8. Friends …
Get your friends to help if you’re serious about finding a man. Attend parties where there is a good mix of singles. Be friendly, outgoing and be seen! You can even throw a party yourself and tell friends to bring their friends along.
9. Gym …
While you exercise your muscles you can exercise your heart as well. The gym is a great place to meet single men. You’ll know in advance that they value their health and you know what to expect when thir expensive suit comes off, so that’s a good starting point!
10. Favorite diner or restaurant …
Notice the guy who’s having dinner by himself at the far corner table? Well, what you waiting for? Get a waiter to introduce you or do it yourself. Either way, make a move.
11. Work …
Either in your office or in the accounting on the 19th floor there must be that cute, nice, good-looking guy who makes your heart tick. Figure out where exactly he works, what’s his name, if he’s available, and let the flirting beging! Who knows, maybe the guy in the next cubicle is the one you were looking for all this time!
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12. Vacation …
I know they say that relationships that started on vacation never last, but that was way back in the 20th century! Now that air fares are getting lower and lower and Internet live video chats is the most common thing out there – why not to give a great man you met on a vacation a chance? Who knows, maybe in a couple of months you’ll decide you want to live together?
13. Parks …
When I say parks I mean day time, safe places downtown, where people go to get some fresh air during lunch break, after work or on weekends. For your own safety, please don’t stay there after dark. But during the day, you’ll be surprised at how many young good looking men spend an hour or so sitting on a bench reading, working on their laptops or just watching other people. Just sit next to the one you like the most and if he is in the mood for conversation, you’ll know it!
14. Airplane …
These days we spend a good couple of hours every month flying here and there. Next time you have a flight, look out for cute guys who might too be flying the same plane. And who knows, maybe your seat will be next to his!
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Do you know about other great places to meet good guys? Please do share …
Very well! Are you dudes agree with me? When I read it I was like: oh man!Sounds great! This is just what I was searching for! All is true, and checked, I’m sure.
I agree. I met my guy through my friends.
[...] than a few years ago. We are starting to accept online dating more and more as a genuine way to meet someone. Still, even now, many people do not take it seriously and ask themselves if it can work at all. [...]
It depends on where you live. If you’re living in not-so-progressive city such as Atlanta, for example, it is difficult to meet eligible men because these areas are not very populated and in addition to that, the crime rate is high, meaning single men are more likely to be sex offenders, (usually over the age of 35 and/or African American). Plus, eligible men, mostly White, in Atlanta often tend to have extremely high, rigid standards of women, due to the traditional Southern Christian culture and their ignorant, aloof personalities. Above all, Atlanta isn’t so diversified and it is the worst place for single women to live in.
In fact, decent guys in Atlanta become easily turned off by confident, intelligent, assertive, and beautiful women, especially if they look foreign to them. They often think of them as being unfeminine, aggressive, and/or slutty. They would rather have a slave than a partner. So, in other words, all you single ladies living in Atlanta or any not-so-progressive city or town, try to move to a more progressive city instead because that’s where you can meet eligible men who are more flexible .
I met my husband at an online Kabbalah class :)) And I know 3 great couples who met the same way, we are friends now :)
PS: It was not Berg/Madonna Kabbalah.
It’s the Classic one, from Bnei Baruch Academy of Kabbalah (based in Israel).
Singlebands.com is a wristband Singles wear to let others know they are available, otherwise how do we know if your not taken?
thanks, Cathie
i would love to hear from you often and frequently for more tips.
thank you.
I like # 4. Church …
“Church is a good place to meet men who share the same faith and moral grounding. If you’re a single mom, this may be a good place to find serious men who are looking for a life partner rather than a night out on the town.”
I am a single mom and it’s my prayer that my future husband will have the same level of faith as I have and that we will belong to the same spiritual family. :)
I met my husband through friends. My best friend is married to his best friend, but yet we hadn’t ever met. Finally one day 4 1/2 yrs ago they decided we should meet, all well, the rest is history. We are now happily married. Your friends are good judges of your character, so give it a try.
Met my boyfriend in the office. Hung out a lot at the office cafeteria and coffee station. :D
Dear Lisa (comment above) Atlanta cannot be the worst place to meet men, because I like in Calgary, Alberta and this is BY FAR the worst place in the world to meet men.
Church? Work? These are two of the WORST places to meet people. If you’re in church, concentrate on the word & not meeting men! At work, concentrate on keeping your job and not sparking up drama. My grandpa used to say, “Don’t get your honey where you make your money”.
Hmm… I like that saying of your grandpa, it does make sense. It was such a mess when I had to tell a guy from my work off and he got pissed off with me and there was this weird tension in the office…
Your grandpa may be right after all!
Hi Laila…your posting made me rethink my preference. True huh?! :)
I met my current boyfriend at the park. We both had dogs and they were playing together so it started the natureal conversation between the “parents”. It helps that he was soo hot too ;-)
Here is another article on original places to meet men:
http://datedaily.com/2009/07/4_original_places_meet_men/
to Rosy:
Hi Rosy, thanks for the link! :)