What are the signs he’s married? Today, in the age of Internet dating, I found it hard to tell if the guy is married or not! When you date someone online, it is easy to date a man who is married without even realizing it. If you are having long distance romance, then it is even easier. I suppose there are women out there that are guilty for this kind of crap too, but right now, I am going to focus on men. I want to look at 10 signs he is married. These are some signs you need to take note if you are still dating. I’m not going to deal with the obvious one, which is that you have never been over to his house…
10. You do Not Have His Home Phone Number.
You ask for his home phone number, but he does not give it to you. He will only give you his cell phone number. When his cell phone battery runs out and you want to speak with him on the home phone, he always makes up an excuse not to. He will not even call you through his home phone. He’s married, he isn’t stupid. He knows you will get a whiff of that ring and when you finally do, he does not want you calling his house. His five kids have school in the morning and his wife looks no good without proper sleep. Girl, if you do not have that landline, then he is obviously hiding something for you.
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so terrible when people cheat on their spouse. we shouldn't need signs ever but it's good to know be… See morecause people do end up doing it :(
Theo, Yeah they're alot of people out there who are cheating on their partner, that's why now a day… See mores trust is difficult to find! Unfotunately!
Hey Theo, yeah as sad as it is, there are people out there who cheat..!
Cheating is horrible. In a recent online debate forum I saw some people defend it saying Cheating is… See more healthy for marriages.
Fatima, However said that sounds like really unhappy with the realtion ship he has with the partner… See more involved! Every now and than a person needs some exitment, ok I understand it, but should it really be with a person's feelings and trust!?
Hey Fatima, I do agree with people when they say that cheating is not easy to avoid, but to say any… See morething positive, let alone that it is healthy for marriages, that is just delusional (or wishful)
Sounds like a misdirected need for excitement in a marriage, huh?
I guess the tan line is the final proof, although some men don't like to wear the ring. Really Fatim… See morea? well I think this is how the people have become these days and it's very difficult to find someone that really doesn't cheat. And I bet that those who said that cheating is healthy for marriage were probably men and they were not thinking about the return favor, or just women who married out of interest :)
Tavia, I totally agree. Today's world and the people in it are really without morals. I wouldn'… See moret justify cheating! I would definitly not give another chance!
Hey Tavia, The tan line would definitely be something that you couldn't deny! though the men who do… See moren't prefer wearing rings would be able to get off easy on that one.
I don't think we should need signs that he's married. IF he is married he shouln't give off the senc… See moree that he's single in the first place. I personally hate a cheater as much as a homewrecker. Why would anyone want to hurt someone else so senselessly?
Hey Alice, ideally sure we shouldn't need signs. But then there are always the men (and even women … See moresadly) who are married but go out of their way to cheat AND hide their marital status. Hopefully none of us ever need to make use of these tips, but if we do, we atleast know what to look for!
I don't feel the land line home phone is a good indicator these days. I only know two people in the… See more circles I run in that have land line phones. Most have two cell phones, some more.
Meadows, Yeah now a days alot of people have to lines, one for fun and the other one for the wife! … See moreI've seen these things happen and it's digusting! :S
Hey Meadows, You do make a valid point there. I guess as an extension of the land line bit, there i… See mores also the bit about the guy not taking you to his place or even letting you know where he lives.
I definitly agree about the home phone number! If you don;t have it that means either he's married o… See morer dating some one. Always be careful to trust him after this particular detail. I have to be sincere about the - buses his own dishes. and putting the toilet seat up when he pees, parts that actually they are not true. Some men are used to wash their own dishes, cause it their routine at home when they're still living with their parents or either they're trained good and they want to help! Most married man search other realtion ships cause they're not satisfied enough at home! Basically they search a little adventure to brighten up their days. Finding a married guy who really falls in love is a little difficult for me to absorb! I loved the part abaout the panties, haha! I totally agree with you there. When you're talking to him online or on phone and he ends the conversation abrutally that means he has something to hide! Wife caught him maybe! OR she's near!! I go all the way with how I feel! I really believe in that. I try to use my mind and heart at the same time which some times it's really difficult but when I have that gut feeling I totally goo 100% by it! Some things women can feel them and in my opinion ladies your gut feeling is what will help you most!
Hey Xannyyy, now that you mention it, I think you're right about the dishes and the toilet bit. The… See morere indeed are some men who are just so much better trained (either self-trained or by parents) and know to keep the place clean. and abruptly hanging up would definitely be a sign i'd look for apart from the home number/address issue!
I know men who are perfectly happy at home, but cheat just for the excitement of getting away with s… See moreomething or have gigantic egos that have to be pumped endlessly..that gets tiring..like having another child. All the guys I know who have cheated always stick with their wives..they want their cake and be able to eat it too.
Hey Mary, I don't know if you could grade the cheaters on any scale.. but if you could, i'd say the … See moreones you described are the worst. p.s. i never got the whole 'have your cake and eat it too'!!!
I could never understand how a man can get away with such evil....so dirty and unworthy!!! My proble… See morem with the matter is majority of the looser cannot even be honest about the situation. A woman sometimes don't have an option intel some of the signs are aware. Such scum bags.
If you feel that there's something wrong with the guy, then there probably is. Especially when your … See moreintuition is right most of the time. Just don't jump into a relationship right away if you feel like there's something fishy going on.
Met a guy on a singles site...would stop by "for a few hours" on his way from MO to VA...always an e… See morexcuse..no address for me to send a birthday card...no home phone number..could never reach him on the weekends or evenings...I am 56,,,just realized how ignorant I really am...I may be from WV...but am educated and fell for this BS....I am ashamed of myself...follow your instincts....ladies....please....!!!!!!!!! I finally told him to take a hike.....too much for me...
I'm so sorry that, that happened to you! :( That is horrible. Perk up though and now you'll know … See morefor next time, if he seems shady, he probably is.