http://allwomenstalk.com/10-most-common-relationship-break-dealers/ The Only Women Blog Sun, 22 Nov 2009 22:21:28 -1000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.5 hourly 1 http://allwomenstalk.com/10-most-common-relationship-break-dealers/comment-page-1/#comment-519233 Fada Wed, 17 Jun 2009 18:01:17 +0000 http://allwomenstalk.com/10-most-common-relationship-break-dealers/#comment-519233 I was in a relationship with a girl in my class. Somewhere around october last year, she asked for a breakup. We had gone out for 3yrs already. Out of frustation and pain, I waited for 3months. When I heard nothing from her, I decided to go out with a different girl. We are actually classmates and we do everything together when in school and are even next door neighbors. She asked for the breakup during a long vaccation period. When school reopened, we came back and I realised she was still interested in me and wanted us to continue the relationship. When I mentioned I had gone in for a new girl, she wept bitterly and for about 3months, she was asking and waiting for a comeback. I told her I needed time to break up with my new girl. She agreed to give me the time. But I must admit that, within that period, there were certain things I did or said to her that were very hurting. She however forgave me when I apologised. About a month ago, her ex visited and since we are next door neighbours, they stayed in the room next to me. When I realised I was about losing her, I looked back. When her ex left, I told her I was ready to come back. She assured me she was going to make all the time for me, and break up with her ex because she did not love him.She told me he would be coming around again so when he comes, she will ask for a breakup. When the guy came, my girlfriend explained things to him and asked that they quit the relationship. To our dismay, he told my girlfriend that, it is a competition, and whoever wins, wins. He also said if only she was going to leave both of us, he would give up but if she would leave him and come back to me, he would never agree to that. Before he left, he told my girlfriend that he cannot do what she is asking him to do. He stayed for one complete weeks and you can imagine having your girlfriend in the next room with another man. My girlfriend is the type who finds it very difficult to hurt someone. When the guy comes, she gives him all her attention, ignoring me. Sometimes I really wonder if she is doing what she says she is doing. But I trust her. How best do you think my girlfriend should handle this matter so we can break away freely from this guy? Do you think this guy will ever give up? What should I do as the man at this moment in time? I really need help Fada. I was in a relationship with a girl in my class. Somewhere around october last year, she asked for a breakup. We had gone out for 3yrs already. Out of frustation and pain, I waited for 3months. When I heard nothing from her, I decided to go out with a different girl. We are actually classmates and we do everything together when in school and are even next door neighbors. She asked for the breakup during a long vaccation period. When school reopened, we came back and I realised she was still interested in me and wanted us to continue the relationship. When I mentioned I had gone in for a new girl, she wept bitterly and for about 3months, she was asking and waiting for a comeback. I told her I needed time to break up with my new girl. She agreed to give me the time. But I must admit that, within that period, there were certain things I did or said to her that were very hurting. She however forgave me when I apologised.
About a month ago, her ex visited and since we are next door neighbours, they stayed in the room next to me. When I realised I was about losing her, I looked back. When her ex left, I told her I was ready to come back. She assured me she was going to make all the time for me, and break up with her ex because she did not love him.She told me he would be coming around again so when he comes, she will ask for a breakup. When the guy came, my girlfriend explained things to him and asked that they quit the relationship. To our dismay, he told my girlfriend that, it is a competition, and whoever wins, wins. He also said if only she was going to leave both of us, he would give up but if she would leave him and come back to me, he would never agree to that. Before he left, he told my girlfriend that he cannot do what she is asking him to do. He stayed for one complete weeks and you can imagine having your girlfriend in the next room with another man.
My girlfriend is the type who finds it very difficult to hurt someone. When the guy comes, she gives him all her attention, ignoring me. Sometimes I really wonder if she is doing what she says she is doing. But I trust her.
How best do you think my girlfriend should handle this matter so we can break away freely from this guy?
Do you think this guy will ever give up?
What should I do as the man at this moment in time?
I really need help
Fada.

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]]> http://allwomenstalk.com/10-most-common-relationship-break-dealers/comment-page-1/#comment-347335 Melonique Sat, 28 Jun 2008 17:44:44 +0000 http://allwomenstalk.com/10-most-common-relationship-break-dealers/#comment-347335 I tried breaking up with my boyfriend of 7 years but he just wont understand ,If i tell him to go he comes back the following day and just sits without saying anything .I tried to break up with him several times but he does not understand that I am not inlove with him anymore I tried breaking up with my boyfriend of 7 years but he just wont understand ,If i tell him to go he comes back the following day and just sits without saying anything .I tried to break up with him several times but he does not understand that I am not inlove with him anymore

]]> http://allwomenstalk.com/10-most-common-relationship-break-dealers/comment-page-1/#comment-323251 Glamourgirl Wed, 28 May 2008 07:11:54 +0000 http://allwomenstalk.com/10-most-common-relationship-break-dealers/#comment-323251 Setting up expectations are needed in a relationship but these expectations need to be realistic in order to keep the relationship alive. Setting up expectations are needed in a relationship but these expectations need to be realistic in order to keep the relationship alive.

]]> http://allwomenstalk.com/10-most-common-relationship-break-dealers/comment-page-1/#comment-284062 GlamourGirl Wed, 02 Apr 2008 23:22:33 +0000 http://allwomenstalk.com/10-most-common-relationship-break-dealers/#comment-284062 Most of the time, we lose our identity when hooked with the wrong person. The person we love should not change us but should accept who we are. Most of the time, we lose our identity when hooked with the wrong person. The person we love should not change us but should accept who we are.

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