea of entertainment is not waiting in the car while you find that missing shoe. Try and respect his time. After all you could be spending more time together.
5. That’s a nice dress
Men love it when you take their advice on fashion. Why? They feel good that you’re dressing up for them and not to impress other women… or men! If he likes you in lilac, then by all means buy lilac. He will appreciate the thought.
6. Are you bored?
He may be talking about F1 or his new tool kit, but look interested. It’s the least you can do for all the hours that you’ve tortured him with beauty talk and gossip on the neighbours!
7. You’re simply stunning!
Wouldn’t you want to hear those words from your man? Then, don’t let yourself go! He wants to be the luckiest guy in the room when you both walk in as a couple.
8. I’m not thinking anything…
Don’t bombard your man with questions just to find out how he’s feeling. He may not know what’s going on inside him. Sometimes, giving him a little space will help him sort things out peacefully.
9. Yes, I’m wearing this!
Don’t ask your man ‘Will you be wearing that?’ just after he has dressed up. Isn’t it obvious? If you want him to dress better, then choose his clothes before he puts them on. It will certainly save you both a lot of time!
10. Let me just fix it!
Men do not appreciate the ‘guessing game’. If you’re got a problem, tell him. He will want to find a solution that’s quick and fuss-free.
Men are wonderful creations if you know the inside secrets of how to deal with them on a daily basis. Hopefully these tips will cement your relationship for a long future!
Boys will be boys..You can never change them..
Chicks! “…and that’s all I got to say about that”. ~Forrest Gump
Well, let me say this…I have always found it interesting to hear what women think of men and how to deal with them like it’s some chore like taking out the garbage which pretty much is thought of as a mans job. That’s the really sad part about it. Responsibly, we should all take fine tuning our understandings to our significant other more seriously, open hearted and honestly.
Straight out, we men do not like to feel like we are being thrown a bone and just appeased in any situation and at times we just want to be left alone. Simple as that.
If you are just doing it to appease him, somewhere down the line there may possibly be a break up. Disasterous!!! is that what you want?
Now regarding sex, I find it really hard to stay interested if she is not capable of understanding me without words….and that doesn’t mean to just appease me meaning, orally, if you do not like to give it, simply don’t do it but remember, if we like it, it makes more sense to be with a woman who likes giving it instead of just doing it to please him. Trust me, it’s so much better :) At times we may fantasize about it being done therefore allowing our minds to wonder off into that land of possibilities….. hmm, secretary, hmmm girl at the laundromat…blah blah blah!
So straight shoot em, afterall, we do have brains. Don’t treat us like we do not.
And that’s the saddest part of what I find most interesting about the way women think about men.
Also, women, why would you rather hear a man say, “Oh honey, I love that dress on you” even if it does make you look fat and he doesn’t mean it? If you feel like you are fat, shouldn’t that be enough to feel like it should be your opinion and your choice? Don’t take this like I am bashing, but if a man is insecure about something as small, wouldn’t you just say get over it? Why? Because he is a man?
Getting his opinion is only affirming your idea that you are quite possibly trying to change him. If he doesn’t compliment you, you try and get him to say nice things which is a roundabout way of getting either into an arguement or subtle way of changing him. If you know you can’t change him, why try? Hmm, that makes me think you (as women) feel men are dumb, when in fact, the mere fact that we ignore this is our way of not conforming to your psycho analytical approach to changing the way we think though we may not understand your reasoning. Think about it.
Besides, women don’t dress for men anyhow. You can simply tell this by the way and how much women look at other women.
Fellas, Pay attention to the women!!!!
I can this rules,and I follow them!!
Like ALL woman SHOULD do!
Very easy!
Mona
~If you don’t want a standard response, don’t ask a standard question!~
I really like this sentence!!! I can’t agree more with thi! For me, this is appicable to all our daily life NOT only to men! lol
all this rules can be applied to whole life, dear :)
ave…can i know you??
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…if only i’ve read this column three days before,..then we could still be together until now… too bad for me, but now i know what to do next..this column says it all! and i’m really ashamed of myself…
Fuck that, I do ask my man if he looked at a girl and he always says “no I was looking at, dada whatever” and yes, I believe him because if he wants to look at a girl… here I am! He knows not to go straying, we have a very close and jealous relationship and we’re okay with that, we love each other just the way we are.
Different stokes for different folks, Dixie. :)
Interesting tips, I would like to add one more tip.
“Don’t try to change, try to understand”
http://www.mamachoice.com/category/Love-Relationships.aspx
“Fuck that?” How eloquent. That’s one reason I don’t get along with women. I get sick and tired of the fact that there are so few ladies left in the world. You expect a man to be a gentleman (as you should; and if you don’t, that says plenty about the type of person you are) and you need to act like a lady in return.
Well i think we should band together and overthrow this man shit now!